What is the kinkiest thing you ever did?

My wife is kinky! Yeah, she likes it in the EAR!

I know because every time I try to put my dick in her mouth, she turns her head! 😃

My wife is kinky! Yeah, she likes it in the EAR!

I know because every time I try to put my dick in her mouth, she turns her head! 😃

Maybe she wants to hear you - cumming. 😉 Just sayin' 😄

Perhaps she was merely within ear shot. 😁

Tough question after reading every response here.

My personal life is pretty vanilla but this week I'm meeting with a lady who wants a bare bottom spanking and a series of cleansing enemas followed by a coffee enema. Then we will spend a couple of hours shooting nude photos.

Next month I'm scheduled to meet with two ladies -- a BBW and six-foot amazon.

We will engage in medical exams, enemas, anal stretching, dildos, vibrators, golden showers, pubic shaving, suppositories, injections, etc.

Does that sound kinky or is it just good, clean fun? The lines are blurring for me.

I once had a women tell that wanting doggy position sex was kinky. Another had no problem fucking me in every conceivable way but said turning on lights was kinky.

Kinky ... I don't think so ... unless you consider my hubby and my enema escapades, and maybe romping and doing household chores (indoors and out) in the nude as kinky. I would rate us "whiter and vanilla white" you might say, one on a scale of one-to-ten, I think you get the picture. We enjoy a lot of things (see above) that many people might think as kinky, but we just consider it the way we lead our private lives ... yes, all out things are private between by hubby and me.

My personal life is pretty vanilla but this week I'm meeting with a lady who wants a bare bottom spanking and a series of cleansing enemas followed by a coffee enema. Then we will spend a couple of hours shooting nude photos.

Next month I'm scheduled to meet with two ladies -- a BBW and six-foot amazon.

We will engage in medical exams, enemas, anal stretching, dildos, vibrators, golden showers, pubic shaving, suppositories, injections, etc.

You have all this planned in the real world and yet you call yourself vanilla? Wow and boy oh boy, compared to my real world life you are a hedonist of the first order. I'm not even sure there is a term for my sex life, if you describe yours as vanilla ... maybe I should go with oatmeal, pablum, mush? ... ha ha ha

Have lots of fun ... 😃

I am extremely kinky , scenarios run through my head all times of the day lol. No one in my personal life knows of my kinks or who I identify as . I choose to keep it close to me as that is the safest personally and professionally . But I have a good time although long distance , it still is a lot of fun and only gets better everyday. My medical fetish is growing daily I've always had S&M and B& D now I'm realizing how strong my surgical fetish is and that in a play setting injections are a huge turn on . Every day is new in the fetish world for me. Life is short embrace it! Be who you are! 😃

Just how kinky am I? Well, let's see... I love to put on a diaper, plastic pants, a pair of vintage jodhpurs (with the flared sides), and finally, boots. Then I like to wait until I can't hold it anymore, and finally release a large, soft and squishy mess into my diaper. And as it spreads out into my diaper and over my buttocks, I feel transported to a place of unspeakable sexual pleasure. I believe this would register on the Kink Scale as (to use a technical term) "Totally Nuts."

I think some people want to believe they are "kinky" and others want to believe that what they do is "plain vanilla." Whatever floats your boat. I like to believe I am kinky enough for a old broad, but some on this site might call me bland. I like to be "naughty" compared to the mores of society during my "coming of age" in the Sixties. Most of all, I want my SO to think I am "hot" and never get bored with me. He probably thought I was "Little Bo Peep" when we first met. I doubt that he does anymore.

Kinky is in the mind of the beholder. Whatever you, or your partner, enjoy is OK and it does not matter what others think. (Just keep it secret from outsiders.)

Very kinky. Just wrote a long note but lost it when my iPad crashed. Rubber, (especially wet) sneakers, anal, enemas, D/s, bondage, etc. pretty kinky, no? More later.

Eric

The more I know, the more kinky I want to be. I want to have fun and really explore, and be explored.

Kinky is in the mind of the beholder. Whatever you, or your partner, enjoy is OK and it does not matter what others think. (Just keep it secret from outsiders.)

It's too late for me!

I would say that on a "kink" scale of 1 to 10, I would be about 11.3.

Now on a "pervert" scale, only about a 1.5.

There IS a difference...

HA !

You're only saying that to rationalize your depravity! 😁 😁 😁

Some people (still) consider oral sex "kinky".

Others consider any kind of anal play/intercourse "kinky".

Or powerplay is "kinky".

Some are more extreme... golden showers and other excretions, weird scenarios, weird insertions, etc are "kinky".

So for me, how kinky I am depends entirely on what the definition of "kinky" is.

I cannot answer without knowing the boundaries of the definition.

On a scale of 1 - 10, I'd rate myself about a 3 based on what I do. If I ever fulfilled a few fantasies, I increase that rating to a 4 or 5. Some of what I read here at Zity is miles beyond anything I've ever done, thought about doing, or would consider doing.

Post 85 On a scale of 1 - 10, ...

Hey,@Anoldguy, from another old guy, , I'm not even a 3. Before I joined Zity, I might have thought I was a 5 on a 1-10 scale. Now that I have navigated around here for a couple of weeks, I realize I'm maybe a 1 or at most a 1.5. Even if I was able to fulfill some fantasies, I might be a 3 or 4.

For all you 10s out there, I salute you. That's a level of kinkiness, I could never aspire to. I am very happy with my modest little kinks, and look forward to expanding my range somewhat with some guidance from the "experts" on here. 😁

I'm thinking about a 3. I once had a lady come over and l left a note taped to the front door: "The door is unlocked. Come inside, lock it behind you. Remove all clothing other than your underwear, have a seat on the living room couch, place the blindfold on the coffee table over your eyes and await further instructions." She complied, all afternoon...

You know. It's only kinky the first time.

I had to look up the different between fetish and kink just to be sure, and saw this:

kink: practices which go beyond conventional sex with the specific intent of heightening sexual arousal or intimacy.

fetishism: when a person uses a physical object and/or specific situation to create or enhance their own sexual arousal.

So, assuming this to be adequate, I'll try to answer. I have never been intimate with a female except for several kissing sessions when I was 15 (I am physically disabled, and was raised in a society where I felt sexuality and disability was treated as taboo. Maybe things are better now. I don't know). I am 41 now.

My fantasies ALWAYS revolve around age gap (I'm at least 41, and she is a college girl), and her needing to wear a mask for medical necessity. Could be a thin blue cone or pink earloop mask, or it could be a Respro mask or half mask cartridge respirator. I just am unable to go complete vanilla for some reason.

So, I guess that's kind of kinky, but not quite as extreme as others.

Being kinky is in each persons feeling toward various activities. Being told "Thats too kinky" can be a real turn on for me. I find being "inventive" is a more appropriate term. An inventive woman is a very precious asset.

Well, I've never had a sexual partner (I was born disabled, and it's kind of a taboo to recognize that we have sexual feelings, even though we definitely do).

So, just how kinky am I? Well, I had to look up the difference between "kink" and "fetish", because they seem to be used interchangeably. So, according to this link: http://www.mensjournal.com/expert-advice/sexual-fetishes-what-you-need-to-know-20150401/the-difference-between-a-fetish-and-kink , we can say this (and I quote):

"To an outsider, it can be challenging to understand how fetishes are any different from kinks. In terms of the behaviors involved, the two can definitely overlap but they are distinct. "People who are in the kink community like to discriminate fetish from kink by saying that kink is more focused on the person but the activity is part of the fun," says Devore. On the other hand, people who have a fetish are intensely focused on a specific object or ritual as part of their sexuality. They need whatever that is to experience any kind of sexual arousal or turn-on, making their sexuality more dependent on their fetish than on their partner."

I'm in general more object oriented. I like girls to wear footed pajamas, a schoolgirl kit, a Clara ballet costume, or various other things. Medically, I love a girl who (preferably IRL) wears a mask. It can be a disposable surgical mask or N95 mask, or a half mask cartridge respirator, like transplant patients have to wear at Stanford. Also, Respro or Vogmask designer masks.

So, that all can be combined in a number of different ways. Maybe she's in footed pajamas and a Disney surgical mask; or a Clara gown and a black Respro filter mask; or a school uniform and footed cable knit tights and saddle shoes, with a 3M half mask cartridge respirator.

I guess the kink would be building a medical scene around her wearing a mask (beit an exam or something else). Or having her just back from the Nutcracker. Or she's at school. I'm not really into elaborate scenarios like these. I'm just into the clothes and the sex. So...I'm fetishy (very much so) but not kinky.

I love to be kinky with sex with either M or F ....I also have many fetishes I like just as well... so I'm going with I'm both kinky and a fetishist..if that makes sense?

After reading posts from people in this site I think I'm not kinky at all. While I'm interested a lot of things, I've had relatively few partners who wanted more than just basic sex. I know I don't want anything to do with pain, scat, pee, diapers, it doesn't bother me that others do. But I would be open to a lot with a partner who wanted to experiment.

I know others might think I'm kinky but I just think I'm open-minded.

If we are defining kinky as things the vanilla world would call-

Deviant, gross, sick, or JFW (just fucking weird), things a church would pray for me for, or were grounds for divorce in every jurisdiction...well...that's me.

Deviant, gross, sick, or JFW (just fucking weird), things a church would pray for me for, or were grounds for divorce in every jurisdiction...well...that's me.

Too bad you live in Canada and not California. You'd be right at home here.

I told my best girlfriend I had done something right over the top, and she asked if an antelope was involved. I said 'No', and she just said 'Boriiiing'. I need something new.

No wonder she's your best friend - minds alike!

How kinky am I?

Let's see, perhaps the next door neighbors German Shepherd could answer that. Just kidding but I like to ride by the sheep farm on Saturday night?.

I would venture to guess that most of us on here have done way more kinky things than the admit. BUT we all have limits.

Things I've done :

Scroatal infusion, anal sex both top & bottom, more enemas then you could count on a abacus. Electro Stim A period of doing favors for wives of men who could no longer do it, while they watched. Sounding, CBT, penis pumping, and more besides this, yes I'm kinky and not afraid to admit it and enjoy it all!!!!

Yes, plnbrnwrapper, I'm one of those male partners that can't get it up anymore and it thrilled me to watch her getting done and know that he filled her. I'd like it to turn into a regular thing. Regards, irrigator333