Do you prefer a male or a female Enema GIVER?

All I know is that I'd rather not do solo.

I would certainly prefer a female giver, preferably with some experience in giving and receiving so she knows what I am feeling.

I would like them too be given by a female.....

This is an interesting question. I've only had solo since my early teens. So the idea of having someone else involved is a bit foreign to me.

If it were a medically necessary enema and I couldn't do it solo, then the gender of the other wouldn't matter.

However if it were for play, I would want it to be a woman with enema experience. But that's not likely to happen.

I'd want my giver to be a female in a nurse-patient roleplay setting. No sex involved.

After 25 years of be given enemas by a woman, and nearly 20 years of flowing alone, I believe I would still prefer a woman administrator, but at my age it doesn't really matter. It's the experience that counts.

Any of the combinations you propose have the potential to be memorable and enjoyable just as each has the potential to go poorly.

But given a preference, I'd go with the encouraging female.

I would like to give and receive from a woman.

All of my enemas have been given by females, every single one. That's the way I want it. I once found myself in a situation where a dude was sent to prep me for back surgery. A cleansing enema was to be administered, and I flatly refused to take a single thread of my clothes off until they sent me a female nurse. I'd rather just put up with the momentary embarrassment of having a young female squirt water up my butt, than endure the fruity awkwardness of some dude touching me back there. Thank God, most colon hydrotherapists are women.

A man who's gotten enemas from a man, as I have, will know how another man feels when he gives him one and will himself most likely continue to enjoy being on the receiving end from another man, as I do.

As a gay man, only men! Women do nothing for me sexually so I'd never have a female giver!

I can never get into the vision of a male giving me an enema. For me its a strong, woman who will spank me if I misbehave (always) and administer a large warm soapy enema. Stripping me and smacking my bare bottom add to the entire experience.

My first real "sexual" experience was quite young and involved an older unfamiliar woman. Wow!!!

As a male, I definitely prefer a woman, but that preference has not been realized.

I have only done it with my wife and my fantasies definitely go to the "governess" type, never with a male.

I have been given enemas from both men and women. The MM enemas were interesting, but I prefer women giving enemas.

I prefer women. I have never had a man give me one and don't think I could let that happen. Just my own preference.

My fantasy and experience is always female both giving and taking. Anticipation has always been very important in fantasy and reality. Now that I am getting older I need to mix it up to get excited. The more I hear the word enema in a story is very good for me. It is funny how I enjoy incest stories and any other forbidden types of lust. I first received enemas from my mother soon after I was born. I know this because I have a much younger sister that was given enemas as a baby. I have never found a female that is into receiving enemas although I have gotten the nozzle in and flow going for a while then she said no more and that was the end.

I would only let a female give me an enema in any situation except if ordered in the hospital to be given an enema by a male. So far in my life, I have only gotten enemas from females so it is too late to change now.

I like the word enemaflexible. Thats cool. I think thats what I would be if the moment arose. I've only ever been to a clinic for my colonics with women.

I'm a woman and my preference has always been to receive from a man. The hotter the better! I love the idea of looking into his beautiful eyes knowing what he's doing to me. However, with that said, for decades I've had a fantasy about a female enema nurse. That fantasy is never sexual though and I'm not into met fet. Strange.

I like the word enemaflexible. Thats cool. I think thats what I would be if the moment arose. I've only ever been to a clinic for my colonics with women.

"Enemaflexible" - Genious!

All the rectal insertions and enemas I've ever had in my life were at the hands of females, and that's what I've learned to be comfortable with. Women are the "gentle" sex, and it makes sense that women are better tasked for performing delicate procedures such as rectal insertions, or putting water up the colon with an enema. I wouldn't want a dude doing that to me, and I won't tolerate it. I refused an enema on two occasions until a female was sent to take care of me. Some guys are terrified of being exposed like that to a female, let alone penetrated. It is embarrassing, but I can tell you from experience that the initial shock of having it done is the worst of it....the first minute of the procedure. Then you settle down and relax because you realize that female nurse that just slid a tube up your rear end is very understanding and gentle, even in dealing with men.

It started over my mother's lap, but after that has always been with males. I view enema sessions as guy bonding time, kind of like going to play cards, or a round of golf, or a game of tennis, or an enema session. Two guys (maybe more) spending time together, giving each other enemas, and jerking each other off til we cum. Of course, there is also the polite gentlemanly conversation in between the enemas, while expelling, recovering, etc.

All of this is interesting. I am male and never have cared about the gender of a care giver. The only problem I have had was a male nurse, that I believed was abusive at 0300 hrs (wanted to throw the metal bedpan at him). I filed a complaint and the hospital did take action. All female nurses have been very good.....this includes one cancer surgery and two knee replacements. During the cancer episode the nurse asked if I wanted a shower because it was three days later, of course I did. We entered the shower, she said she would put my catheter bag on the bench, at that point I realized she was not going to leave. I came to the realization that if she left I would panic. I made the remark that the last female I took a shower with I married.....she assured me we were not going to be married......she was and is a very nice person and an excellent caregiver.

I have done solos for many years and am tired of doing them alone. My wife is not into enemas at all. I prefer an enema giver of either gender.

I have always thought in terms of females, but am open-minded, so as to be a rectal laxative subbie :-)

Other than my husband, who is a wonderful enema giver, I'd prefer a female. Admit being a bit shy in this way, although I've had both male and female docs.

Female for me!

Just something getting an enema from a female; the gentle touch --- whatever. Could not imagine getting one from a male.

It all started with Mom of course so I got used to her and my Aunt and as I got older Girl Friends and Wives giving them to me. However there have been times when I have received enema's from my dad and step dad and Uncle and others.It's exciting no matter who does it.