Just Enjoy an Enema for what it is

Until relatively recently, enemas and sex were inextricably bound together for me. Having an orgasm either during or after an enema was part of the whole enema experience. However, lately, say for the last several months, I've grown to just enjoy the enema experience - bag prep, insertion, filling, expulsion - without having to masturbate. I still get hard, at least when I start, but it goes away even tho the precum continues to flow. It's a bit like prolonged edging. I find taking a series of enemas this way is very relaxing. I do find that the lengthy prostate stimulation has a big effect on sex with my wife later on. My orgasms have been really very intense since I've moved in this direction.

That is the reason that I like a colonic you just lay there and fill release , fill release so soothing and relaxing that I have even dosed off just love them and no sex involved but after it doesn't take much to want some sex. I guess it's just having a clean colon and a nice warm feeling that makes you feel so good .

I just love the losing control feeling and all of it pouring out of me. The rush at the end is addictive.

I thoroughly enjoy a calm, private enema where I can just lay back, relax and enjoy the feeling of the water flowing inside me, the build-up of pressure and fullness inside my body followed by the evacuation and sensation of lightness. . . .

I can and sometimes do this without masturbating, but I'm already in position, so I often kill two birds with one stone!

Well said, Susie.

One of my favorite times is when traveling on the road during a sales trip. Alone in a hotel room, no interruptions, plenty of clean towels. Tremendously relaxing after a long day or a long flight,

I no longer pack my serious gear in a carry-on after an embarrassing airport security inspection. I now buy disposable bag enemas which go through undetected, plus the better ones have a sealable top so you can fill, close and lay them on the bed without worry of spilling. It's sometimes hard to find a place to hang the bag in the hotel room.

I sometimes I line the bathtub with towels, a pillow, and read my Kindle for a long, very slow fill without worry of any accidents on the bed and there is always a hook, towel rod, etc. for hanging the bag. Most of the disposable bags don't have a nozzle, just a smooth end on the tubing. I can insert this quite a ways, which makes the intake a lot easier.

Sometimes I pleasure myself at the end of the session, sometimes before, and often not at all. If I have the time, I often seek out a colon therapy place (with a closed not an open system) and treat myself to an hour of relaxation. This is rarely a sexual thing - more like having a massage, and I have had some very enjoyable conversations with female therapists who rarely (yes, there have been a couple of memorable exceptions) find the treatment in any way sexual. For me, it's just good clean fun to have a nice conversation with someone who is massaging your belly, the felling of a nice large tube up your rear, and the wonderful feeling of filling then evacuation over and over and over again.

As part of my fantasy life: I often wonder about the "golden age of enemas" -- 1930's thru 1960's and what company we kept. I would guess 3/4 of the homes in America has enema bags. And if my next-door neighbors were seen naked in their bathroom one Sat night (kids with grandparents, I guess) in enema-play (this really happened), maybe they were not alone, and enema-sport was commonplace everywhere. Whether true or not, it makes a pleasant speculation, plus a bit of "sex talk" with a willing partner.

No bondage for me ... just for health ... I feel well after !!! so it is a pleasure ...

Must agree there --- Enjoy an enema simply for what it is---AN ENEMA----Pleasure-Yes !....Internal Health-Yes !......Constipation-Yes !...Food Upset -Yes !......For for the hell of it - Yes !......The sensation--Yes !.....Will I give up my appointments with the Enema -No.

If only so many people didn't have this "hang-up" that enemas as an enjoyment was a perversion, I strongly suspect that far more would enjoy a "Good Enema" strictly for pleasure.......which is why I take them.

Each enema is different and I can't say that I have ever had the same experience twice. While I usually get sexual pleasure from them, it isn't every time. There are so many factors involved that have to be taken into consideration. For the most part, I take them all for what they are, and try not to over think it in the end. If it is with my partner, it is usually of a sexual nature giving up the control, if by myself, like redbulb said for the escape, the health and the experience. The one constant I must say I get is relaxation after it is all said and done, sometimes I feel tired and sometimes energetic, but always relaxed and clean.

I use enemas for health and pleasure - although not necessarily always in that order of preference. But I can honestly say that in both applications I am able to enjoy them just for what they are. The effortless evacuation and clean feeling give me intense satisfaction on the one hand, while the sexual stimulation ain't much of a slouch either. It's a pity that this health (and pleasure) wisdom of the Golden Years somehow got bullied out of ordinary people's minds by mainstream medicine, largely driven by pharmaceutical companies who would rather see you consume (and become dependent on) their drugs.

But what the hell - there are enough of us who have seen the light. And my feeling is the numbers are growing.

Well you can count me in here......love it for what it is!

the boxcar

Indeed I do enjoy it as a unique form of pleasure. Just to relax and get that nice cleaned out sensation. Closing out with masturbation is nice but the filling and long continuous expelling is really great (when I manage the pressure build up and release properly)!

I think I've mentioned this a few times ... but something as enjoyable as a nice enema under the right conditions is always a pleasure.

Discount the few times my hubby and I have administered to each other for medical/illness/constipation reasons, we have used enemas for recreation and totally enjoyed them.

Because of where we live --- rural and secluded --- the outdoors is our friend, we often work, relax, bathe, and, of course, taken/give enemas in various places around our residence (It's too bad the cold weather is coming because we, too, will be confined to the indoors for a few months. We have a small open-air swimming pool, open outdoor shower, and even an ouytdoor privvy (it's hooked up to our septic system), and this summer we added an outdoor kitchen (cook area) on our back patio.

We pity anyone who does not take advantage of an opportunity to recreation nude out-of-doors and do absolutely anything they want to do .... my hubby and I never miss an opportunity.

Being clothes-free when we are by ourselves is pure ecstracy ... we don't have to be doing anyting ... just being totally free is exciting.

We don't think age has anything to do with this enjoyment and pleasure .... or the enjoyment and pleasure of our favorite recreations ... and we don't think it should be for anyone else. Enjoy ... don't live to regret missed opportunities.

I still enjoy enemas at 64 for the pleasures & strong erections they give me as well as the health benefits they provide for good colon/rectal health. My mom, an RN, was a big believer in periodic enemas for good colon care and I still share her belief in that. Mom's, and auntie's enemas were soooo good to receive too!

I also enjoy the enema for what it is a good way to help clean the body on the inside the fact that they are erotic and enjoyable is just a side an enjoyable side effect to be enjoyed . Took a three enema series this am and didn't event get an erection but enjoyed it just the same

In my 80 trips around the sun I have been fortunate never to be constipated. I have my doubts about the 'health' benefits of the enema but I am devoted to the 'naughty' sensations of thinking about the next enema and the exciting memories of past enema situations.

As with ronema, I am very seldom constipated (because I eat right), it doesn't mean that I can't enjoy a "good enema" for what it is.......sheer erotic pleasure for me, which I do when I have the opportunity.

I had my second retention masage enema yesterday and it was wonderful. Very sensual and relaxing.

As I have mentioned elsewhere, we recently obtained a massage table to use for various play activities. Yesterday was the second time we used it for an enema.

Previously I took all my enemas on the bed, including my weekly retention enema. For over ten years I took a coffee enema, retained it for twenty minutes and then added an additional two quarts of soapy water before expelling. During the holding time my wife would lie next to me and rub my stomach with one hand. Those enemas were great, but her arm tired, plus she didn't have the leverage to do any strong rubbing.

Well I became intolerant to coffee and began experimenting with alternative solutions and volumes. I settled on a moderate amount of liquid, 58 ounces, and a simple isotonic solution using baking soda. Those were decent enema sessions, but more often than not, my wife couldn't participate.

After obtaining the table we discussed using it for my enemas. She observed that since it was higher than our bed she could more easily massage my abdomen plus have the leverage to be more creative while doing it. I changed the day and time from early Saturday morning to a more reasonable morning hour on Sunday. This allowed her to sleep in on Saturday. Plus, we could leave the table set up after using it for her Saturday evening playtime.

I also delegated more of the control of the enema to her, permitting me to be more passive and relaxed. Once I had the double balloon inserted and inflated I lay supine and gave her control of the clamp and the timer.

The resulting enema experience was beyond expectations. I could totally relax and savor the sensation of the warm liquid flowing into my colon and revel in the firm, knowing touch of her hands. After massaging my colon for ten years she intutively knew how to anticipate incipient cramps and to follow the contures of my colon. The reduced volume was in the sweet spot of knowing you are getting an enema without being subject to the stress of a very full colon.

Being able to stand over my body gave her the freedom to try various massage techniques and angles. The small amount of fluid in my colon also permitted her to be firmer in her probing and pressing without causing cramps.

The sensations were wonderfully soothing and theraputic. Not erotic, just warmly sensuous. The time goes by effortlessly. We stop when her back tires, about seventeen or eighteen minutes.

The enema is also very effective, another nice feature.

Afterwards I feel energized and invigorated.

UncleO,

It looks as though you have "discovered" the extra benefits of a massage table. I have a folding one as well as a standard one, but have been using an exam table for a number of years. It is a good working height as you mentioned, and comfortable for the receiver. I'm sure others will put their massage tables to good use now.

Dan

Dan

Unlike say an IV pole, the advantages of a portable massage table didn't sink in until we had one. We really like ours and should have obtained one years ago.

I still take most of my enemas on the bed, where the hook on the wall is more convenient to use than positioning the IV pole. Can't beat using the pole to dry the equipment, though. ( when it isn't being used to support the wife's bras, that is)

I actually enjoy an enema for the relaxation, stress relief if gives me, I also enjoy it in a sexual way. I can enjoy one without the other.

Joeasy--You got that right.

hankb

Another Australian summedit up with the following and I quote...." Enjoy an enema simply for what it is---AN ENEMA----Pleasure-Yes !....Internal Health-Yes !......Constipation-Yes !...Food Upset -Yes !......For for the hell of it - Yes !......The sensation--Yes !.....Will I give up my appointments with the Enema -No.

That says it all.

Enemas are part of my health and well being and yes.... pleasure.

The.best way to start the day is. e. n. e. m. a. i really realish the thought of a bag full of warm water in the morning or afternoon or the evening. i simply love enemas.had 3 bags this morning 4 this afternoon. going for a jbl tonight. got to go get busy. and enjoy.

I love enemas for the pleasure of cleaning myself out, and the anal stimulation is an added bonus. I agree with the "me" time posters, that an enema is a very relaxing way to take care of one's own needs, clean-wise or sex-wise.

Giving myself an enema is all about taking the time to feel good. It's about nurturing myself. I don't see what the big deal is as far as whether the relief is from a clinical problem, or the resolution of sexual tension, or both.

In days past an enema was almost always accompanied by fingers or a vibrator. More and more these days I find myself just relaxing and absorbing the feelings, and in the end feel very at ease with myself. The enema is moving from a tool to enhance orgasm to the main event. Is that just part of growing older?

I certainly agree about it being "...a tool to enhance orgasm..." but I seem to be comfortably stuck in that stage. Enemas have been the front-and-center of my masturbation activities since I was a kid. And enemas combined with sex have never failed to be memorable, world-class events. I have on occasion began a session with the intention of just relaxing or to achieve that cleaned-out feeling, but I seem to get off track rather quickly and find myself taking matters in-hand......

I lean towards Cheryl's post about more so enjoying the act; if I get off too, that's an added plus now.