Much easier to find guys to have mutual gratification with.
In general yes, guys are much more promiscuous than women.
Women have become too much trouble, too complicated, too many issues, some potentially too nagging, too annoying, they're likely taken if you're attracted to them, & they come with baggage that can be at times hard to deal with.
Well if that's not a huge sweeping generalization, I don't know what is. One could easily replace women with men in that statement and have it be just as valid. Men can come with all of those same issues, too annoying, too taken, too much baggage etc etc etc.
With all the recent harassment claims made public in the media, I expect to see guys further backing off, for fear of big trouble, big scandal, legal action, losing their jobs, etc.
Something tells me that guys who aren't inclined to sleep with men aren't suddenly going to start sleeping with men all because of other men not knowing how to act like a human being.
Everything I just mentioned all leads to discouragement. Which leads to a tendency to just give up.
Life's tough, get a helmet.
Guys are more clean & direct. Once you learn to find some gay or bi guys attractive, you can arrange a mutual greeting, get your mutual satisfaction, and move on cleanly without any bullshit. You don't even have to make any attempt to show appreciation by sending flowers or anything.
Some guys can be more direct like this, but again, huge sweeping generalizations. There are certainly a lot of bi and gay men who don't do one night stands or promiscuous sex. They too wouldn't mind being shown some appreciation from time to time.
I love receiving oral. For me, it's one of the greatest sexual feelings in the world. How much will I have to go through to find and get a woman to give me oral? On the other hand, I've had several guys tell me they would give me oral without reciprocity any time I want it.
What you are saying is, you prefer guys because they are easy and don't want to put in the work. That's fine too. That is why often when STI stats are published they are listed as "men who have sex with men" as there are a lot of men who do not identify as gay/bisexual, yet have sex with men. It's the whole "we're not gay, we're just helping each other out" thing.
Sure it's shallow and selfish. But no one's likely to care for your needs besides you.
Well with that sort of attitude...selfishness is not an attractive trait.