Is it normal for straight guys to like getting fingered?

OMG, I sure hope so!

I'm over 60, married over (WELL over) 30 years, and have never been with another man in a sexual manner.

However, I definitely like the sensation of something penetrating that opening.

It is normal for ALL people to enjoy being fingered. Since all people have a butthole it is not a gender/sex/orientation issue. It is simply an issue of enjoying the stimulation of nerve endings in a private and naughty place. It feels good.

Normalcy is much over-rated, and I LOVE getting fingered!

Yes, as long as it's done by a woman...!

Yes, as long as it's done by a woman...!

Most non-fanatics will give you a pass on sexual activity with yourself as well.

I don’t know if it’s normal but I really like it. The first time someone pushed a finger in my ass, I came instantly.

It amazes me that this is such a sensitive topic. The anus is the most sensitive and erotic spot in a man's body. It is not reserved for sexual preference. For some reason many straight men have been denying this pleasure for ever. Taking away the gay stereotype and taboos most men would accept the anal pleasure that comes with stimulation in this area. Thanks to Zity for such an open forum where all of us can be honest about our sexuall feelings.

Totally cool as long as it's a female. I've had some geyser sized explosions this way. Really want to be

...able to be with the experienced milf and take turns with the penetration. I love the idea of a girl who is interested in a (small lol) strap on fkn my

and hitting the prostate while pumping her hands round the swollen ck til it explodes

One of my most erotic memories:

The south fork of the Smith River, one of the most pristine spots on the planet. It was summer and we were way away from civilization and we had been swimming nude. I wanted to fish a little and I had brought my rig and a small bit of tackle. I found a caddis fly, fixed it to a hook and let it drift downstream in the current and as I began to concentrate on where it was going, she came up behind me with the pretext of rubbing some suntan oil on me...when I felt her slippery finger touch that special place...made my heart leap...then she was in and my cock was now in my thoughts...fuck if I knew where that damned caddis fly was...she had her middle finger as far up my butt as she could get it and I was getting a reach around...plus I am fishing in this gorgeous secluded spot. The pole bobbed and bounced and she yelled in delight, you got a fish! I just laughed and said that fish could tell what you were doing and he just stole my bait! She asked if I was sad and I said I will be if you quit doing that. Well she helped me pump some "fish food " into the river. 😜 Life just doesn't get any better than that! 😉

I enjoy being fingered very much i have orgasmed from this too

a nice experience

Yes as part of Prostate play or chastity play.

Mmmm

Yes I’m straight and I love more than a finger in my ass

Yes I'm straight and love when my wife uses more than a finger in me.

Unashamedly enjoying anal play even as a straight guy, to me, is a mark of confidence and sexual maturity!

It is normal for ALL people to enjoy being fingered. Since all people have a butthole it is not a gender/sex/orientation issue. It is simply an issue of enjoying the stimulation of nerve endings in a private and naughty place. It feels good.

I totally agree. Also who cares what normal is. Most of the kinky things we enjoy aren't considered normal by most people. Their loss.

I love having a finger play with my ass or up inside it. Especially during a BJ or hand job.

Of course it’s perfectly normal! Whether someone else does it or you do it yourself! You will definitely be aroused and possibly orgasm!

Appropriately done, it is very pleasing.

Yes it's normal, your not alone....toni

Hard for me to answer since I'm bi - but even so, as much as I like being fingered, I find the thought of fingering a man a big turn off. So, on that score I cannot imagine a straight guy liking to finger another man.

How does someone APPROPRIATELY finger a straight guy????

My read is gently, with plenty of lube and an awareness of anatomy, after getting consent and with a finger connected to a partner they want to play with.

Of course that is also the way you appropriately finger a woman, so you can either accept and enjoy or freak out that you're being feminized.

@SwitchableSusie said, which was quoted by @moliere

How does someone APPROPRIATELY finger a straight guy????

@moliere said

My read is gently, with plenty of lube and an awareness of anatomy, after getting consent and with a finger connected to a partner they want to play with.

Of course that is also the way you appropriately finger a woman, so you can either accept and enjoy or freak out that you're being feminized.

@moliere said, "after consent. . . . . use a lot of lube, blah, blah, blah,. . . the way you would appropriately finger a woman, blah, blah, blah, . . . First of all the thread is about fingering men, NOT women. Second, GENTLY??? How does @moliere know the man only wants it gently? If you don't use enough pressure fingering a man, the stimulation on the prostate and sensations you or he desires won't occur unless all you want to do is tickle his anus. Third, if I am naked in bed with someone--male or female, I don't need to ask, "is it ok if I finger your ass, or any other body part." I am going to go for whatever I want to do. Fourth, if a man fingered my vulva/clitoris with the pressure most men like in their anus, I would kick them out of my bed.

If the other person doesn't want me to do whatever I plan to do, they can say so or push my hand away, and last of all, IT IS NOT GODDAMN. RAPE just because I try to do something the other person doesn't want. Being naked in bed with someone is consent to try whatever pops into a person's mind. Why else would two people be naked in bed together?

I think it’s absolutely fine. As long as it’s two (or more) consenting adults, it’s good to go. ?

It absolutely is normal for guys to like their partner to play/finger/whatever with their ass. Here on Zity most are kinky and willing to talk about it. I'd bet there are a lot of vanilla guys out there who enjoy it as well - just wouldn't admit it. Same with anal sex.

So, if it is NORMAL, then is @Moppys_jalopy NOT normal?? 😄

Feels pretty good if done correctly. Straight, gay, bi, anything in between, guys should be more open to it!

VERY... My fiancé loves to milk me dry and work my ass. She tells me its the punishment for fucking her ass (which she loves). haha. She's been slowly working up to more fingers. The other night .. she told me her goal is her fist in me.

Is it normal for straight guys to like getting fingered?

The thing about straight guys getting fingered in the ass is, they want it done by a WOMAN, not a man.

With us spending so much time together, and the weather often dreary, we have often climbed back in bed and well??????

But then it works both ways.

@SwitchableSusie Somewhat of an argument from stereotype, but here goes:

"Is it normal for a straight guy to like being fingered in the ass" means that the OP probably isn't completely comfortable with it yet. Might mean that he is not very experienced either. In any case if I was in those shoes I might not be comfortable jumping in with both feet, hence the caution. Unsure often leads to tightening of muscles, so slow and gentle helps.

The "like a woman" part was just a dig against the slightly hidden but still present idea that it is somehow unmanly if you do anything that is perceived as "feminine" because somehow that is abhorrent. Personal pet peeve there I guess.

I do kind of wish that my wife would jump in with both feet because I am far too wussy and tied up with issues of consent to push her enough, so I do need to get a bit of your gumption.