Do you prefer a male or a female Enema GIVER?

I am okay with receiving enemas from a man or woman. The pleasure will be there in either situation.

It depends on the environment and desire. I've never received an enema from a female and wonder how I would feel. Id love to receive from a female in a non sexual way. Something to strictly christmas concentrate on the enema itself might be nice . With men it turns sexual, at least in my experience.

I'm a male, with an exclusively hetero sexuality. I prefer women giving me enemas, most definitely. What I prefer most is to receive enemas in a frankly erotic non-medical setting from a strict, dominant, mildly sadistic woman. In a medical setting, I have to restrain my erotic response and keep my behaviour appropriate for a patient-nurse interaction, but even so I find getting enemas or colonic cleansing from a woman deeply erotic in a way that makes me tingle for some days afterwards. Getting an enema from a male in a medical setting just leaves me kind of blank, regretting a missed opportunity.

I like enema giver to be male as I prefer doing intimate things like enemas with a man. I prefer a soft and encouraging enema giver.

I have no problem with either sex giving me enemas, as long as intentions or expectations ( sex, play, or not) are completely agreed upon prior to administration.

Sphinx, I'm with you. I would love to have a dominant, not cruel, woman give me a series of enemas, forcing me to hold each one as long as possible while fondling my penis; and finally leaving an inflated nozzle in me as she brings me to the verge of orgasm multiple times.

I prefer an experienced woman who understands the inner feelings that happen during enemas. I would like to relax with her giving the enema(s) with massage.

Female only to give them to me

Being bi, i enjoy giving enemas to naughty boys but for myself I would prefer being given an enema by a female. I love women and get a more erotic feeling from a woman than a male Confused, of course I am! lol

I, too, prefer an experienced older lady, who understands the sensual aspects of an enema and enjoys giving pleasure. Those, my friend, are few and far between.

A good giver is often a good receiver. Their sex is unimportant. Try it, you'll like it too.

With so many of us having great fantasies about finding the perfect enemate, I am curious as to whether you prefer having a male or a female as a Giver? This question is for both the guys and the gals.Although my fantasy involves mostly guys as the giver, I find that thinking about another woman giving is also exciting even though I am straight. Any thoughts?

In RL whatever is necessary. In play, ladies only please.

At home, it's my husband or myself. At an S&M party or affair, only my husband. If I happen to be with a woman for a night doing a submissive/domina training, she could give me an enema, but that would be very infrequent.

If I am going to be given an enema, I want it from a female only! Sorry guys, but you just don't do anything for me.

I prefer a female as a giver. sorry but males just don't do it for me.

Definitely females for me. I dont think I could give or take from a guy, not that I am against it, just that the thought of a guy does nothing for me.

Male to Male only here.

I would love to find a female enemate to play with.

I'm with "Bagman" - females only.

Make mine a lady or multiple ladies. Before our local colonic clinic closed, I always had a female giver and sometimes the lady owner would come in to check on how things were going. I loved the erotic feelings of a lady spreading my hips apart or asking me to hold myself open while she lubed my anus and rectum. Then the insertion of the large speculum as she sat on her little stool looking right at my asshole and nut sack. Wow! The conversations we had about her various experiences as a giver and even talk about her own colonics charged the already erotic atmosphere for me. No man could ever do that for me.

In a Medfet scene, I am very open minded, It really dose not bother me with either. As long as we are both as into the session as we could get.

I prefer a female as a giver, as it seems more un-natural than if a man did it to me

Either one is fine, had enjoyable sessions with both. 😉

I only got my first enema a few years ago and that was from my husband. As far as I am concerned he is just a wonderful enemate and has given to me many times. 😃

If i needed one in like a hospital, it wouldn't matter

but in this atmosphere, a female please

I prefer female

Much prefer a woman over a man. In a medical environment I've had male givers but it wasn't enjoyable as much as a female nurse.

Probably a carry-over from Mom, butt always a female...and can be any age, etc.

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It seems to me that most women would be receptive to another woman giving if they were family, like a sister, or a close friend.

I believe most straight men would not even consider letting another man give, even if family or best friend.

Man to woman or woman to man almost always leads to sex. Am I wrong?

I agree Cheryl. If a guy gives me an enema he better be ready for more play after I expel.