"I do however, feel suzy is advocating rape within marriage"
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"WRONG WRONG WRONG
I am advocating required sex between spouses NOT be called rape when parties are healthy and able.
"Not feeling like it" or denying the spouse should not be permitted."
Ah, the definitional sulk. Most people consider forcing sex on someone without their consent to be rape. You don't want to call it rape, OK.
Your idea of a contract is fine. But what happens when one party breaks the contract? You go to court. No court would require "specific performance" of that condition. I listed numerous options, but assault (if you don't like the term rape) is not one of them.
"You can't have all the other things owned by both parties and the bodies NOT be owned by both parties."
So does this mean both parties need to agree if one wants a tat or piercing? Prevent the person from overeating or drinking?
"If I had a husband who decided he just didn't want sex anymore, I'd throw him down, climb on top of him and make him fuck me. If I had to, I would use a caverject and inject his penis myself."
^^This is where I have to think you're trolling. I can't imagine the New York Nursing Board would find that an appropriate attitude for a nurse.
Have some common sense here. Just because you may be entitled to something doesn't mean you have a right to take it at your will.
"It's interesting (to me anyway) that the people who disagree with me are "looking for friendship, a relationship, someone to play with, etc in their profiles. They are all following the party line and being so very much a social justice warrior so they appear safe to a prospective partner"
Sorry, that doesn't work with me. I don't have any of that on my profile and as a female, I'm not concerned about appearing safe to a prospective partner and in fact, have no intention of ever meeting anyone from this site IRL.
Having a minimal degree of morality and believing you shouldn't force yourself sexually on someone who doesn't want it, regardless of the nature of the relationship, is NOT about "following the party line."
And btw, you mention the people who disagree with you, yet I haven't seen one person agree with you on this extreme position you take.