Do you prefer a male or a female Enema GIVER?

Wild I'm ready willing and able

"In a Medfet scene, I am very open minded, It really dose not bother me with either. As long as we are both as into the session as we could get."

I agree with Rowen. If both are into it, why not? I admit I would prefer a woman, but hey if it feels good,,,,,,,,,

A women for sure the only way to go

As a gay man, all I am interested in are men, for giving or receiving!!!

I would prefer a woman and it lead to sex, but if we are both "into it" a man would be fine

Given the choice, a female. In a pinch, any port in a storm ....or is that a hole in any storm?

I do my own solo, so I have no choice

Real, I prefer either. Play, lean towards male.

I am a straight men and I would not even consider letting another man give, even if he is family . That is what my sexy wife is for.

Only another guy for me. 😃

I typically give them solo, but I'd be open to either. If it's one of the rare times I'm feeling submissive a spanking is likely in order as well though, and men are typically more effective in making me remember my punishment...

The only woman that gave me an enema was my Mom. i am Gay and from the time I was a teen have only enjoyed enemas with other men both gay and straight. Have met quite a few men for enemas only and enjoyed every drop!

We both enjoy giving and receiving form both male and female. If we are watching and or assisting we really like to watch same sex giving and receiving. Just seems more naughty for same sex to be doing it.

If not my husband, I'd like a female and if she's not my mom, preferably a nurse.

I'm a straight guy and prefer a female giver, but am enemaflexible.

I have received enemas from both M & F. All of my early enemas were given by females. As an adult I have shared enemas with several males over the years. If the giver is "into" enemas it really makes no difference to me, M or F.

It's all about technique and connection. I don't care what genitals they have.

I definitely prefer a woman, giving or receiving. I have done it non-sexually with a man, and it's very clinical to give or receive. My wires are much more to the erotic with a woman.

Either is okay, female is great... I do prefer a take charge attitude. My submissive side needs that.

Definatly a female nurse. Dominate female. Nurse to make me take myenema and make me hold it 10 - 15 minutes. And make me take a second one when she catches me playing with myself, :-)

I would enjoy a woman as my giver. My fantasy involves a nurse. Soft and encouraging but sexy and a bit dominant. At least for her to know what she was doing and be able to talk about it with confidence. Thats really hard to find these days.

Probably the fantasy of most gents.

Though I am straight I'm open minded but I would not want a man to give me an enema. I'm afraid I would be very uncomfortable having a man give me an enema. I guess it would be in a hospital setting.

I have always been given enemas by women, multiple enemas from girlfriends and both my wives. I think I prefer the loving encouraging approach, though the firm demanding approach might be fun too. I have been given enemas both for medical and erotic purposes and I liked them both. Sometimes sex followed and sometimes it didn't. I always view enemas in a sexual way.

My only interest is with a woman. Nothing against men but I don't think I would be stimulated with a man. I love have a lovely lady give me a series of enemas.

I've had both, just with one guy though. And we gave each other very enjoyable enemas. And would do it again with a male.

First - I am just getting started in rediscovering my sexuality at age 53. A few weeks ago I would have answered "A woman" hands down. But since researching enemas and self administering them over the past few weeks, I've had a revelation. I found that whether I was reading about women or men - i was getting equally aroused. As I explored further I found from the insights of bisexual and even homosexual men - that arousal and sexual pleasure was not bound as much to gender as it was to mutual (or complimentary) interests and desires.

When I took a realistic look at what It would be like to share my fetish with a partner, I found the thought of a male e-mate would probably better suit my quest for uninhibited pleasure. Don't get me wrong, I would love to partner up with a woman - but for some reason, I don't feel the same "performance anxiety" when I think about men as opposed to being with a woman.

I also have the perception (right or wrong) that a man is going to be more in tune with my kinks and be better prepared to satisfy them. Lastly, being a man, I feel more comfortable that I'll know how to give pleasure to a man. Something that has eluded me with my wife of 33 years. I'm just now opening my mind to the idea that it hasn't been entirely my fault.

If I were able to share an enema with a woman - my first preference would be my wife.

Well put Doug, my thoughts exactly!

My wife of 24 years was my enemata. We shared everything possible where the enema was concerned, so I would say that instinctively I'm inclined to say a woman would be my first choice; Having said that, I think a male partner might have some perspectives more in line with my own. So- I suppose as long as we both enjoy the experience, it doesn't matter.

I'm gay and prefer a male enema giver.

Only been solo and a few female givers but would be open to a male enema partner and have thought about what it would be like to get or give an enema to a male, although I am not sexually attracted to males.