I've a deeply complex set of sensibilities about such issues... One one level- DOING such snooping is an indefensibly scummy disrespectful trespass worthy of scornful contempt. And BEING so snooped on is the mirror of suchlike- a violation of above all else- TRUST-
Trust means in this sort of case, that we respect each other's boundaries unless given a clear unambiguous invitation to be "so intimate" with private things.
Yeah- there's a hugely grey area of "looked under sink for toilet paper" plausible if not true reasons to look at/into that which is NOT in plain sight. And I'd be a liar to say i've not noticed "stuff" whilst so engaged/turning off water for repairs type reasons. Which also goes to MY feelings on lookers in my stuff- If they see that I've got x-y Z items in my public or private toilet- i might be amused or exasperated or embarrassed depending on who it was. Sme ldies and especially men= Squicked if it's uninvited! A few other women- if they saw and knew either by accident to avoid THEIR having "an accident " as in one cherished memory- And either we talked or just had a shared warm knowing smile...From that to reality?
And I gotta admit- a few ladies in my life have thanked me for having Pads, Tampons etc on hand as I've needed them most of my life due to IBS. It's been One More Bittersweetness Layercake- that some ladies were comforted/amused/ happy I saved them exasperation...and others were dismayed by my health needs.Apparently in their eyes- being viewed merely as either kink or homosexuality! That last odd belief still defies my ability to follow flawed logic.
Oh- I have WANTED to see all the wonders some women had/have in their personal spaces but again, I've the desire to be INVITED rather than be an oaf.
And it's a few cherished times seemed to be degrees of mutual in oddly improbable to merely comedic situations. Women in my life I'd decloaked enough to that I dared "borrow" a pad/tampon etc from with asked for overt permission... VERY few of that deeply intimate trusts yet it was/is part of my unashamed, nay proud headspace of trust as more than everything- I'd be too ashamed to make eye contact if i violated some trusts. And I hope others share that sentiment. Tempered by the knowing we're human with lapses in our best honors or just have needs to look for a thing absent bad intent.
One such truly special memory of shared "odd to some" intimacy with a friend girl level of relationship- was the mutual LAUGHTER at her looking under my apartment's sink hoping to find "something" as she'd come on her period quite early- thence her finding my wide assortment of hygiene stuff.
We laughed to stupidly gasping for breath levels about the scene and we talked for HOURS afterwards about odd shared medical memories yet we'd had the cherished freedom of NO fearful sexual tensions as that had been settled for us some time past.. Decades later- I;'ve no regrets about missed chances to snoop And the few times I edged on boundaries in younger years are still shameful lapses. Being GIVEN a special lady's fragrant undies Vs stealing them. Being gifted a TOUR of all the toys. A guided show&tell of her enema/douching stuff would be erotica beyond my fondest dreams yet my digging for the same sights makes me fear not even enjoying it. Sighs- I guess ?i am weird, eh?