Just Enjoy an Enema for what it is

I started using enemas for health reasons, complications with IBS. The enema seemed to be a mechanical solution to a mechanical problem. But now there is much more associated with the process for me . I can be aroused during the process, but not always. However, I find it very relaxing and the feeling afterwards is rewarding. I feel cleaner and lighter. The toxins leave the body. The enema seems to help clear my mind as well as my body.

I can say that an enema is just about the simplest pleasure one can indulge in and expect significant returns (no pun intended). Certain things we do in life create a feeling or sense of accomplishment and often great relief. An enema stimulates certain physiological reactions in the body, but at the same time, provides for significant relaxation, especially when the system is purged of waste and toxicity. I'm sure that much is purely psychological when we have gotten past the negative perceptions that many people have regarding enemas.

Like LPG mentioned, there is a healthy component that can be very effective in managing various conditions. I also use enemas for health reasons. It just happens that certain involuntary reactions occur, even when I'm trying to simply address a non-sensual/sexual need or desire.

I enjoy an enema for its own sake and not because I 'need' it. Although, if I do need to encourage a belated BM, that naturally leads me to justify taking some personal time for myself. What really triggers the impulse to treat myself, though, is being home alone. The quiet house whispers my name and beckons me to the bathroom to dig out my gear.

I always feel I should hide the fact that I enjoy enemas, because I know no one else who does. (Except on this site, and I don't really know you.) If my husband was home, I would be embarrassed to be caught indulging myself or even staying in the bathroom too long which always brings questions. "Are you all right?"

Growing up, I got enemas from my mother whenever I was sick. Whenever I stayed home from school because I didn't feel good and stayed in bed all day, my mother would suggest an enema. She always chose the quiet time of day when my dad was at work and my siblings were in school. (Is that another reason why a quiet house still affects me the way it does?)

When my mother took me into the bathroom for an enema, I didn't always "need" it. But she didn't want to take any chances. From that time in my life I learned to enjoy an enema for what it is -- an activity with psychological aspects that brought pleasure to me. I enjoyed having an authority figure insist on giving me an enema, someone who wouldn't take no for an answer. I was trained to cooperate and obey by strict parents, so it never occurred to me to resist.

Even then, I was embarrassed that I liked getting an enema, so I would always be careful about showing any pleasure or eagerness whatsoever. She would use the bulb type and after she squeezed a few into me, she would ask, "Are you feeling full yet?" And I would be so ho-hum, "Not particularly." And she would give me some more.

I would prefer to have a partner who enjoyed enemas the way I do, but I don't, so I have to do it solo. And I have to keep it a secret due to the shyness and embarrassment issues which I've never gotten over. I know there are others who feel that this proclivity is a perversion, so I'm not alone. To me, having an enema is a fun thing to do and rarely stems from any health-related motive.

Well said, Sally. Many of us got started the same way and continue to enjoy the many aspects of enema activities. It's just the way we're wired now.

Thanks, Redbulb. Just discovering this site and learning how others feel about their personal idiosyncrasies is making me feel better about myself.

As I grow older... I'm now enjoying the enema more and more as just a very comforting thing. There are times when the enema experience will bring on a great masturbation session, but for the most part I just really enjoy all the sensations of the enema.

I enjoy enemas for how they make me feel afterwards. There's nothing like receiving a nice 4 qt. warm enema.

I enjoy enemas for what they are so to speak, but most of the time, they also give me a strong erection, so I might as well kill two birds with one stone. Enjoy the enema, and enjoy the climax that goes with it.

Like Sallyxx I felt shy and that my e pleasure was unacceptable to others. Yet recently I have told several lady friends that I love the enema feelings and they, though not like minded, take it is stride and have not bothered me about it. Still good friends. I don't bring it up further as that would be annoying to them.

Enemas are wonderful. in the morning after a good b.m. you will feel good all day. then its time to start the evening pleasures.

Yeh enjoy the enemas

I received enemas as a child and hated them! They hurt! My mom kept telling me to relax and it wouldn't hurt but it still did.

When I was a teen the bag was hanging in the bathroom because Mom needed it regularly. I began experimenting and found them to be erotic, but wasn't everything for teenage guys?

As I matured I continued to experiment and find them enjoyable. I always thought I was one of the few who enjoyed enemas until I started looking online.

These sites have added to my experimentation and enjoyment. Now, no matter what their purpose, I find enjoyment, good health and often sexual release.

To this day when I hear the word relax I think of enemas. And now I really do find them relaxing. I wish I could share that feeling with like minded ladies.

I for one enjoy enemas to get that "clean" feeling of getting all cleaned out. I have never used enemas in a sexual way. Maybe as precursor for sex (i. e. to be cleaned out for anal), but never as a sex act.

Absolutely. That was the reason I started taking enemas all those years ago. For the pure pleasure of the experience. The feel of the very warm water surging it's way up through my system. The relaxing sensations, and all the little tingly feelings you get as you get fuller. The extra benefits from an enema are just that; benefits.

I very much enjoy enemas for the exact reasons! I very much enjoy just getting the enemas! Especially when someone else who knows what they are doing is giving me good old fashion enemas.

Recently had the pleasure of administering a three enema series to a beautiful red headed woman.

She hadn't pooped in a few days and felt she needed a good cleaning.

I was very gentle and talked her through each step. I thoroughly lubericated her rectum before each of her three bags and a final lube to soothe her sore rectum when we were finished.

Later she mentioned how well she felt and teased me that I would now be required to give her enemas every time I visited.

My problem is that I think she will not want to submit to enemas just for the relaxation and enjoyable feelings and sense of well being -- all reasons I take enemas and colonics.

My wife and I have a simple code. If she "needs" an enema, she will say she needs one.

If she just "wants" an enema, she will say she wants an enema.

I know the code and will administer accordingly -- either medicinal or erotic as specified.

My friend will allow me to administer "needed" enemas with the understanding they are medicinal with no sexual touching or talking.

I want her to "want" relaxation enemas for the physical pleasure and sexual feelings that accompany her nakedness and spread-legged exposure.

Hope we can get to that point on my next visit, which should be in a few weeks!

If anyone has any experience convincing a female friend to submit to pleasure enemas, please pass them along.

I was initially attracted to enemas due to being anal erotic so enemas are a form of anal play and pleasurable sensations. Over the many years of using enemas for a sexual release I have enjoyed the feeling of effortlessly clearing my rectum and colon which leaves a pleasant and at ease feeling. That said I still always close with an intense orgasm after my enema session usually while expelling my last enema.

So I can distinguish the pleasures of enemas apart from the sexual release but the two are closely related.

Well said ProV1

I used to enjoy enemas for all those reasons of erotic anal pleasure. But now I enjoy the health benefits from a good enema. An enema can be relaxing stimulating pleasurable cleansing anything and everything all at the same time. Enemas will always be a part of me.

Interestingly someone posted somewhere about a bad enema experiences. I'm yet to have a bad experience and I doubt I ever will.

Because I stared enjoying enemas long before puberty I would have to conclude it was for a non-sexual reason, because they felt so damned good. I have always enjoyed an enema more when someone else was giving it to me. And I'm sure that has to to with the ones mother gave me. Lots of encouragement and praise as a good boy when I would take and retain us much water as I could. Trying to take it all was a source of pride for me, but that didn't carry over into ever enjoying much more than 3 quarts. When mom switched from a funnel and rectal tube to a Davol bag even at a very young age I could take it all. Memory says the bag wasn't full to the top, but I'm sure I was taking at least 1 1/2 quarts by 5. There was the odd occasion when the bag had emptied and mom asked if I felt like I could take some more that more was added.

When I started doing solo enemas I would just take us much as I wanted, because it felt so good. When I first started to have sexual feelings during the enemas and started playing with my penis I thought that was really sick! As I found out more, had my first orgasm, when I couldn't quite do it, a friend took over and helped me get off, I knew I wanted to be having an enema and masturbate.

But, even without masturbation I enjoy enemas just because they feel really good. A few times when I have been able to give someone their first enema I have had a couple of people react with just those words, "That felt really good."

I'd have to say I enjoy an enema for what it is. Mine are solos, so there is no bondage, spanking or other activities requiring a partner. Sometimes an enema has been followed by masturbation, but the enema is the end in itself. Getting off is gravy.

Lincster45 says--"That felt really good"...Pretty much sums it up & one of the main reasons why I do.

One of my closest girlfriends has been diagnosed with breast cancer. We invited her and her husband to dinner over the weekend. While our husbands were watching a basketball game, girlfriend and I retreated to our comfy living room sofa where I tried to reassure her that she would be ok. We talked for an hour about our childhood memories, our kids, our fears. We laughed and cried. After they left I was so exhausted from this experience. I asked my husband if he would give me an enema. Was I sick? No. Was I bound up? No. Was my IBS kicking up? No. I felt like having an enema "just because."

"I enjoy an enema for its own sake and not because I 'need' it. Although, if I do need to encourage a belated BM, that naturally leads me to justify taking some personal time for myself. What really triggers the impulse to treat myself, though, is being home alone. The quiet house whispers my name and beckons me to the bathroom to dig out my gear.

I always feel I should hide the fact that I enjoy enemas, because I know no one else who does. (Except on this site, and I don't really know you.) If my husband was home, I would be embarrassed to be caught indulging myself or even staying in the bathroom too long which always brings questions. "Are you all right?""

Sally, you hit home with your statement. With my wife away, the quiet house always beckons. With a long absence, I set up the bed and tripod for a great series of enemas. The time is needed to wash and dry the towels after use and returning them to proper storage without any notice. Like you, I too, hide my enjoyment of enemas and would also be embarrassed if my wife walked in on me in the bathroom while I am sitting on the toilet with a nozzle firmly in place and an enema flowing into me. It is a bit strange and a bit disjointed, yet I know my wife is not comfortable talking about enemas and did not have a good experience as a child.

Thus is life.

Yes, I enjoy an enema for what it is; a good way to clean out my colon and a way to have sexual release. Good for my health on two accounts

Maybe a little off-topic, but this thread reminded me of something I heard during my corporate working days. An executive, well-known to me, in a meeting I happened not to attend, made the statement he thought analogous to his point, "Sometimes you just need to take an enema because it feels good." This was a meeting of men and women and a wide range of ages. As much as I wondered how he thought saying that was a good idea, I also spent some time wondering what some of the people in the meeting I knew, particularly women, thought when they heard him say it.

I do enJoy enemas for what it is

for health and fun

And the sensation to be clean and well lube after

There have been many days (well nights) when I've come home from a stressful job and an empty house (i.e., before I remarried). While a glass of wine was helpful, a slow enema was what really took away the stress and anxieties of the day. I often half filled the tub, fixed a 2-quart bag, and filled myself over then next half hour. It was not a race, and not a test of how much I could hold. More than anything, it was enveloping myself externally (and internally) in warmth that provided comfort and sent me to bed ready for a solid night's rest. I will be the first to admit that some of these sessions involved sexual release, especially if my day had been particularly difficult. However, that strategy increasingly proved ineffective, and, over time, a relaxing enema was all I needed to get a good night's sleep. Conversely, on nights when I was especially tense over some issue and hadn't had an enema, in my dreams, I often tried to resolve the situation from the previous day that had made me tense. These dreams were usually unsuccessful, and I often woke up feeling the tension was still there. Looking back, I realized some of these dreams involved me searching for opportunities to have an enema. Sadly, I my dreams never succeeded in that respect. I wonder how many of us here on Zity have sought enemas in their dreams and what they did with those memories upon waking.

I love this thread and responses of so many of you. There are pleasures in life when we can immerse ourselves in the moment and forget about the realities of a world that today is in so much conflict. I think there are times when cleansing our physical and mental health helps renew our spirits. This sounds corny, even outrageous, to a lot of people, but it works for me when I just feeling like "getting away" and having some me-time. Every woman and home should have an enema bag.

I could not agree with you more Vicki. While sharing an enema with your partner is one of the most intimate of experiences, having a morning,afternoon or a day to yourself and needing to unwind i can think of almost nothing as satisfying and personally intimate as laying out warm towels on the bed and treating myself to an enema( or 2 or 3) with all the associated warm feelings and intense sensations.

I often do enemas for fun and to improve health, they always excite me