Subs: When are you at your most submissive?

For me the greatest submissive Feelings come from an Enema observed By more than just the one dominant giving it. There’s several things at play here for me. The first is an enema is some thing that I really don’t enjoy because of the cramps, exposure and humiliation of being on your spread knees with your bottom in the air and totally exposed. When someone else is present I have been required to strip naked during the preparation of the soapy enema. I feel very submissive naked in front of two people and otherwise normal setting. During this time the preparation and delivery of the Enema is discussed with the other person. Then with me being positioned with a large to being inserted into me

Being filled with a soapy two quart enema Creates intense cramps and discomfort and pain that can’t really be observed by the Dom or observer. So the notion of you groaning uncontrollably in front of at least two people it’s incredibly embarrassing and humiliating. That’s probably the worst part is it’s not a spanking or something that clearly can be seen. Plus you’re moving all around in the different positions that increase exposure but the pain and desire to reduce the pain is greater than putting yourself in more humiliating positions

For me the greatest submissive Feelings come from an Enema observed By more than just the one dominant giving it. There’s several things at play here for me. The first is an enema is some thing that I really don’t enjoy because of the cramps, exposure and humiliation of being on your spread knees with your bottom in the air and totally exposed. When someone else is present I have been required to strip naked during the preparation of the soapy enema. I feel very submissive naked in front of two people and otherwise normal setting. During this time the preparation and delivery of the Enema is discussed with the other person. Then with me being positioned with a large to being inserted into me

Being filled with a soapy two quart enema Creates intense cramps and discomfort and pain that can’t really be observed by the Dom or observer. So the notion of you groaning uncontrollably in front of at least two people it’s incredibly embarrassing and humiliating. That’s probably the worst part is it’s not a spanking or something that clearly can be seen. Plus you’re moving all around in the different positions that increase exposure but the pain and desire to reduce the pain is greater than putting yourself in more humiliating positions

Bowedmale,

A very interesting read. I think I'd agree with you that being given an enema in front of more than just the Dom(me) could easily be felt as extremely submissive. My own reply to this thread describes my Domme dressing me in kinky clothes we enjoyed but then restraining me and starting a large enema. Now in my case I'd truly feel extremely submissive at that point and for the rest of the enema, even more so if my Domme had brought in others to watch me with her. But I'm a switch who enjoys receiving Domme's enemas as her sub, so all those feelings would ultimately be enjoyable and arousing to me and she's done it to me many times.

I'd even had a special fantasy for many years about my wife or GF taking me on a SCUBA diving weekend cruise on a large dive boat off the coast of southern CA, in which I act as her sub. We've invited several of her kinky diving friends to take the dive trip with us but who also will help her Domme me. Part of the plan is to have the other women act as my Dommes also, so they could make me take large enemas and other kinky things while they all watched me be submissive in front of many enthusiastic Dommes at once, which I would find exceptionally erotic.

The interesting part of this for me is whether your feeling highly embarrassed and humiliated and submissive for her or them is something you'd experienced once and would prefer to avoid, or if the overall experience is something you'd seek out and enjoy doing again. As long as I knew the session was private, not to be revealed to others, it would be not only submissive but extremely erotic as evidenced by my desiring it many times. On your profile as far as I can tell you seem to enjoy MedFet but no mention of enemas except this scenario. Would you like to do this again, or really truly avoid the scenario, the enema and the submission? Thanks,

Eric

She BEAT you with a riding crop???

What did she do, hold the little leather pad and beat you with the handle end? 😁 😁 😁

Riding crops make more noise than anything else when they hit you. I mean it's fine for getting someone's attention, but the injuries are about as minimal as can be.

Some crops hurt more than others.

This crop would hurt significantly more than

https://www.doversaddlery.com/pigskin-crop/p/X1-1405/

this one

https://www.extremerestraints.com/strict-leather-short-handle-wide-head-riding-crop.html

Eric,

The idea of casually knowing the observer as a friend or neighbor is something that I would both avoid and love to repeat. There is something in my brain that both wants to avoid and receive these humiliations. Enemas have long held this place for me. I read an 80s story In penthouse letters years ago about a woman who gave her husband an enema every Sunday. She also kept him plugged most of the time. The climax of the story was a nine inch black cock Fucking her in front of her husband with he husband licking her clean after. This got me hooked

The other night, in bed, when my wife told me " Find your brush Vermont bath brush) hold it till you are ready to beg me to spank you" By asking me " Please Mistress spank me now, i need and want you to hold me in position for my spankings"! and " Please keep me spanked and submissive"!

The more holes I fill, the more submissive he feels. With enemas, butt plugs, strap-ons, silicone sounds, small dildoes or ball gags he can be a very happy boy.

I feel most submissive during watersports play. Kneeling naked in the bath, with His warm waterfall spilling over me, which I totally hate and love in equal measure, is sure to put me into a deeply submissive headspace.

The more holes I fill, the more submissive he feels. With enemas, butt plugs, strap-ons, silicone sounds, small dildoes or ball gags he can be a very happy boy.

MissStress,

I would be, too. I've never tried a urethral sound from UTI concern, but it does sound fascinating from a sensory point of view. Are there occasions wherein you fill him up with all those things at once or very close together? So he'd have to endure your enema nozzle or plug or inflated balloons, the enema itself, a urethral catheter and gag. Does he like all those together? I'd be in enema orgasm subspace heaven.

Eric

My last enema session, I was given a 5qt enema standing in front of the mirror. I still had the double inflatable nozzle fully inflated, enema hose hanging between my legs.

My wife was holding my swollen belly. She whispered in my ear, "Look how pregnant you are."

I have never felt so submissive and feminine as I did at that moment.

Are there occasions wherein you fill him up with all those things at once or very close together? So he'd have to endure your enema nozzle or plug or inflated balloons, the enema itself, a urethral catheter and gag. Does he like all those together?

He has had an enema up his ass, a silicone sound in his pee hole, and a ball gag in his mouth. Most of the time it was the enema alone because his cock would have been busy in my pussy.

But when he is the most submissive he would have all three holes filled.

My last enema session, I was given a 5qt enema standing in front of the mirror. I still had the double inflatable nozzle fully inflated, enema hose hanging between my legs.

My wife was holding my swollen belly. She whispered in my ear, "Look how pregnant you are."

I have never felt so submissive and feminine as I did at that moment.

Seeing my belly swollen, fully distended it most exciting, thinking how enema pregnant I look!

Most submissive?? hmmmm. I guess it is when I "allow" my husband to take me into the bedroom (kids not home)...........then slowly undress me completely and then taking me over his knee and give me a good and proper spanking................ It is always consensual and we have a safe word whenever either of us wants to stop (yes he is over my knee sometimes as well but not near as much as me over his). After my bottom is pretty red but never bruised, he would give me an enema while I am still over his knee. You can only imagine how submissive this is on my part but such a turn on for us both. It is hard to understand...............I guess you could call it erotic agony!! lol. But, it works for us.

Denise

Denise,

I just discovered this delightfully erotic post of yours from last month. If this is too private to respond about here, I certainly understand, but I'm interested since I'm a switch and have often found myself taking a very submissive enema from my ex Domme partner. So if you find yourself like this over his knee, spanked and full of enema making you feel extremely submissive (I would feel the same way), then what happens after you're full of enema? Masturbating you to an OTK orgasm? Turning over for PIV while still holding your enema? Filling him up too for double enema mutual orgasms? Continuing your D/s scene with other things? I'm sure whatever you do, you'll both love it. Thanks,

Eric

I'm always hungry after a good spanking.

Although I do switch to some extent and I'm just still exploring myself and all this, I think some women who are also sub would agree with me that it would be in those days just prior to "those days". My hormones make me crave the attention I need and I just want to be "such a good girl" involved in the things that I like to involve myself in. But, sadly, I imagine as with most of us, "life gets in the way of living" and Midol and BOB have to suffice!

Although I do switch to some extent and I'm just still exploring myself and all this, I think some women who are also sub would agree with me that it would be in those days just prior to "those days". My hormones make me crave the attention I need and I just want to be "such a good girl" involved in the things that I like to involve myself in. But, sadly, I imagine as with most of us, "life gets in the way of living" and Midol and BOB have to suffice!

What's BOB? Thanks,

Eric

What's BOB? Thanks,

Eric

Battery operated boyfriend.

I'm at my most submissive right after I give up control to the other person. I feel very vulnerable when I realise everything has been taken out of my hands. Then I'm "free" to just enjoy what's in store for me.

My husband has a way of getting me there subtly. IRL I’m not at all sub. I’m pretty strong willed and, while I don’t like to think I’m opinionated, realistically; I’m opinionated. I run my own business, I’ve lived on my own since I was 18, I’ve had zero support from anyone (before my current husband), raised 3 kids, help my ex start his own business, ran an ER (the admin is really in charge, just ask anyone ?) and just don’t have time for anyone’s shit. I need a man who can take control, but God help you if you try to come on strong before I’m ready. Hubs is the first to figure me out. What does he do? Starts subtle. He touches me. A lot. Not sexual, but touches. A hand on my shoulder. On my arm. On my hip. He passes by close to me. Smells my hair. Kisses my forehead. Invariably those ‘casual’ touches leave me aching for more. I start to press into his hand when he touches me. He’ll start to do little dominant things, gently move me to one side as he passes, invade my space, lightly smack my ass, squeeze a boob. Drives me right into sub-ness. He can always tell. “Take your pants off,” he’ll tell me, and I will and he’ll leave it there for a long while. I’ll go through my afternoon with fully dressed except without pants. That reminder is huge. There’s literally only one other person who has figured that one out – but would-be Doms, it’s a BIG little thing to do. He’ll set a time, “At 5:50 I’m going to fuck your ass.” By 5:30 that’s literally all I can think about.

As for myself, I am in sub mode when I ask my wife to peg mode. Stepping out of Dom mode to get that is true submission

When I am feeling "under the weather" I feel the most submissive.

I started off really submissive when I was 22 and I got into a relationship with a man of 56. He was very dominant. I lived in his house and only wore clothes when he said for three years. He kept my clothes locked up.

Since just because I was bored I started domming around 15 years ago, there just wasn't anybody around I could get to dom me so I dommed them. And there was lots of guys that wanted me to Dom them

I got friends including a real doctor that we like to take turns now.

I'm at my most submissive when I'm told to take my clothes off. What is it that clothed man naked man that really makes me submissive.

Interesting question.

I suppose when I know I am I trouble.

When under them and looking up to see them almost scrutinising me with how much they're looking at me before find whatever it was they were looking for in my eyes and smirking

When approached by someone with a nice sudsy enema bag

I guess that is when I feel really safe with someone. Knowing that you can fully trust them and they will ‘catch’ you at your weakest point is one of the best feelings to experience (: simply demonstrating rough dominance does not work for me.

I'm at my most submissive when either in a medical exam scenario or when bound in rope. Or asleep, lol!

When I`m being edged.

Being restrained while having to beg to be let to cum makes me realize how much at the dominant´s mercy I am, specially when she manages to make me agree to stuff I wouldn`t have otherwise considered doing, as a condition.

With someone I trust fully… as she has me remove my clothes for the inevitable examination of my body. The more of me that is exposed, the more soft and obediant I become. The most submissive moments are when I cannot see her but only feel what she is doing to me with her hands.

When someone enters my ass, I feel really submissive and that my body is in total control of the one entering me.

I am most submissive when the doctor or nurse takes my temperature in the butt ... lol ….they tell you to undress to your underwear and sit on the exam table .... then they tell you to lay down on your stomach and lower your panties to your ankles …once in position they spread your butt cheeks open and insert the anal thermometer in your rectum all the way in and they let go of your butt …. they tell you to let it register for 5 min and they will be back …. they leave door open and everyone in the hall can see you on your tummy naked with underwear around your ankles with a thermometer sticking out of your butt haha .… if only this happens in real life !!! 😭