Is it normal for straight guys to like getting fingered?

Hell yes! Loved it every time my wife used to do it. Due to her declining health for the past few year, our sex life has ended.

I have had encounters as nude male with several straight athletic males in their early 20s who were curious about receiving anal stimulation for the first time. When the male was laying nude on his stomach on the bed, I would tell him how I would pleasure his bottom cheeks and ass pussy. I would obtain his permission to pleasure him. I would relax him by massaging his bare bottom cheeks with my hands, rimming his ass pussy with my tongue, and then massaging his ass pussy with herbal oils. I would slowly use one lubricated finger to penetrate his ass pussy. When the male would report pleasurable feelings due to my moving my lubricated finger in and out of his ass pussy, I would slowly use two fingers to stretch open his ass pussy. When I would move two lubricated fingers in and out of his ass pussy, he would usually become more aroused and sometimes he would start to moan with pleasure. I would then again massage his bare bottom cheeks and rim his ass pussy. This would be followed by use of my lubricated fingers and a butt plug covered with Elbow Grease Hot Cream to penetrate and stimulate his ass pussy. There were times that a male became so stimulated that he would raise his hips off the bed and move them back and forth. I would then have him get on his knees on the bed with his head down on a pillow and his bare bottom pushed upward. I would use fingers and vibrators in his ass pussy to pleasure him which at times would cause him to get an erection which I would edge until he had an orgasm. The straight males whom I had encounters with all appeared to enjoy being fingered and experiencing anal stimulation in various forms.

I have had encounters as nude male with several straight athletic males in their early 20s who were curious about receiving anal stimulation for the first time. When the male was laying nude on his stomach on the bed, I would tell him how I would pleasure his bottom cheeks and ass pussy. I would obtain his permission to pleasure him. I would relax him by massaging his bare bottom cheeks with my hands, rimming his ass pussy with my tongue, and then massaging his ass pussy with herbal oils.

Guess what -They weren’t straight. Bisexual at least. The only man that will finger my butt is my urologist.

Anal eroticism is not strictly a gay thing. Someone clueless would think so, but it's not.

@PhoenixFunBuddy said

I have had encounters as nude male with several straight athletic males in their early 20s who were curious about receiving anal stimulation for the first time. When the male was laying nude on his stomach on the bed, I would tell him how I would pleasure his bottom cheeks and ass pussy. I would obtain his permission to pleasure him. I would relax him by massaging his bare bottom cheeks with my hands, rimming his ass pussy with my tongue, and then massaging his ass pussy with herbal oils. I would slowly use one lubricated finger to penetrate his ass pussy. When the male would report pleasurable feelings due to my moving my lubricated finger in and out of his ass pussy, I would slowly use two fingers to stretch open his ass pussy. When I would move two lubricated fingers in and out of his ass pussy, he would usually become more aroused and sometimes he would start to moan with pleasure. I would then again massage his bare bottom cheeks and rim his ass pussy. This would be followed by use of my lubricated fingers and a butt plug covered with Elbow Grease Hot Cream to penetrate and stimulate his ass pussy. There were times that a male became so stimulated that he would raise his hips off the bed and move them back and forth. I would then have him get on his knees on the bed with his head down on a pillow and his bare bottom pushed upward. I would use fingers and vibrators in his ass pussy to pleasure him which at times would cause him to get an erection which I would edge until he had an orgasm. The straight males whom I had encounters with all appeared to enjoy being fingered and experiencing anal stimulation in various forms.

We get it. You're gay or bisexual. I have never heard a straight person call the anus/rectum/whatever an "ass pussy."

You are as entitled to disagree with me as I am with you, but I cannot stand the term "ass pussy." I cringe whenever I see it on zity. It's an anus/rectum,shithole, butthole, chocolate highway or poop chute. ANY of those among many other terms are OK, but "ass pussy" is just a stupid term and I dislike comparing parts of a women's beautiful genital anatomy to a shithole.

When you said, "When the male was laying nude on his stomach on the bed, I would tell him how I would pleasure his bottom cheeks and ass pussy," what were you and the other supposedly straight males doing naked on a bed???

When you said "all appeared to enjoy being fingered and experiencing anal stimulation in various forms" does that mean you fucked their asses too? The guys you called "straight," obviously were not straight or you would not have gotten into their assholes.

NOTE TO MODERATORS: I DID NOT SAY HE WAS STUPID, I SAID THE TERM "ASS PUSSY" WAS STUPID SO YOU CAN HAVE A DRINK AND RELAX.

What's normal? This is an ENEMA site, where people discuss kinks that are still not much discussed outside our world.

Plus of course, when a woman says "fingered," I think, "Any girls care to give me a HAND?" ?????

After I'm clean, of course--butt then the prep is more than half the fun...

Yes, it is!

Yes, it is!

Yes, it is!

Yes, it is!

Please???

I think about it and consider myself straight. Being told to undress and get on your hands an knees and wait quietly. Then feeling the finger slide in predation for the enema nozzles our slide in causes a stir even today

I think we all like getting fingered....! Prodding the Prostate is a pleasurable experience for any male, regardless of sexuality. Only religious or social 'Brainwashing' makes a guy feel guilty and stops them from trying/enjoying what is a perfectly natural activity. They don't know what they're missing !!!!

It's very normal. Your rectum and Prostate are very sensitive so when you put pressure on them it feels Really, Really, Good.

Only religious or social 'Brainwashing' makes a guy feel guilty and stops them from trying/enjoying what is a perfectly natural activity. They don't know what they're missing !!!!

I'm not so sure those are the only reasons some men (as well as women) don't like it. For some - it just isn't pleasurable - or maybe oversensitive. Similar to some women who don't like their nipples played with and others who do. Some may have had a bad experience trying it and just aren't interested - that is why a lot of people don't like anal sex or toy play - someone went too hard or too big too fast!! .

I'm not so sure those are the only reasons some men (as well as women) don't like it. For some - it just isn't pleasurable - or maybe oversensitive. Similar to some women who don't like their nipples played with and others who do. Some may have had a bad experience trying it and just aren't interested - that is why a lot of people don't like anal sex or toy play - someone went too hard or too big too fast!! .

The Anus = Taboo

The Anus = Taboo

See - some are just not interested or don’t enjoy it. No big deal.

I posted this link a while back ago on this topic, and heterosexual guys interested in ass play should read it. It's sex positive and answers most questions you might wonder. Link is safe to click on, so check it out. http://handsfreeorgasm.net/blog/

I not just like it, I LOVE IT. But female only please. Unfortunately it only happened just few times so far, many more times it was male doctors fingers visiting my anus.....

I love it but have only occasionally had the pleasure.

Frankly I’d love it even more if my girlfriend would add thumb, palm and wrist and give me a sound fisting, but at the moment it seems extremely unlikely.

@SwitchableSusie: You are as entitled to disagree with me as I am with you, but I cannot stand the term "ass pussy." I cringe whenever I see it on zity. It's an anus/rectum,shithole, butthole, chocolate highway or poop chute. ANY of those among many other terms are OK, but "ass pussy" is just a stupid term and I dislike comparing parts of a women's beautiful genital anatomy to a shithole.

Add to this the term "pussy stick" - what a one of my friends would call my erections...

@reddevil said

Add to this the term "pussy stick" - what a one of my friends would call my erections...

Even that is much better than "ass pussy." It's a stick going into the pussy. At least that's reasonable.

Many people, many times have used the term "dip stick" for an erection, so "pussy stick" really is not so terrible!

Is a mouth a "mouth pussy?" Is a hand a "hand pussy?"

What was called (I cringe as I type the word) "ass pussy" IS an ass or asshole, not any form of pussy. Furthermore, men don't have a pussy, although many I have known can BE a pussy.

@PhoenixFunBuddy said

I have had encounters as nude male with several straight athletic males in their early 20s who were curious about receiving anal stimulation for the first time. .....

The straight males whom I had encounters with all appeared to enjoy being fingered and experiencing anal stimulation in various forms.

Sorry, but by definition, straight males are interested in sexual activity with women only. That is what being straight actually means.

They might have been telling you - and themselves - that they were straight, but their actions in involving themselves with another male reveal some degree of homosexuality. The truth is they were at least bi-curious, not straight, and so their story doesn't actually apply to this discussion thread.

“AssPussy” & “PussyStick”, I always thought those terms were only used to humiliate a male. I cringe at both, but humiliation or degradation is not my thing, neither giving or receiving.

@PhoenixFunBuddy, if you had your finger or used a toy on any males ass, neither you or him are straight.

If a straight guy was curious about any type of anal stimulation he would seek out a female only.

@bridgette - If a straight guy was curious about any type of anal stimulation he would seek out a female only. I totally agree! Speaking for my own emotions here - I am straight & I love being pegged...by a woman. Just the thought of having a guy's penis up my ass gives me an icky feeling. Obviously, it is purely psychological, because the physical event is roughly analagous. I'm just not sexually attracted to other men. So, I must agree with the majority of those who've posted here: if you are a man, and engage in sexual activities with other men, you're NOT straight! You may be bi, but you're definitely NOT straight!

Even that is much better than "ass pussy."

Many people, many times have used the term "dip stick" for an erection, so "pussy stick" really is not so terrible!

Is a mouth a "mouth pussy?" Is a hand a "hand pussy?"

What was called (I cringe as I type the word) "ass pussy" IS an ass or asshole, not any form of pussy. Furthermore, men don't have a pussy, although many I have known can BE a pussy.

I just hate the word, "pussy". I don't know why, but I think of a cat.

Yeah, some use the word, "kitty", too.

Sylvester, that ole pussycat.

Then there was the nursery rhyme, "Pussycat, pussycat".

Then the Tom Jones song, "What's New Pussycat?".

I have no problem with anatomical terminology. Vagina, anus, penis, etc. "Your sex."

Some terms are more neutral. Dick, balls, wood, etc.

I also hate "boobs", "jugs", etc. for breasts. They are just ugly words. It's like a derogatory nature, if someone says, "Your boobs".

I just hate the word, "pussy". I don't know why, but I think of a cat.

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I bought a secondhand paperback a few days ago, mainly for the cover. It was published in 1967 and was about 'the Sex 'Racket', how conmen/women made money off of people desperate for sex back then. Published in 1967, the language was still very circumspect. Though describing things adequately enough, some of the euphemisms were funny and quaint.

One of the oddest I found was the author always writing about a woman's 'kitten' ... never a pussy or kitty, but 'kitten' ...

@sundaybrunch said

I just hate the word, "pussy". I don't know why, but I think of a cat.

Yeah, some use the word, "kitty", too.

Sylvester, that ole pussycat.

Then there was the nursery rhyme, "Pussycat, pussycat".

Then the Tom Jones song, "What's New Pussycat?".

I have no problem with anatomical terminology. Vagina, anus, penis, etc. "Your sex."

Some terms are more neutral. Dick, balls, wood, etc.

I also hate "boobs", "jugs", etc. for breasts. They are just ugly words. It's like a derogatory nature, if someone says, "Your boobs".

I bet you don't like "cans" either! 😁 Neither do I, but boobs are fine, but I personally don't use that word.

I have no problem with most of the vernacular or medical terms. I just have a couple that I hate. I rather like, "pussy." It's almost cute.

I rather like, "pussy." It's almost cute.

And it's widely used too. Une chatte in French and 'een poesje' in Dutch. Both with the same double meaning ...

@sundaybrunch

Are "The Ladies" an OK Reference vs "boobs"? I've heard more women refer to them that way than men.

Oh yea!!!

OK... so a question was asked about it being normal or not for guys to enjoy anal play. No discussion about gender of giver, no discussion about use of slang (beyond "fingered"). Now we have the straight police weighing in on who is "straight enough" and an extended discussion on what terms should be used. Whatever happened to just ignoring posts that don't send you and don't have horrendously inaccurate information? That's what I try to do.

@moliere said

OK... so a question was asked about it being normal or not for guys to enjoy anal play. No discussion about gender of giver, no discussion about use of slang (beyond "fingered"). Now we have the straight police weighing in on who is "straight enough" and an extended discussion on what terms should be used. Whatever happened to just ignoring posts that don't send you and don't have horrendously inaccurate information? That's what I try to do.

LISTEN CAREFULLY:

The title of the thread is:

"Is it normal for straight guys to like getting fingered?"

What part of STRAIGHT GUYS GETTING FINGERED don't you understand?

If it's a straight guy, he is getting fingered by a WOMAN

STRAIGHT is an absolute. you are or you are not straight.

Straight guys are NOT going to be fingered by a man.

Plenty of sexually insecure guys who are LYING TO THEMSELVES about being straight might be fingered by a guy.

A straight guy might experiment once or twice when he is a teenager, but after that, he is bisexual and will fuck anything.

OK... so a question was asked about it being normal or not for guys to enjoy anal play. No discussion about gender of giver, no discussion about use of slang (beyond "fingered").

The thread states: "Is it normal for STRAIGHT guys to like getting fingered".. If the giver is a male then the (guy) receiver isn't STRAIGHT unless it's a medical exam.