Diaperpailpat wrote:
The first one, years ago, wouldn't let me into her pants because she wanted to save it for marriage, but she was OK with me wearing diapers. Then a few years later she decided she wanted to have sex with me. Then as soon as she started letting me into her pants, suddenly she didn't want me wearing my diapers anymore. It was "Now that you have this, you no longer need those!" So I think it was something she allowed to keep me happy while she wouldn't give me any pussy. But once she did, my diapers had to go
Almost word for word, this happened to me with my ex-wife, except we were both saving ourselves for marriage. It didn't end well because she wanted sex all the time and I'm asexual, so yeah… “No regrets there!” She's unfortunately in my life still because we share a child.
I told my high school girlfriend, and her being a thumbsucker, she glided right into my ABDL desires by participating, diapers and all. The relationship didn't end well because she was a bit too immature for me.
I told my college girlfriend and she opened up to me about her kinks so she was okay with it. Didn't participate much, but I wore openly around her and she was cool. Relationship ended due to religious conflicts, which was kind of sad.
Then I met and told my ex-wife, whom I mentioned above.
Then I found my current wife of 8 years (and going strong) on diapermates.com, so it was kind of obvious from the get-go. She immigrated from Canada to the United States and we've been enjoying our escapades ever since. I often tell her that we shaved 10 years off of our relationship due to both of us being ABDL, which is nice because I never once had to explain the love of diapers to her. Win-win.
Long story short, don't keep who you are from your partner. If they love you, they'll accept it. If not, that's a red flag to move on. It's not the worst thing in the world.