How can I get my girlfriend to take an enema ?

That is one good thing about my better half, she and I always talk about what we both enjoy, she knows I like enemas and just anal play in general both giving and recieving, just hard coaxing her to get into it....LOL-your on the right track!!

Good luck!

My problem is not breaking the ice... but continuing what we are doing

After my wife and I got married I first brought up the subject of enemas when I was badly constipated and told her I need to take a couple of enemas for relief. I had left the bag hanging in the shower to dry and she saw it and later asked me if I like taking enemas. I told her I enjoyed the enemas and would be happy to give her one if she wanted an enema. It was a few weeks later that she reluctantly asked for an enema (never had one before) and I gave her a couple of enemas and she said she felt so much better. Actually, she got hooked on taking enemas and takes them on a regular basis.

Try talking about the health aspects of enemas (there are many)

My girlfriend and I have anal sex a lot and it doesn't always end up "clean". How could I talk to her about enemas without freaking her out?

You managed to get your dick in her ass without freaking her out, didn't you? 😁

Just be open about it.

Be open and honest about it. I had to have a former lover help me with an enema before anal so it would help him turn him on.

I like the approach to make enemas a prelude to anal sex. Pretty reasonable and difficult to argue against.

You might start out with a bulb or two rather than a bag just to see how she likes the sensations. Use plenty of lube and play with her first. These might help to pave the way for an enema session before anal sex.

Well obviously you don't like the end result. On the other hand if you can change your way of thinking (I know; not easy) you can incorporate some dirty talk along with anal sex and tell her how dirty she is in very descriptive terms(in both regards.) This will either turn her on even more knowing you are looking, or embarrass her into doing something about it. Or it could just piss her off. I know, this is not very good advice.

Look you fix her a lovely dinner some wine whatever you bring how much you love your relationship and how you feel trust when you have anal sex You bring up douche and how she likes to freshin up after sex Now switch the matter over to anal and how much enjoyable for both of you if she freshend up anally before hand. If that does not work get her drunk she will never know

You all have alot of great ideas, i may have to try one on my wife

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I like the approach to make enemas a prelude to anal sex. Pretty reasonable and difficult to argue against.

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I think it helps to make people feel better if they were assured they didn't feel "dirty" inside.Puts their minds at ease.

Be careful not to push the enema so much that she won't want the anal-sex either

I'm still in the phase of telling her that I have been doing it for years. She would start being a bit verbal about having a second life and ask what else I am doing. I don't think she's ready for the answer to that question.

I think I have wait a few more years to bring my wife into the enema play ... She is to "serious" about the sex, although I'm a sex addict 😃 ... I hope in the future to bring her slowly into my kind of play...I am alone for the moment

You can use a condom until you convince her to have an enema. Maybe you can suggest her to give you an enema first ...

I agree about being open about it. A "clean" anal sex experience is much more pleasant than the opposite. Also agree with using a bulb. A few bulbs to flush out the rectum is really all you need if you're talking about basic anal sex. A full enema isn't necessary, and unless it's planned well in advance, there can be consequences.

Here's a thought. You might want to use the term "anal douche" vs. enema, again, suggesting a bulb. Most women are familiar with douching. Douche is not a "scary" word like enema can be for many people.

Arianna

Yes, anal douch sounds good. In fact using an old fashioned bulb douch would be good because that nice thick nozzle is great for warming up to anal sex.

I read about the bananas and thought I would mention to him that I tried it to see if he wanted to play with me. If he asks how or where I would tell him about this site and ease into telling him that is why sometimes I am more 'anally active'.

I also have a gf who I'm slowly doing anal play with. She seemed to open to it early in our relationship. And has told me several times she likes "everything" we do. Lately we have been (I have been) playing with butt plugs. They come out dirty from her but mine come out cleaner because of the enemas I do. I think this weekend I'm leaving the bag out instead of hiding it. I'll put it on the upper shelf in the bathroom and see what happens after that. I'm hoping she isn't freaked out and maybe even interested. Wish me luck everyone.

I;ve found that being direct is always the best approach. If you please your lover, she/he should be open to allowing you to please them in ways they've never tried.