Which part of the exam do you find most embarrassing?
For me it would be the digital rectal exam (DRE). Not that I don't enjoy them, just that it is the most embarrassing part.
I had my first back in May, during a play exam.
My first for real was just last Friday. When I scheduled my exam, I asked for a female. She was a very nice Physician's Assistant with small fingers.
For me it is the rectal exam. My Dr uses a proctoscope but she me warms up with a RT and a DRE. The scope stretches a bit which I find nice once the initial insertion is done.
Although it is embarrassing I still find it erotic.
I think it is the DRE which is the most embarrassing.
I remember very well the first time I had to undergo this exam, it was in a pre-induction center for the military service , I had 18 age, it was dreadful because were were a group of many guys in a large room with a table in the center and one by one we had to come to the table and we were on all fours, our naked cheeks exposed to the view of the other guys, of medics and of two sergeants who were here to monitor us. The doctor took his time because he left me a time exposed before coming to perform the exam, he ordered me to lean over my head and my arms to stay on my elbows so I had my buttocks raising in the air.He spread largely my cheeks and inserted roughly his finger in my ass. It was very humiliating and he took a long time to move his fingers inserted in my ass.
When he had finished, he gave me a whack on my cheeks before instructing me to move as he was doing with the other guys before me.
Having my foreskin retracted. If I am going to have an erection, it is that which will bring it on.
I'd always thought it would me embarrassing to get the prostate exam, which usually begins at 40. Somehow I ended up with an infected prostate. Couldn't wait to get over with and back to normal. Took a while to clear up. Now Doc asks to check it everytime.
The rectal exam , but he does it quickly and has me turn over and get on my hands and knees and puts the plastic glove and inserts it up my anus
My first Pelvic exam and being in stirrups
It happened for my wife, 2 days ago.
We met a new gynecologist and at the end of her exam, the doc wanted to submit my wife to an endovaginal ultrasound exam for irregular menstruation...and the male doctor has inserted the probe into her vagina...very embarrasing for my spouse because she had never undergone such an exam in the past but very erotic time for me...witnessing the doctor probing my wife so deeply.
For me it's definately the DRE.... but not for the usual reasons. Several years ago, I attended a memorial service for afriend's mother, who happened to be my doc's aunt. My doc's wife and 20-something daughter were there and he introduced them to me. When I offered my condolences and told him I enjoyed seeing him, but not under these circumstances, he replied, in front of his wife and daughter: "I agree. I prefer to see you bent over the table with my finger up your rear."
I seem to be used to most exams and situations now but the first time I had a female doctor check my testicles I was red faced and squirming a bit. An assistant female nurse was standing there watching and made things even more tense at the time.
I can handle it now but I'm sure there may be other situations in the future that may come up where I'll be embarrassed again. 😮
RT ,but all of that rectal exams are embarasing.
For me it is the breast exam, i am really self conscious about my breast size
My least favorite part is the breast exam too. Mine aren't exactly small, so the self-conscious aspect kicks in. Strangely enough, in a play exam, I would want the doctor to exploit the vulnerability I feel about them.
Then again, I've never gotten to experience the rectal aspect, so that could possibly take the cake, but probably not.
I know it's wierd but the thind I find most embarassinga about an exam is when I have to start taking off my clothes and panties.... I guess I'm not so embarassed when having a pelvic exam because I know it's normal procedure for the doctor. But I can see why a RDE would be embarrasing for most guys, especially if you are made to stand on all fours!
Rectal exam is probably the most embarrassing, but being catheterized is a closed second.
I went and had an rectal exam where they used the anascope. She placed me on my left side and inserted her long finger and moved it around with KY for what felt like a minute and then pulled out the finger and then inserted the little plastic scope. Once she was in she kept it there for a minute and twisted it all around then pulled it out. The worst part was that she finished then did a rectal exam and then turned me over and check my testicles and penis. After the prostate exam i was done.
A few years ago i had a vasectomy and was a having a little discomfort [no shit right?]. so i went to the doctor to get checked out. he’s doing his thing, checking me out. so he finished, and he was giving me suggestions you know, drink lots of water…use ice if neccesary..etc. then he just was like hold on let me check something out. dude gets his gloves out…and a tube of something and i was like whoaa…what are you about to do with that! he asked me if i had ever had my prostate checked.
Cardiac exam, because I have to remove my bra in front of the doctor.
Genitals and hernia
Genital exam. Most guys are afraid of getting an erection but in my case its the exact opposite, which is even worse i guess.
The "unexpected" parts....
I've had a few times where i've gone in for a simple ear infection or throat infection to have a complete exam done, minus the genital exam.
In terms of gyno though having my breasts examined is the most embarrassing.
This happened last week to my wife and i was with her . she was having a rectal exam from a male doc. she needs me in the exam room. then suddenly the door opened and the doc's wife came into the room.That was very embarassing for me and my wife. For me, and my wife ,it is embarassing because the doc's wife saw her husband probing my semi naked wife .
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... then suddenly the door opened and the doc's wife came into the room.....
Wow - that is an incredible experience.
What was the Doctor's reaction?
Does the Doctor's wife make a habit of barging in to the exam room?
My 1st proctoscope exam. The doctor inserted it ever slowly. I felt tensed as there was a female nurse present at that time. My face was burning red and I noticed the nurse is looking exactly at my exposed hole.( THe doc prefer me to be in the knee chest position.)
Several years ago I had sigmoid scope done and I was in the exam room with the doctor when in comes the nurse to assist him during the procedure.I am kneeling on the table just before the doctor tilts it so my butt is in the air and realize the nurse is the wife of a guy I do business with.It embarrassed her as much as me . she said she would leave and get another nurse but I figured what the hell ...she had seen plenty of butts so mine wouldn't be any differant. We just laughed about it and went on with the procedure.
Yes mine would also be putting my feet in the stirups and getting my first pelvic exam. My first was when I started going to the gyno at age 17 very embarrasing as the doctor was a male
Nucrazyman, how old were you the last time you had a physical in front of ur mom?
For me it is the rectal exam
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