How can I get my girlfriend to take an enema ?

Give it time. Some of the other people say that it takes years. Ask if she can give you one first. And have the biggest o ever.

I'm of the some opinion!, exploration and a lot of patience!

I'm weded from two years and my wife have not really understood how much me really love enemas!... but she is like an agel! i can't introduce her speedly in this world, probably it will keep years! ... but she know i bought a little bulb and that i used it some times! but she have not yet i masturbate with it

Get a conversation going about what was the most kinky sexual escapade you've had in the past. Tell her about the time you and a former GF decided to try a champagne enema.

That for some reason makes for excitement and is less clinical.

Beg, plead, stomp, protest!!! well, first juust try convincing her to take just one, if she likes it, then she herself will be asking for more. if she doesnt, well, tough luck i guess... or maybe, pounce on her when she's sick, got constipation, and then say that an enema is the best solution, see how she reacts to it.

Waking up in her a curiosity, but in an erotic way. It will be the beginning of a very interesting chat that will finish exciting her and wanting to prove it. Never impose it to him, always suggest it.

Several years ago, during a rather long "make-out" session, I left the bedroom and returned with a full barium enema bag and told my girlfriend I was going to give her an enema. She had never had one; let me give it to her...and I went down on her as she took it in.

To this day, she remembers it as one of the most profound sexual experiences of her life.

I leave the book back to eaden out.....it recomends enemas for every thing. Girls seem less threatend this way.health is a great ice breaker!

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I find that the best way of introducing a new GF to the joys of giving and receiving, is by NOT trying to start off with an enema just for the sake of an enema.

There must be trust.

I think the best way to introduce enemas into your relationship is by first creating a situation involving analplay during foreplay and sex. That then gives you an excuse, to want to be clean inside your anus, for them to finger whenever they want.

You can say "That was really nice when you fingered my anus, but I'm embarrased that there may be some shit inside me". "Maybe you should give me a suppository or an enema to wash me out first so that my arse is always clean for you".

Then go shopping toghether, but start out small, eg a squeeze bulb enema or Higginson hose with the inline bulb and nozzle, for her to use on you first up. Your objective is to use this on her arse as soon as she is comfortable using it in you. So don't dare reveal your own 3 litre can with the big dildo nozz you may already have hidden up in the back of your wardrobe. That comes later.

Everyone is different and we are rarely the first lovers, and usually not the last. This is just one example. Maybe it will work for you. And it is not gender specific, so it's the same whether you are a Girl or a Guy.

So, based on her feedback, after she has given you an enema and fingered your nice clean arse to her heart's desire, and if she now trusts you sufficiently, then you can suggest giving her an enema too.

I am male and I was originally introduced to giving and receiving by a young skinny GF way back in 1973. The very first time we had sex together, she started fingering my arse while I was cumming. This really felt good when she hit my prostate. But later she said she had to shift a big turd out of the way to get her fingers in, and this really embarassed me.

Then we went for a walk to the local shopping centre and she bought a big red German douche syringe with the long thick black smooth ebonite nozzle, which used to be plentiful in Australia in any Chemist Shop in the 70's - but long since disappeared.

When we returned to my flat, she filled my bathroom wash-basin with hot water, and sloshed a bar of soap in circles to make it all suddsy. Then, she bent me over the bath, greased up my anus with KY jelly, and proceeded to pump the entire soapy contents of my wash-basin up my anus, one long squeeze at a time. Then fill it up, lube the anus, stick the the big black nozzle in and squeeze, then fill it up, lube the anus, stick the big black nozzle in and squeeze, until the basin was empty and the nozzle just slurped air.

We lived together for another three years after that, until our ambitions led us in different directions.

I just love it when a girl gives me an enema.

Cheers,

Brachio

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Wonderful advice.

If you want to get her into them ask her to come to the bathroom with you, have her get undessed, then have her lay on her back on the floor with her knees bent, lube your finger and very slowly and gently insert it in to her butt, till its all the way in, then take it out, give her a nice good full enema bag with warm water not too hot or not to cold. lube the nozzle & slide it in very slowly once its all the way in hold it there for a bit before you start the flow of water, tell her to relax and take deep breaths & not to tense up. start the flow slow at first and give her half the bag, let her realse then give her the other half, im sure after a while she will start to like thme

i did it that way with my gf, she didnt like them at first but after a while she started to enjoy them now she loves it and asks me to give her one every day

The more time you spend on doing that slowly the better result that you will get its very easy to always complain about constipating all the time as first step she will have different answers every time may be you will lucky and find her welling to take you over her beauty lab and start a good enema for you all you need is just to be patient you will get there

Regarding to this topic, I would say keep massaging her rear and clit in both at the same time and keep praising how good look and interest to her butt. Then convict her to have a little bit of anal play see if she okay with that. If she asks you whether u wanna try to have anal sex and u could say u'd interest in plugging or some kinda anal beads ( I mean light anal play). If she certainly head into it, u can then ask her see if she dare to try enema sex as this good for u both and different sensational feelings involve that she hasn't ever experienced. If she goes negatively, i would say keep to be patience and gentle, a little bit of respect, at least won't ruin yr normal sexual life. It works on me not sure if it works on u. but you could have a try and see how it goes.

I have found that during pillow talk is a good time to bring up such things, just after making love preferably. With Anthony I started by asking him to tell me his deepest fantasy, he did, then I shared mine with him. He didn't run! LOL

My wife complained about being hot. I suggested a nice cool enema to cool off. She acknowledge the fact that it would do the trick. I waited a few minutes and came right out and asked if she wanted one. The respones was nnnnnooooooooooo!!! but the tone didn't say no. Sounded like she was interested but didn't want to admit it. Just have to keep trying.

Hmmm! Interesting post. I have a new GF, and was wondering if i should try to introduce her to the world of enemas, but wasn't sure how to go about it. There seems to be alot of good ideas here. Thanks!

What worked for me: one time, early in my present relationship (more than 12 years ago) my lady was on top of me, and I slid my finger in her rear crack and then touched her rosebud. she responded very positively -- probably purring or humming (you can always tell). Afterwards she talked about getting in trouble taking a girl friends temperature about age 7 -- liked it. Also liked a French movie where a man drops oreo cookies from his rear. It took me about 1/10 of a second to talk about enemas, and she soon got into it. Has cooled a bit -- we're both retirement age and slowing down a bit, but every now and then (she cleaned me out with a pezzer nozzle several months ago -- exquisite). Touching the magic button will almost always get a reaction -- just hope it's the right one.

I have always secretly enjoyed a good enema. I have not shared this with anyone. The girlfriend really enjoys anal stimulation. Anyone have good advice on how to drop the bomb and see if she is cool with enemas ?

Why use the term "drop the bomb?"

Why not just ask her?

Or better yet, suggest it?

You'll never make progress if you sit back and wait. The worst thing she can say is "no" ... but if she's into anal play, and you're gentle (No three or four quart enema the first time around ... one quart will do quite nicely), you might find this the beginning of something great.

How about just hanging a bag in the shower and letting her see it. then asked her after you prepare supper for her and wait for it to settle. then ask her over wine and cheese 😃

You could always start by asking her or him what they are into and enjoy.Once they tell you then you can tell them what yoiu enjoy and see if you get any response from that.once they find out that you enjoy it they might even want to give it a try.

Just don't assume a first refusal is a refusal forever. It may just be that 'tonight is not the night,' and tomorrow may be better...

Many years ago my wife tried to stick a dry finger in my ass, and it HURT! For a LONG time she wouldn't do it because she thought "You HATE that!"

I did it by telling her that it's something I do to stay clean and prevent from getting colon cancer down the road. She understands why I do it now and knows that some of it is also because I like the feeling. I got her to take 16 ouces once and she loved how much cleaner it left her and how well he BMs were after that. I will see if she'd be ok with trying it again. 😃

Being playful about it works- or use it as part of a domination role play, or "accidently" pick up some porn that has enamas included in it- and ask.. hmmm... what do you think of that? Does that turn you on? Suggest trying it as something new... or you can say you have a "friend" who had this wild freaky sex-capade and it included enema play and it was great and maybe you should try it... you just have to put it out there and see what your partner says.. you would be surprised.

Going to a class or colonic clinic together is a great way to break the ice. Fear comes from lack of knowldege, so classes are a great way to alleviate fears. BTW- Katrina - make sure you read my response to your questions about enema fetish orgins.

Katrina -

You are absolutely right! There are many ways to bring up the "subject".

One of the funniest for me was an RN who came to a Holloween party in uniform holding an enema bag from which so dispensed white wine. She had MANY customers that evening!!!

I left a copy of Anal Sex for Couples under her pillow which started the conversation and later fun. Available at Amazon

Bagger's approach is golden. And as a caveat on some of the remarks above, I'd say, based on experience, that talking about enemas can create a permanent barrier to actually doing them (e.g., instantly arousing the "eww" factor). It seems prudent either to talk all around them, or possibly to put on a demonstration of your own delight in the process, with your Sunday Best (pleasurable) technique.

Hey group! --my tag line says it all; "You really find out who your friends are when needing an enema!"

This can then be turned into a joke...or followed up with talking about how crappy you feel and really do need one. It really does work....great for you but certainly no guarantee that you'll be able to give her one. But its a start.

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Katrina has some good ideas but I would ask the lady if she could give you a hand with an enema.If she agrees,then be a teacher explaining what she has to do and take the time to show her.Do a lot of talking,explaining how you got into enemas and how they turn you on sexually.If everything goes well with the first enema,make plans for another one until she feels comfortable.Make passionate love to her after each session,this would be a good time to tell her that you would really love for her try a little enema.At least now,your wife knows what's involved after helping you with your enemas.

Let the good times FLOW.w/m73yrs/Western Ma

Just a thought, I would suggest persuading a partner to consider Colonics would be a good introduction with the appearance of normality and health benefits... then introduce the home treatments later?

There will probably be a time and place when the subject of enemas can be brought - If your partner is open and understanding you can usually make the time and place