Just Enjoy an Enema for what it is

I do enjoy them for exactly that.

Exactly. I enjoy reading about others adventures with enemas, but for me, an enema is just an enema. I still love them and would love them every day if I could.

Besides the heath benefit, I just love a ( 2 or 3 ) enema. Being so anal excitable as I am for so many years, its something that I can really enjoy by myself.

For me, 90% of the time I take an enema for the fun and pleasure of it. I've done the bondage, sexual, humiliation, submissive thing with enemas, but the majority of time I just take one for my own pleasure. I find the excitement of taking one to be stimulating and I actually enjoy the whole process, preparation, execution, and expulsion. I just enjoy it for what it is. But every now and then I do enjoy having an audience or being a submissive taking orders. It just all adds to the experience. I guess I can make adjustments to the situation. An enemaflexible person.

I have certainly reached a point where I can enjoy the warmth filling me and the resulting feelings of well-being after a good enema without the need to masturbate or have sex. Not always, but sometimes the enema alone is enough to put me in a good mood for the day.

I more or less fall into this category much of the time, however, I do have to admit that I generally bring myself to a climax at the end of a good enema series. It just tops off a whole wonderful experience.

With experience, I am usually able to discipline myself to take an enema for the purpose of doing a needed physical cleanse without the trimmings. It's a matter of turning off my brain and keeping my hands from wandering. Lol. There's also the emotional side when it feels heavenly to experience both a physical and mental release of a good enema -- and for a few minutes our mind blocks out the real world.

I could take a laxative or a Fleet like a lot of women do, for those times when my insides need a kick start. Just think what I would be missing!

For starters a real enema works better than a Fleet, at least in me, and is less miserable and much faster than oral laxatives.

I find the more I need it the less erotic it is, but like you I can also turn it off when needed/wanted. It just gets easier to turn it off the more I need it.

I enjoy giving a good enema very much. It is very relaxing to fill a willing bottom.

The only enemas I have ever taken were taken/given because I was constipated (I had them when I was pregnant. Every 3 to 4 days for weeks, damn gut system shut down on me.). I didn't/don't find any sexual pleasure from an enema. It did feel good when I was done with the enemas each time, to not feel constipated. Wasn't what my sub was hoping for when he was administering them.

I am most willing to leave all of my enemas to my sub so he can enjoy the enemas. It is just an arrangement that works for the two of us.

Ditto on most all of your comments, and afterall, it's really no different than brushing your teeth, right? Atleast that's what one lady said on youtube i vividly remember. I thought I was not your typical guy until I stumbled across this site, was I ever surprised. In addition, after flying some 2 M miles over the years, a good clean out before and after a lengthy flight sure makes life a lot better. It's also a great way to de-stress the day.

I’ve found myself, in the last couple of years, enjoying my enemas more and more for just what they are. To me, that is an hour or so of pure, relaxing, yet wonderfully erotic self-indulgence.

When I started out on my journey of anal experimentation enemas were simply a requirement I imposed on myself before I engaged in anal play with dildos or plugs. These days, more often than not, the toys remain put away in favor of using the time I used to allocate to play to prolonging the enema session.

I do enjoy enemas just for the nice feeling I get afterward. It's nice to have a happy ending sometimes, but certainly not necessary. My wife is very gentle and I can usually take the whole bag and hold it for a little while. She is the same when she takes hers. I think we get closer by giving enemas to each other. The feeling we both get after the enema is finished is very nice and loving.

I think I can honestly say, sex had little or nothing to do with why I like enemas. Keep in mind I only had a few after puberty, the great majority were before age 10.

I liked everything about the way enemas felt and the affection/attention I got when they were being administered. At puberty I wanted penetration, in my vagina, or stimulation of my clitoris, and at that point I discovered, as far as my clit was concerned, girls could do a better job than boys. Later on I did enjoy sex with males, married and was happy with it And I enjoyed anal sex, as I enjoyed penetration in of anus, maybe going back to being penetrated by enema nozzles. But nothing gave me that feeling of a deeply inserted colon tube, that I had nearly forgotten about.

So now I have rediscovered enemas, my anus and the wonderful sensations I get from being filled.

Many would say it is now sexual, but as I come up to menopause, I'm delighted to have another form of satisfaction I'm really enjoying.

Wendy...

The only colon tube I've had was about a 40ish Fr. (about .5") and about 30" long. I looked at "silicone nozzles" and all I see are really large diameter. I think the one I would choose would be the CT63fr. in 36" length. When fully inserted, that should put the tip of the tube around the middle (give or take) of your transverse colon. I just don't know if I'd like the fatter tube.

When you were given your enemas with a tube, was it the smaller ones like I'm used to, or was it a larger diameter one? Have you tried the fatter ones, and if so did you like them?

I'm not being much help, but someone will come and tell you the different feel of the skinny vs. fat I hope.

My introduction to enemas as a child were driven by two factors:

1) My mother’s belief that a two quart hot, soapy enema every 4 to 6 months was a healthy habit, and 2) an enema was a good way to relive stress and anxiety.

Whenever I had a tough day at school or seemed stressed out about whatever, she could sense the anxiety and suggested I would benefit from having her “give me a nice, warm enema”. All her enemas were given with her pink feminine douche bag, and at included least 2 full quarts of very warm soapy water. She was gentle, took her time, and paused if I got a cramp. She took care to be sure I was relaxed and stayed comfortable throughout. Even though her enemas would oftentimes give me an erection, it was the calmness and relaxation that I enjoyed the most!

Today, I love to have a large volume enema, just for the pleasure of feeling my bowels being cleansed

I just feel better, I don't have as much gas, my stomach feels better i just like the way I feel.

I can’t help it. Everything aside, I feel a bit more spring in my step, lighter, and ready for the world. So, sue me! lol Oh, and then there’s that other stuff. ?

I enjoy hot soapy enemas. I like a hot Woman, or, hot Man to adminter Them To this enema Freak

Wow, this is an old thread but still very important. Enemas for enemas sake are perfect and I am a long-time advocate of what thought. But, I have to admit, when it comes to the sex part, I believe enemas definitely have a sexual bent, that is, while they do not necessarily have to lead to sex (which they often do), enemas, they, and of themselves are sexual and are part and parcel to anal sex play.

Ditto @Joan321 except I prefer women.

An interesting notion. i always really enjoy the physical and psychological feelings of an enema during each phase of insertion, inflation, filling, massage and retention. Usually it does spontaneously lead to enough arousal and sexual stimulation that I enjoy producing an orgasm near the end of retention. However, occasionally I'll just enjoy the retention feelings so much that I'll just enjoy the minor struggle to get my full belly off the rug and head to the commode for a satisfying empty without an orgasm. All the enema feelings really are enjoyable in themselves and don't always require sexual intervention.

Eric

I can't explain why I enjoy a good enema, but I do. I realized I enjoyed enemas before I had any sexual connection. As a little girl of maybe eight years old playing with the bulb in the bathtub I recognized that the first rush of warm water actually felt good. Had no clue why, but it did. Of course, later I connected enemas and masturbation, and even later with real sex. But, now, years later I again can enjoy my enema without other activities involved. Not to say that I no longer have sex or masturbate, but it is not always connected to my enemas. I can have an enema after having a good natural bowel movement. Why? I don't know. I just like how I feel during and after.

I've been away for a while due to family problems. The loss of my brother in law due to liver cancer and our daughter with rhabdomyosarcoma cancer. His wake will be tomorrow and our daughter starts radiation soon. Last night we were told another brother in law has kidney cancer.

Bill and his Brother were very close and I can see the hurt in my husbands eyes. We needed something for ourselves. Something to break this mental bombardment of bad news. So we turned to the best therapeutic answer for our problems. An 03:00, just for the joy of it enema a few hours ago.

Not many people wake up in the middle of the night and ask their mate to "Please Give Me An Enema" With all this tension I've been needing a really good bowel movement and I've not had one in a few days. So down to our exam room we went! The only thing I wore was a pair of black high heels slippers. I need the slippers so my feet stay in the stirrups. Dr. Bill had to start things out with some manual disimpaction of some very hard stool. I felt At Home! I felt enjoyment for being a healthy woman. I was enjoying being exposed as Dr. Bill gently opened the gate for my enema. After he inched the colon tube deep into my body, he kissed me as the solution found it's way slowly inside of me. Once empty the joy of expulsion came a dribble at a time. Dr. Bill inserted his finger into my rectum to manually remove a bit more of that hard poop until I was going on my own. Then he came to me and started to kiss me. Normally he watches me expel but this morning he came to me and kissed me. No words were said, only the feeling of joy and being loved as I soon had an orgasm as I was emptying my bowels. All good things come to an end so he cleaned me up and we began our day.

This was exactly what we both needed. The joy and wonder of an enema between two lovers. We needed this to help us get back on track. Things happen that we have no control over but we must be here for our families, our daughter and her baby boy. Not because we have to but because what we want to!

This one hour of being together gave us the opportunity to feel better even in the face of all that is going on. It's amazing how the power of that enema took away the fear of the coming day. I'm no longer constipated and I can think better and more clearly. We have a great deal of work for today and tomorrow but having that enema sure makes things better. I know I needed that enema orgasm! It puts some pep in my step even with all the problems about us. Fall back, have an enema and re-group! That's the spirit!

It's time to get to it! Be good to one another. It will be a while before I'm back. Important things to do! It's time to be there for my family. Not because I have to but because I want to.

I Love You All,

GyneDoll, Gwen

Oh Gwen I am so sorry for your family’s loss and the trials you are about to face. I am happy that you and your husband have each other and that strong bond to rely on.

Its amazing to be able to find what it is that can help you through the most difficult times and to also have that special someone to share and find comfort with.

I have no doubt you will find strength in each other and that bond will continue to get even stronger.

You continue to be such an inspiration to so many of us here. I can not thank you enough for sharing.

I wish you and your family the best!

Sending hugs and positive thoughts to your daughter. Xxoo

I have enjoyed enemas since I was a kid. I enjoy the whole experience and the good feelings afterward. It’s not always about sex play, in fact it usually isn’t.

I've been away for a while due to family problems. The loss of my brother in law due to liver cancer and our daughter with rhabdomyosarcoma cancer. His wake will be tomorrow and our daughter starts radiation soon. Last night we were told another brother in law has kidney cancer.

Bill and his Brother were very close and I can see the hurt in my husbands eyes. We needed something for ourselves. Something to break this mental bombardment of bad news. So we turned to the best therapeutic answer for our problems. An 03:00, just for the joy of it enema a few hours ago.

My heart goes out to you and your husband. Rhabdomyosarcoma is a real bitch--can be very aggressive in adults. I hope your daughter has an easy time with radiation and your brother-in-law's kidney cancer is localized. I'm happy to see you back.

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Not many people wake up in the middle of the night and ask their mate to "Please Give Me An Enema"

I have done that in the middle of the night in a demanding manner when I couldn't fall asleep when my husband was sleeping and I wanted a good flushing and fucking because I knew I would fall asleep after that!

M

.I have done that in the middle of the night in a demanding manner when I couldn't fall asleep when my husband was sleeping and I wanted a good flushing and fucking because I knew I would fall asleep after that!

Now why can't that ever happen to me!

Susie replied to this comment:

"Not many people wake up in the middle of the night and ask their mate to "Please Give Me An Enema"

(by saying):

I have done that in the middle of the night in a demanding manner when I couldn't fall asleep when my husband was sleeping and I wanted a good flushing and fucking because I knew I would fall asleep after that!"

I actually had an ex-wife and a couple of ex-GF's, all switches like me, who would probably not have been surprised if I'd awakened them past midnight and asked for an enema and a good fucking. If they weren't too tired, I'm sure they would have enjoyed it, too, as they each enjoyed dressing me up and filling me with an enema. True story, that same ex-wife once spent an entire long evening dressing me in complete head-to-toe latex coverage and sneakers, tying me up, giving me two large enemas (no evacuation in between) and making me hold them while servicing her orgasms as well as other tasks. All without telling me ahead of time - the enema hold was about 3-4 hours. So doing something similar by request after I woke her up wouldn't faze her a bit!

Eric

The majority of the time enemas are just what they are, I just want to clean myself out, or am not feeling well and think a good cleaning out will do the trick to help get me feeling normal again. A small percentage of the time they are to clean out for cleaner anal play.