Subs: When are you at your most submissive?

When I have been detected having made a mistake or having done something for which I will be punished. Knowing that I have 'been a bad boy', I am waiting my punishment no matter what it may be.

Cos

I am submissive by nature. Felt most submissive when my partner blindfolded me. I also feel very submissive when a doctor examines me with a stethoscope.

I am the most submissive when I am very turned on and forced to submit to something painful like long spankings, breast spanking, or very intense face fucking.

I am most submissive after punishment. My Dom usually punishes me before we do anything else. It doesn't have to be for any particular reason as we've contractually agreed that He can punish me whenever He desires. I'm working on my pain tolerance, but it's usually after a few minutes with the belt or flogger that I feel most submissive. I'm putty in His hands after that.

After a spanking

Some 5 years ago I was involved in a M2M relationship. This guy had a JBL bag AND an enema chair which he loved to have me seated upon. Totally humiliation as your own weight seated on the JBL forced the soapy solution deep up and inside. Many times He would even hold my hands outright so ALL of my weight was on the bag. His enema chair was placed in the shower and once seated on the thick, bulbous nozzle He would start the soapy flow. He watched and commented continuously as the enema solution flowed ..................

Any time partner is sitting in a chair/sofa and I'm sitting on the floor (on my knees) beside him.

Whenever my mother told me it was time for an enema. She had a routine and not back talking was allowed. Go get undressed and kneel on the bathroom floor and wait.

Now it would be lay down so you can be shaved for cat and edging. Wish I could find someone that would.

I think for me, it's when I hug my lover, at this moment I realise that he's not really cute but more handsome and intimidating, that makes me remember that I'm literally a bottom and I easily end with a red face hehe..

After a series of enemas ( 3 )

When a reward is set up me to go all the way to get it.

When I’m plugged, nothing more submissive than having your bottom filled by your Dom even better when the plug is pushed up between red bottom cheeks.

When I tell my wife " I need your breasts!" Then she tells me " You need a SPANKING first, then if you are a good boy perhaps"! About this time I hand her " My Brush"!

When i am trying to deep throat a large cock. I feel totally used and at the mercy of that dick as it slides past my mouth and makes me gag. I lose control of basic functions like breathing and am at the mercy of my partner. It could be a dildo or a cock; the sense of utter surrender is the same.

Earlier in this thread I wrote

"When my Domme partner dresses me in a rubber catsuit and thick rubber sneakers and plugs me or inserts a thick rubber enema hose into me and starts filling me. Then she really has my attention and I'm totally submissive and humiliated, which is extremely erotic."

Eric

"Even better, being forced to endure the rubber suit, sneakers and enema hose overnight while she makes me service her sexual needs intermittently is extremely submissive and exciting."

All true and intense and delicious, but on reflection I'm not sure which is the absolutely MOST submissive time. In addition to feeling the sensations from the rubber and sneakers and enema(s) and orgasms she's put us both through, it might just be when she tells me her real motivation for my "predicament." It's really to give her sexually dominant side exactly what she needs, which is her arousal and orgasms and satisfaction, which, being a Domme, she gets from making me as submissive to her as she wants. So no matter how much rubber I have on or enema(s) I'm holding for however long, once she tells me how our D/s scene really works, I feel completely submissive until she's satisfied. Win-win.

Eric

As soon as I feel her fingers curl under my waistband and begin to lower my underwear to bare my bottom or when I see the thermometer in her hand or just if I hear her say 'turn over on your stomach for me'.

For me is when fully dressed up slutty like a street whore sucking my wife’s strap on she will have me watching shemale porno and she will actually orgasm with me sucking cock ,,,,,she will call me the dirtiest names and I get very submissive and weaknesses inside

On my partner lap... or when being forced to look into my partner eyes as they are scolding me for something. I feel extremely submissive then... after a lot of arguing, when the stern voice call it a end of the "game" and I am asked to look up and see the seriousness of my partner in their eyes. Then... I most probably relent and give it up my fussy-attempt.

Then of course in their lap, either already naked or with my panties on... having my partner slip it down to my knees. Ready for either a spanking or a rectal temp... or whatever my partner wish to.

@SubOllie, same here. His sternness and scolding really make me feel very submissive. Plus he's very handsome, with chiselled features and long lashes, which make him look even stricter somehow, when he's angry.

And he's so strong. Easily subdues me for a spanking or anything else he wants.

I try to argue and fight when I want things my way but I know that certain tone and look after which I know it's best to shut up. Or else I end up in the corner with a shiny, red bottom and a tear-stained face.

At the beginning of the play, when a taller woman/women look down to me, forces me to look up and make an eye contact while her hands are touching my body.

@pich said

At the beginning of the play, when a taller woman/women look down to me, forces me to look up and make an eye contact while her hands are touching my body.

That's interesting.

I have often liked telling my submissives "don't look at me," because it is almost a reflex for them to look up at me, and slapping their face as I said it. If they don't look at me, I like to slap them in the face and say "look at me".

You just cannot let a submissive win.

SwitchableSusie

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That's interesting.

I have often liked telling my submissives "don't look at me," because it is almost a reflex for them to look up at me, and slapping their face as I said it. If they don't look at me, I like to slap them in the face and say "look at me".

You just cannot let a submissive win.

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Years ago, I had a lover who use to beat me with a riding crop. She would normally stop after 50 swats.

She gave me one whipping for my 48th birthday. Later in the evening, she gave me another. She was hitting hard, but I was in a zone and fine with it. Around 20 swats, I was watching her. Watching her beating me was erotically fascinating! She was erotically beautiful!

Our eyes met.

She balked.

At the time, she was really hitting hard. So I was not able to ask her to continue. But I have always been disappointed she stopped.

I was in a zone. If she wanted to do a hundred or more swats, I would have laid there at let her.

When I get in a zone, my speech center is like an old time telephone operator board that somebody pulled out all the plugs. It takes me several minutes to figure out how to re-plug the board so I can talk again.

GuzzleguzzleKid

@guzzleguzzlekid said

. . . . Years ago, I had a lover who use to beat me with a riding crop. She would normally stop after 50 swats.

She gave me one whipping for my 48th birthday. Later in the evening, she gave me another. She was hitting hard, but I was in a zone and fine with it. Around 20 swats, I was watching her. Watching her beating me was erotically fascinating! She was erotically beautiful!

Our eyes met.

She balked.

At the time, she was really hitting hard. So I was not able to ask her to continue. But I have always been disappointed she stopped.

She BEAT you with a riding crop???

What did she do, hold the little leather pad and beat you with the handle end? 😁 😁 😁

Riding crops make more noise than anything else when they hit you. I mean it's fine for getting someone's attention, but the injuries are about as minimal as can be.

Years ago I hit my older daughter with a riding crop when she wanted S&M lessons and she looked fine when we were done and she didn't complain afterwards.

Completely naked, hands behind my neck Legs apart With a full face blindfold and waiting To be inspected by who ever wanted to inspect me

I always feel much more submissive after a spanking, isn’t that the point, that is, maintaining a certain level of submission.

Naked, bound and blindfolded with a hard cock. Ready to be inspected. Hearing other people in the room.

When I'm naked and being inspected.

Most submissive?? hmmmm. I guess it is when I "allow" my husband to take me into the bedroom (kids not home) and he lectures me on whatever transgression that I supposedly committed and then slowly undress me completely and then taking me over his knee and give me a good and proper spanking with either the dreaded hairbrush or paddle (usually just uses his hand which is plenty enough to light up the fire in my backfield). It is always consensual and we have a safe word whenever either of us wants to stop (yes he is over my knee sometimes as well but not near as much as me over his). After my bottom is pretty red but never bruised, he would give me an enema while I am still over his knee. You can only imagine how submissive this is on my part but such a turn on for us both. It is hard to understand ....I guess you could call it erotic agony!! lol. But, it works for us so if you are tempted to judge, zity is not the place to do it. Denise

. After my bottom is pretty red but never bruised, he would give me an enema while I am still over his knee. You can only imagine how submissive this is on my part but such a turn on for us both. It is hard to understand ....I guess you could call it erotic agony!! lol. But, it works for us so if you are tempted to judge, zity is not the place to do it. Denise

It works for you very well. It is also a favorite of mine, not too red but definitely the enema after. I like a temp in there too!

For me on cam shown to a stranger, had to do it once to be able join a swinger group, both me and wife need to pass sort of ‘inspection’ to qualify, followed instructions to strip completely. It was fun session