Clitoral Stimulation in labor

Intresting subject, never thought about orgasms in a birthing situation before...

When my wife was in labor, she did ask me to rub her nipples as it did help her with the pain

So is nipple stimulation accepted for inducing labour, or is that also an urban legend?

If I ask my female doctor to do that, would she while I was in labor? I believe that would add that extra level of sexiness to something I find sexy.

A genuine medical professional inappropriately touching a patient would be grounds for legal action.

In a role play scenario of course anything is possible with the parties consent.

@Rockdoc I would never do that to my doctor. I actually like and admire her and her honesty!

@Rockdoc I think any human torching another human is grounds for legal action! Humans should not torch others. Sorry, I had to, and I know I am not one to talk about mispelled words turned into other words that have way different meanings.... :-)

but yes, any medical professional inappropriately touching another should be removed from their practice/office.

@Rockdoc I think any human torching another human is grounds for legal action!

But without their torch, how will the (UK) doctor be able to see their patient? In that case I think torching is required.

I think this is totally possible. There are people who have tried this in real life and it worked. Sexual things r used often to help induce labor and relax a woman while she labors. Maybe cuz it's still taboo ppl dnt want to admit it but it has worked.

@Rockdoc is a doctor touching a pregnant woman's abdomen grounds for legal action? Seriously, that comment could be taken the wrong way. My doctor was helping me see where pain is normal and where pain isn't for being pregnant. I'm sure you meant in parts covered by undergarments...

I meant what I said. To reiterate. Any medical professional touching a patient inappropriately in an actual medical situation should be dealt with as the law in that country dictates.

Within the boundaries of a role play scenario then it's up to the consenting parties to agree what is appropriate.

Your initial post is below.

If I ask my female doctor to do that, would she while I was in labor? I believe that would add that extra level of sexiness to something I find sexy.

I don't think any medical professional would actually deliberately stimulate a patients clitoris or bring a woman to a climax while they were delivering. I know in the UK they would be up in front of the GMC ( fitness to practise tribunal), lose their ability to practice and most likely be facing criminal charges and place on the sex offenders register as a result .

Pitocin is the usual stimulant.

Have heard that breast massage can help but believing a Dr would massage ones clitoris is let's say beyond belief. It may work but would never be condoned.

Having experienced several births I can assure anyone who hasn't, if one day get the choice of gas and air and drugs or they can rub your clit take the drugs !!

Even if my husband had been pumping my clit and fingering my arsehole nothing would distract from the sensation that your entire pelvis is coming out of you during labour.

If you want clit stim you will have to do it yourselves, no dr or midwife will do that.

It's like when they advice perineal massage in late pregnancy to reduce risk of tearing its something for you and your partner do at home not in the Drs office.

For generations, women who are overdue, and anxious to get into labour have been told to have a really good fuck, and several orgasms. This is BEFORE labour. It may induce, and it may just be a wonderful relaxant. Once labour has started, I think most mom's to be will tell you there is nothing sexy about it, and if you tried to make it so, a sound beating about the head and ears is the likely result.

We didn't do clitoral stimulation, but we did try nipple stimulation during prelabor. In our case yes it caused noticeable increases in the frequency, strength and duration of the contractions. We had discussed it beforehand but I wound up stopping because I didn't want to continue making it "worse" for my wife without explicit right-there-and-then requests.

No, I don't think she found it pleasurable once things started heating up. The contractions took over her world. I doubt clitoral stimulation would have been pleasurable either, but supposedly women modulate their pain response during and following an orgasm so there might be some benefit there, but I wasn't going to try it. I was too busy supporting her in other ways.

I was hospitalised from 21 weeks with my first pregnancy . The day before I was due to be induced at 35 weeks I was allowed home for one night . The midwife said ' Nik, Go home and enjoy yourself . Practice the three B's . A bath, a bonk and a balti . We had sex and then I had a nice hot bath. We didn't have the balti as I don't like spicy food . But I did have a show that night . Nothing happened labour wise though after that and I was still given the pessaries to get labour going.

Nik

There was only one other person in my world that I let massage my clit other then myself, and I was cussing at him the whole time.And if anyone thinks I was about to rub one out you are kidding. maybe works for some but I will never know

I have 2 kids. 13 year ago i had my son..it was supposed to be the easier birth. NO..i was miserable. i was over due. our doctor said that having sex would help. I had NO desire for sex. when i finally went into labor my husband did push/rub my back and my doctor was calling out the centimeters and he also massaged my labia . i don't know if that helped but it took my mind off the pain.

We did nipple and clit stim. It really helped with the pain. I was able to take my mind off it.

Only a man whom has never delivered a baby would suggest this. I was cursing and yelling at everyone in the room while pushing. I think i would have knocked someones lights out if they tried to sexually touch me during that. I wa too busy concentrating on what i was doing to think of climaxing. The last thing on my mind.

Or one who was present and fully engaged with a woman who was delivering a baby. She wasn't thinking like that, it wouldn't have helped and probably would have made it worse.

We did try nipple stimulation in the beginning phases. I called it off because it made the contractions hit harder and faster. I guess that's what it is "supposed" to do, but in the beginning phases I wanted to try and make things as gentle for her as possible. When things started heating up it wasn't something I was even thinking of trying. I guess maybe if labor had "stalled out" as a last ditch before Pitocin.

I am a guy so I can't say for sure but I think my wife would have thrown something at me had I even suggested it. With that kind of concentration and pain I wouldn't think she would have even felt it.

I say in most situations at least try it. Especially when it comes to pain relief in labor.

I have never given birth myself personally, but I have been a part of the labor process for three different women in my life. Be assured that during labor, especially in the mid to end stages of labor, the last thing on a woman's mind is hormonal fluxes! My experience tells me that most any woman at that point is simply in survival mode and would happily slaughter anyone who interfered!

Ive seen a video of an orgasmic birth, so while I’m sure it’s very VERY rare, it can happen. If it was previously discussed with the mother, I could see trying nipple or clitoral stimulation during labor, but any man that tries this on his own accord will surely be de-balled if she could reach!

If the couple wanted to try nipple play, I’m sure it could just be done during birth. If they wanted to stimulate her clitoris, I think they better ask/tell the Dr well beforehand as they are going to be working down there. I’m not sure what reaction they’ll get, but anything that helps the patient, within reason, should be accomodated. What do real ob/gyns on zity think?

And I agree that no doctor would sexually touch a patients nipples or clitoris, even if the patient asked for it, as it would be inappropriate and grounds for malpractice or abuse charges. I would think that a woman in labor is considered someone unable to give consent.

This is one of the most moronic things I have ever read , even if there is science research to back up this claim , no Dr would do this or even consider this .