How can I get my girlfriend to take an enema ?

I basically explained to her that anal sex would be alot cleaner and more comfortable if sh cleaned herself out first, i then told her id seen it on a tv program how porn stars do it an showed her an enema bulb in a magazine, shes now as addicted to me and it has become a fully incorporated part of our sex lifes so i dunno give that a go see if it works altho would only work if ur wife/gf.bf wanted anal sex in the first place 😃

I wish I knew how to make it happen. Been a secret enema fan all my life but never had an enemate. But I would/could play with a woman and never found anybody to play with.

My Sister-In-Law (wife's sister) IS into alternate therapies and I suspect she is into enemas and colonics as she mentioned them while we were discussing "The Road to Wellville" and the Battle Creek Sanitarium. I was going to ask her what she though about enemas and colonics but I lost my nerve.

Maybe another time.

The best way to introduce the subject is to bring up the health advantages. You can introduce the subject when you see those yogurt adds on tv. You can also purchase this book called how to lose 21lbs in21 days THE MARTHAS VINEYARD DIET. This will gain any womens interest The diet incorporates enemas water and coffee into the program. If its a guy you are introducing to enemas once you start and notice he is getting an erection because of prostate stimulation hes hooked. If it is a woman you must be gentle and comforting and give her a lot of space. Tell her how good her skin looks after and how nice and flat her tummy is and you will have a partner.

Ginnie,

I think you've got it !!!!! Most women feel better talking about "health" at least until they find the enemas also "enjoyable"...

Michael2

I am new to the page, but am have been using enemas for several years to keep myself feeling clean and healthy. I have an open relationship with my wife, but am still in the closet about my use of enemas. I will be watching the post for further suggestions, beyond those already mentioned, to see about getting her involved. 😃

Given that many have not enjoyed an enema, they are curious. I have had good luck bring it up as a way to increase the sexual experience. Something new to try.

Most for sure, the aspect of being clean preping for Anal is a big motivator and then the health aspect is another. Good Luck L&M

An earlier suggestion was to suggest she visit this site. She may realize the fun and stimulation aspects she hadn't considered previously.

What should I do if she has no interest in anal sex, because my gf complains that it is uncomfortable. Makes it alot harder to get her involved in anything else anal too.

You gotta be sure you aren't feeling guilty to begin with! jeeter

I told her I wanted her to give me one. She enjoyed doing it that to convince her to let me do her was easy.

Was really easy, she asked me for an enema 😜

My sexpartner and I visited an erotic shop where I looked up the enema equipment for quite a while. His comment was: "Take it if you want". Some days later we played a bit in the bathtub. Now he likes enemas almost as much as I 😁

Try telling her how great she looks in short shorts. If she doesn't have some, buy her some that show of her ASSets so to speak. All of us like compliments and praise. If she feels that you love her butt, things will rake the best course. - vicki

Hey, honey, I enjoy enemas during sex. Could I try one with you? I'll do it slow and gentle. You can control the on and off of the water, so you only have to take as much as you want to.

Meanwhile, I'll be busy on your clitoris, giving it the licking it deserves. I think that the enema might actually enhance the experience for you!

Can we try that?

If she says YES, get the water temperature right. If you're not sure, get a cup and put some water in your mouth, until it feels slightly warm.

The height of the bag is LOW maybe 18" to 24" above her rectum. Give her the choice of the small white enema tip, or the larger douche tip.

And, for god's sake, be gentle, and non-threatening. If she gets scared and backs out, the worst thing that you can do is stomp around the house mad all day.

Here's another idea. Whisper the scene in her ear, as you're having sex, without the enema.

Get her hot about the IDEA first, before you try to make her wet. Once you make it SOUND hot, she might go for it much easier.

Either way, don't destroy your relationship over this nonsense! Be kind! Be loving!

I believe that conversing on the topic and waking up their curiosity...

If you want to show her the joy of anal eroticism, the next time you go down on her give her a SLOW rimjob. I say slow because if you just go to town on the unsuspecting it can ticklle.... not what you are going for 😉

I hope you have more luck than me... I tried it very slowly step by step over a period of years but she just blocks everything even "harmless" anal eroticism.

So I didn't even try to ask her.

Either you’re NOT making your play PLEASURABLE, or else the woman simply doesn’t enjoy pleasure.

It’s one or the other.

Well she does enjoy gentile fondling while she's really relaxed when we are having sex but she's embarassed about everything that concerns her butt. She does not accept to herself that it may be pleasurable.

My new tactic is not to mention that topic until she gets so exited about it until she herself asks me. Already worked with other sexual issues. I guess she just needs time to accept that there's nothing about her body to be embarassed for.

I find that the best way of introducing a new GF to the joys of giving and receiving, is by NOT trying to start off with an enema just for the sake of an enema.

There must be trust.

I think the best way to introduce enemas into your relationship is by first creating a situation involving analplay during foreplay and sex. That then gives you an excuse, to want to be clean inside your anus, for them to finger whenever they want.

You can say "That was really nice when you fingered my anus, but I'm embarrased that there may be some shit inside me". "Maybe you should give me a suppository or an enema to wash me out first so that my arse is always clean for you".

Then go shopping toghether, but start out small, eg a squeeze bulb enema or Higginson hose with the inline bulb and nozzle, for her to use on you first up. Your objective is to use this on her arse as soon as she is comfortable using it in you. So don't dare reveal your own 3 litre can with the big dildo nozz you may already have hidden up in the back of your wardrobe. That comes later.

Everyone is different and we are rarely the first lovers, and usually not the last. This is just one example. Maybe it will work for you. And it is not gender specific, so it's the same whether you are a Girl or a Guy.

So, based on her feedback, after she has given you an enema and fingered your nice clean arse to her heart's desire, and if she now trusts you sufficiently, then you can suggest giving her an enema too.

I am male and I was originally introduced to giving and receiving by a young skinny GF way back in 1973. The very first time we had sex together, she started fingering my arse while I was cumming. This really felt good when she hit my prostate. But later she said she had to shift a big turd out of the way to get her fingers in, and this really embarassed me.

Then we went for a walk to the local shopping centre and she bought a big red German douche syringe with the long thick black smooth ebonite nozzle, which used to be plentiful in Australia in any Chemist Shop in the 70's - but long since disappeared.

When we returned to my flat, she filled my bathroom wash-basin with hot water, and sloshed a bar of soap in circles to make it all suddsy. Then, she bent me over the bath, greased up my anus with KY jelly, and proceeded to pump the entire soapy contents of my wash-basin up my anus, one long squeeze at a time. Then fill it up, lube the anus, stick the the big black nozzle in and squeeze, then fill it up, lube the anus, stick the big black nozzle in and squeeze, until the basin was empty and the nozzle just slurped air.

We lived together for another three years after that, until our ambitions led us in different directions.

I just love it when a girl gives me an enema.

Cheers,

Brachio

DrE you got it right.Some guys are just too much in a hurry to shove the nozzle up the females ass.The key words are GENTAL and SLOW.You must have a plan.Make the lady feel like her pleasure and happiness is your only goal.I love to make the lady happy and do anything to please them.Things will work out if you are sincere.Let the good times flow.

GOOD ENEMA TO YOU

I AM FOUND OF ENEMA BUT NOT MY GIRLFRIEND HOW CAN I SHARE WITH HER MY HBITS,

Bring up the fact that you enjoy enemas, somehow in the conversation. Maybe see if she would like to be there when you take one. (No sex, unless she initiates it.) Maybe if she is there with you while you are taking one a few times she will realize the reaction you have when you are taking the enema can be enjoyed with her. See how that goes for you.

Excellent advice. Why not say, "Honey, I think I'm constipated and really need a good, relaxing enema. They can be really fun, especially if you'd help give one to me, Dear. Think you might enjoy playing nurse?"

See how well this approach works for you all.

-- Mike007678!

Try telling her that you enjoy taking an enema and what feels good to you about it. Ask her to rub your back while you take one. After a few sessions of this, with her seeing you enjoying them, maybe ask her to do some more, prepare the bag, insert the nozzle, whatever. Then maybe ASK her if she would like to try a small one. DO NOT try to talk her into taking one, if she is reluctant about it and does it only to please you, she will likely be nervous, tense, and not enjoy it.

A good way to bring them up is to mention you would like to try anal sex and you heard it's a good way to make sure she is clean. If she knows she is clean inside chances are she will enjoy anal sex without worrying about making a mess.

Try leaving your syringe in plain sight in bathroom and see if that starts a conversation with her. It worked on my first wife.

I am seeing a BBW once a week, she lives near a house I won and rent out, currently I a remodeling it, so we hookup there once a week for some fun. She's into bodange and anal, I suggested to her about the enema play, but she wasn't into it. I am going to bring the inflatable enema plug with me on the next hookup, and use it as an anal toy only,. If she into it, I may suggest the pleasure of the enema erotica, if she seems more receptive, I may invite her to help give one to me, and then afterwards let me at least try it with her once, see if she enjoys it.