Is it normal for straight guys to like getting fingered?

Seriously I don't get how people can confuse liking a physical sensation with their sexual orientation. !

I suppose lots of influence comes from peers in school or at work who gabble on and postulate the most ridiculously inaccurate ideas and notions about masculinity. The undue adulation that accrues to sports activities will surely reinforce such ideas. Certain religious affiliations also do their best to lambaste and condemn any and all forms of homosexuality and anything that can be confused with the same.

So if a guy is okay getting fingered by another guy, what's the difference then in his getting and liking an enema to be given to him by another man? IMO, if a guy is straight, the closeness and looking at another man's ass would be repulsive.

Lol, sigh.

As a gay guy i can tell you that there are gay guys who do not want or like to be anally penetrated. Being gay is not about the kind of sex you have, it's who you have it with... i.e., people of the same gender.

I'm bi - I like getting fingered, enemas, and more from men; but I have no desire to give it return, as I don't find a man's body sexy - I just like what they can do to me..

I'm bi - I like getting fingered, enemas, and more from men; but I have no desire to give it return, as I don't find a man's body sexy - I just like what they can do to me..

Maybe cuz you're a bottom? Just guessing...

Sure it’s normal! There are a lot of nerves in there that really enjoy the attention! Something that feels that good also has to be quite good for you too. It has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality, unless you want it to.

Getting fingered is a great pleasure. Having a nice thick round nozzle against the prostate is also great.

I love it as I start to come,my wife squeezes as she fucks me with the enema syringe bulb.

Modified thick nozzle of course.

The hot water direct on the prostate is mind blowing?.

@reddevil said

So if a guy is okay getting fingered by another guy, what's the difference then in his getting and liking an enema to be given to him by another man? IMO, if a guy is straight, the closeness and looking at another man's ass would be repulsive.

There is no difference. A guy who is OK with bering fingered BY A GUY is just as BISEXUAL OR HOMOSEXUAL as a guy who likes getting enemas from a guy.

He ISN'T heterosexual/straight.

Heterosexual guys like being fingered BY WOMEN.

A lot of straight guys are afraid to do that kind of thing because it's too "gay." But my best friend John who is totally straight has asked me to lick his Asshole, because his wife won't do it for him.

This is probably not a good website to determine what's "normal." (Like Washington - and I don't mean George!)

If some/many women find anal fingering/play pleasurable- why wouldn’t it be just as pleasurable to a straight guy? Straight guys who are confident about their sexuality and enjoy anal stimulation wouldn’t have a problem with it. Some men - like some women - just aren’t interested for other reasons than associating it with being gay

This is probably not a good website to determine what's "normal."

I would guess a lot of couples who are pretty vanilla both enjoy anal play. There are lots of articles in both men’s and women’s magazines about it. In general it’s more “normal” than strictly a kink! ?

I can honestly say that back before I had my colostomy put in, and my rectum closed due to a hernia, I rather enjoyed having my asshole fingered. It felt like to feel a woman wiggling her finger around then teasing my prostate, I would get an erection almost immediately. And furthermore when I couldn't find a female to do it, I would put a glove on, lubricate my middle finger and do it myself

A lot of straight guys are afraid to do that kind of thing because it's too "gay." But my best friend John who is totally straight has asked me to lick his Asshole, because his wife won't do it for him

Yeah, your best friend John is not totally straight, he is bi. If he were totally straight he would never think about having a man lick his asshole. The bigger point is, of course, that it doesn’t matter if he is bi, straight, poly, non-binary, whatever.... he knows what he likes to have done and he found someone to do it.

A lot of straight guys are afraid to do that kind of thing because it's too "gay." But my best friend John who is totally straight has asked me to lick his Asshole, because his wife won't do it for him

Your best friend John is NOT straight.

You don't believe he is straight, do you?

Your best friend John is NOT straight.

Duhhhh... :-)

@SwitchableSusie : There is no difference. A guy who is OK with bering fingered BY A GUY is just as BISEXUAL OR HOMOSEXUAL as a guy who likes getting enemas from a guy.

He ISN'T heterosexual/straight.

Heterosexual guys like being fingered BY WOMEN.

Thanks Susie - we see eye-to-eye on the this.

To answer the OP, "is it normal for straight guys to like getting fingered?" I would let a female lover finger me. Not sure if I would like it or not, so I can not answer if it is normal. If I found it pleasurable when my lady lover did so, then I would say it is normal. I would ONLY let a female lover do this! No one of the male species will ever be allowed in the proximity of me in any sexual way!

Now, if only @bridgette were closer to me....😉

I could give you a fingering you would remember all your life!

My wife did. Still does.

@Stagman

Well now Stag,never say never ? ?

The anus has hundreds of nerve endings and can provide pleasure for anyone, male or female. Straight guys have the same nerve endings as a gay male so it is quite normal to enjoy the rectal probing.

I massage my husband's prostate quite regularly, and I can assure you he's straight as an arrow. There's nothing a man should be ashamed of, or have a gay stigma about his wife or girlfriend stimulating his prostate with her finger. I've never met a man in my life that tried it, then decided he didn't want me to do it again. Once you stimulate a man by way of his rectum, he'll be wanting you to do it time and time again. So many women prefer using a vibrating toy because they're too timid to stick their finger up a guy's butt. If you love a man enough, this shouldn't be an issue. Because I can tell you from experience that your finger will feel ten times better kneading his gland directly than a hit or miss toy that seldom finds that right spot. Putting your finger inside him also has the effect of ultimate intimacy. It will blow his mind to know the reason it feels so good is because part of you is inside him. And massaging a man's prostate is actually healthy for him as long as you don't get so carried away that it hurts or injures him internally. I've had best results with my husband by having him lie on his back and elevate his knees slightly off the bed. All you need to do is sit between his legs, raise his testicles and penis, and enter his rectum with your middle finger about 2". For heaven sake, use ample lube. And it helps to massage his anus with the pad of the finger to ease the initial discomfort of penetration. You can also have him lie in a left-sims position, the same as for giving him an enema. Either method helps to compress the prostate into the rectal wall where it's easier to reach.

I could give you a fingering you would remember all your life!

Wow, not that's has me fantasizing; though sounds a bit scary... I've been fingered many times, mostly by men. One gal would do it once she had enough of my pumping her during sex, or was close to an orgasm - as soon as she fingered me I'd cum.

When they wrote the definition of "straight" I was the person the lexicographers were thinking of.

No one likes a good fingering or fisting more than I do.

Yes, by a FEMALE!

It’s weird at first but the right person makes it ok!

@Romulus, I'm always willing to have my wife slide her hand and forearm into me. Numerous full in-out cycles during a session.

Gotta take a couple minutes break between each cycle because the orgams are tremendous!

If I were back in my 20's or 30's I would be saying how I would only want a female to finger me and that I'd find it repulsive to have a male do it to me .... but times and people (me) change I've learned..

So, uhh, you are not straight any longer.

It's normal for people to like getting fingered. It's normal to like anything that feels good.

If he only likes girl's fingers in his butt he's straight.

If he only like having a guy's finger up there he's gay.

If he's not that particular he's just plain horny.

Regardless, it's all normal, and if not who cares? Just how many people know who's fingers are up you butt?