Subs: When are you at your most submissive?

When I'm over my spanker's lap and I've got a really sore bottom. In that moment I feel warm, subdued and really grateful to my spanker (and sometimes a bit scared).

Either after a punishment &/or when I am fully bound and completely under the dom's control, especially if a gag or blindfold is included

When my Domme partner dresses me in a rubber catsuit and thick rubber sneakers and plugs me or inserts a thick rubber enema hose into me and starts filling me. Then she really has my attention and I'm totally submissive and humiliated, which is extremely erotic.

Eric

Even better, being forced to endure the suit/sneakers/enema hose overnight while she makes me service her sexual needs intermittently is extremely submissive and exciting.

Fully bound, waiting for the first contact with the flogger, those moments are bliss!

I am truly most submissive just after I've been broken when I've had to call time on play and quit.

Obviously I am submissive when I'm tied, spanked and subjected to what ever I can take.

But at that time I'm fighting myself to stay strong and resist their best efforts. When I have to call time on it and can't take more I psychologically just hand myself over to them and feel at their mercy.

That's is my most submissive moment and strange mix of utter euphoria and feeling broken.

When I am stripped naked, not knowing what is coming, standing in front of the dome and awaiting a command. That is when I am most vulnerable and at my most submissive.

When I am face down blindfolded with my ass in the air and balls hanging down, and my arms tied together. I am so vulnerable in this position, I have no control over what my domme is going to do. I get a tingly feeling of anticipation. Am I going to get spanked? Am I going to get hit in the balls? Is my ass about to be spread open? I have no idea whats gonna happen and that makes me get super submissive.

Sttripped naked of course and ordered to do the housework with tiny intermittent micro rewards along the way that give me a sniff of what I know i may, but most likely won't, be getting when the jobs are done.

Holding the third or fourth enema (the "now that you're clean we can do the big, soapy one for you to hold for a while") when the hairbrush is REALLY beginning to hurt... knowing that wiggles, kicks, yelps aside we're just getting started.

When I am called something like "bad little baby girl" or "disobedient little girl." Also when I am blindfolded and restrained because then I don't know what's coming next and even if I did, I am unable to resist. I've never been diapered but I'm thinking that would get me very submissive too.

When I am with my GF, her fully clothed, me totally nude.

My wife and I have been in a CDD marriage for over twenty years and occasionally I do have to take her to our bedroom and administer the belt on her and she becomes almost thankful to me for correcting her and almost every time she’s punished she submits to anything sexual for several days and I believe that she really enjoys having a man in charge and while she couldn’t enjoy the whipping she does enjoy being corrected by me and yes I’m man enough to admit that while I never take the belt to her without a good reason I do enjoy administering the belt to her naked bottom and love having her submit her body to me afterwards for my relief.

For me, it's in the mornings, just coming around from sleep. Would crawl anywhere I'm told.

My wife and I have been in a CDD marriage for over twenty years and occasionally I do have to take her to our bedroom and administer the belt on her and she becomes almost thankful to me for correcting her and almost every time she’s punished she submits to anything sexual for several days and I believe that she really enjoys having a man in charge and while she couldn’t enjoy the whipping she does enjoy being corrected by me and yes I’m man enough to admit that while I never take the belt to her without a good reason I do enjoy administering the belt to her naked bottom and love having her submit her body to me afterwards for my relief.

Cphub,

I'm a lifetime Episcopal Christian, but have never met anyone living under CDD at home, nor ever heard of it mentioned in church. What would you say are the top 5-10 good reasons she requires a corrective belt spanking? What is your wife's Zity screen name? Thanks,

Eric

When I’m under the care of my Dominant Paul.

Can't speak for myself, but when my wife and I have our Daddy/Baby Girl time. She totally melts into a little regressing further with my words and whispers.

When I'm in my girdle, bra, and stockings waiting for a friend to arrive...

When I'm told to stand still and not move, knowing something is coming. Especially when he is giving me breast and nipple punishment while already filled from an enema. I give of myself my whole submissive part of me and enjoy it

When I am nude and a Dominant is fully clothed. Then, when I assume any pre-programmed submissive stance/position.

When I'm told to stand still and not move, knowing something is coming. Especially when he is giving me breast and nipple punishment while already filled from an enema. I give of myself my whole submissive part of me and enjoy it

So standing there filled with enema and perhaps breast teasing or clamps, what else are you expecting or dreaming about when you say you know something is coming? Sounds erotically provocative. I'm a male switch, but love taking enemas from my Domme switch exGF. Thanks,

Eric

I am generally submissive and trying always to be good. I find that my most submissive moments though are times after I have been corrected and I am eager to show myself as one having learned her lesson!

When I'm naked and over my wifes knee awaiting a spanking.

When my wife tells me " Yes you have been good, but I AM going to spank you because I WANT TO AND BECAUSE I CAN"! I reply with a very weak "yes mistress", and must hand her "My spanking bath brush"!

This was the first time I felt my most submissive when orally pleasuring my partner....

I know exactly how to make him cum and can bring him to the edge and back again.

This time as he was holding my hair up, I knew I was getting him close and he tightened his grip, and very sternly he told me to look at him and not look away, and not to stop.

I glanced down for a split second and he tightened his grip even more and commanded me to keep looking at him.

This was repeated a couple more times as my hips started to move to the rhythm of my sucking and I felt myself getting wetter and wetter, until we locked eyes as he came and I swallowed him.

I was surprised at not only how submissive I felt but also at how aroused I was by his “commanding” me.

I really liked being on my knees for him. ???

Like ME right now, with a sore bottom!

Most. hmm. it's after I enter subspace and how i get there varies from impact play to sensory deprivation to following orders to standing naked for examination, etc. but once in subspace my ego dissolves, I expand, but melt, and become malleable clay for the dom or domme.

My wife and I have been in a CDD marriage for over twenty years and occasionally I do have to take her to our bedroom and administer the belt on her and she becomes almost thankful to me for correcting her and almost every time she’s punished she submits to anything sexual for several days and I believe that she really enjoys having a man in charge and while she couldn’t enjoy the whipping she does enjoy being corrected by me and yes I’m man enough to admit that while I never take the belt to her without a good reason I do enjoy administering the belt to her naked bottom and love having her submit her body to me afterwards for my relief..

Let's just hope that your wife has some need fulfilled with this arrangement or that she derives (sexual) pleasure out of it. Otherwise it sounds off-puttingly smug and paternalistic, not to mention outright abusive.

Let's just hope that your wife has some need fulfilled with this arrangement or that she derives (sexual) pleasure out of it. Otherwise it sounds off-puttingly smug and paternalistic, not to mention outright abusive.

Yes, agree fully with agracier. Especially those last two words. I wonder if the woman here would agree with her being

"Almost thankful"

"Really enjoys having a man in charge"

"Does enjoy being corrected by me"

and how she feels about

"I do enjoy administering the belt to her naked bottom"

if she could independently comment on this scenario.

Eric

On the rare occasion, when I am allowed to cum, and then told to do my clean up duty. Also when I am allowed the privilege of drinking my wife's pee. I just love the feeling of being submissive.

Lately when I was ordered online to stretch my anal pussy with an inflatable dildo and pump it up, then holding it for several minutes and asking my Master to please let go. I would have done everything in that very moment.