How did you get turned on by spanking

I was spanked both at home and at school but I don't remember having any positive feelings about it at the time. I often wonder though whether maybe it was a turn on even then but I suppressed those feelings because I would have felt strange and different. The pain of a smacked bottom and the associated embarrassment and sometimes humiliation was something to be feared and not desired. I wrote in another post some months ago that I saw my older sister getting the slipper at school and I felt very sorry her at the time, However when I was a little older I found myself recalling the images in my mind was very stimulating at private alone times, if you understand my meaning.

It was not until my early 20's that I was suckered into taking a spanking as part of a truth and dare game at a party that I found it was a huge turn on. It was an end of year office party and my spanker was an older woman from another department. I had no idea at the time that she was into D/s until afterwards when her experience made her realise I was enjoying it and she spoke to me when we were on own the next day. She was a member at a club and invited me to come but I declined, I guess it was too much too soon. I admitted to her that the feeling of being over her knee and her hand smacking my bottom brought me to an intense level of excitement.

There were a few more sessions after that, initially in private and for the first time on my bare bottom. As I became more comfortable I found I even enjoyed a small "select" audience. Anyhow things took off from there 😃

I was spanked from an early age through college by mom. Afterwards I craved to be disciplined but could not find anyone to fulfill my fetish until I met another woman at work. We became close friends and after sometime I opened about my childhood and young adult past and how I still needed discipline. My surprise came when she told me that she had been attracted to me for a long time and noticed that I was always kind of immature in my behavior away from work and there were times when she wanted to take me over her lap. That started a new relationship for me and I am now living with her. She makes me call her mommy when we are not at work and she does not hesitate to spank me when I misbehave.

I was spanked bare bottom by both my mom and my aunt. As I got older they started having me get completely undressed. I found this particularly exciting as I got older. I think they did too.

I got paddled thru high school --not often--but it happened--mom paddled me thru about 14 and then lessfrequently dad paddled me thru 17 It was on the bare butt and it hurt--other than the pain it was not anything sensual---Once my coach in high school told me to come after class for a spanking---IO was a big strong guy adn he made me strip and literally go over his lap and he spanked me hard In the movement when I was getting spanked I got totally hard--and he kept spanking After that experience I had a weird interest in spanking I guess it is very different if its not yourf mom or dad spanking you that is very normal and you just take it and get on with life---with coach it was totally different

with coach it was totally different

Sure it was different - more like being borderline abuse from an authority figure taking physical - if not sexual - liberties with a pupil.

I was spanked by my Mom until I was 23. I became a submissive person because of my Mom. But the time I knew I liked to be spanked was when I was 10 years old on a boy scout camping trip. I got into trouble with the scout leader. He gave me a choice of calling my Mom and have her come pick me up which was a two hour drive or accept a spanking from him. I told him to please do not tell my Mom. He undressed me to my underwear and put me over his lap. I got a good warming then stood up and he pulled my underwear off and spanked me standing. I jumped with every swat. Then back over his lap. That is when it felt different to me. Yes it hurt and I cried but thought I really needed that. I was spanked several more times by him until I turned 14 but Mom never knew.

For a short time when I was about nine my Dad was taking a belt to me almost every day. He whipped me over my jeans but it still hurt like hell. After about a week of this I would start to cry when I saw his belt come off. I hated it, it was pure pain and fear. So why I started to fantasize about being spanked by an older boy who was a hall monitor at school is a mystery. I had yet to start puberty and wouldn't start jerking off until I was in high school.

It's the submitting and being over the knee helpless with nothing on below the waist that sets the tone for my butt. I'm not into being beaten, but a good hand spanking which turns my rear end red and reminds me throughout the day I've been spanked puts a smile on my face. Also enjoy a tight fitting pair of jeans, commando on my red rear end too.

When giving I discuss briefly the reason for the spanking, then get busy giving the rear end the attention it deserves. Never give anymore than the person wants, but give it goof.

When I was about 7 I was having a play day with a school friend. He had two older sisters. The oldest always wanted to play school games and was the teacher who spanked the naughty pupils, us! One day however we were playing and were told to get into the car. I had left something in the house and went to collect it. As I passed the 12 year old’s bedroom I saw her over her Mother’s lap being spammed iver her blue knickers. What a memory...!!

I got a pretty harsh otk spanking in preschool. I'd had a crush on the teacher, who must have been a recent graduate. She spanked me over her lap while I kicked and cried. All of my movement wound up positioning me just right to where each spank rubbed against me. Had my first orgasm on the spot, though with all of my crying and carrying on, no wonder nobody noticed. Was hooked after that.

You had an orgasm from spabnking and was hooked when you were 3-4 years old in pre-school??

Must have been an advanced placement class. 😎

I have been turned on by it for as long as I can remember! Although I did not enjoy spankings as a youngster - THEY HURT - when someone else was getting one I found it quite a turn on! Growing up in a family with 5 siblings in which spankings were certainly not infrequent and at a time - the 60's and early 70's in the American South - when spanking extremely common, there were numerous occasions to see, hear and hear about the spankings my contemporaries got! A perfect environment for someone with a developing spanking fetish! LOL

I would get turned on seeing the girls bare butt ready for a spanking either laying on bed fully relaxed but or sticking her butt out wanting spanked

I found I was turned on by spanking since my earliest childhiid memories

I got paddled for something serious--and it was always bare by my dad thru high school----It hurt on my bare butt alot---but had no psycho sexual effect----However at about 17 I had to take a paddling from our coach--I happened to be much bigger and stronger than he--but he was boss so i had to get paddled bare----because of my size and strength it was humiliating to have to literally go over his knee like a kind--I probably almost knocked him over---He paddled me and my butt hurt alot but my genitals were in his crotch area and kind of pressing into him --not on purpose----but I got hard and it became very psycho/sexual for the first time-----I apologized to him about the erection and he oddly told me he was 'pleased' that everything I had worked so well---It was the oddest and most humiliating experiences i have had----but it left me with a psycho sexual thing about spanking-----which of never true when dad had to do it----Any comments??

it was the oddest and most humiliating experiences i have had----but it left me with a psycho sexual thing about spanking-----which of never true when dad had to do it----Any comments??

Comments? How about the most obvious: the coach was getting his jollies, having his own form of personal sexual pleasure from spanking you in this manner. You were a sexual surrogate for him and like so many coaches, he took advantage of his position to have some sexual fun with you.

Probably not all that horrid or anything, but it did affect you - ultimately in a positive way I would hope. Nevertheless he did abuse his authority in a sexual manner.

That is my comment and take on the matter.

Nevertheless he did abuse his authority in a sexual manner.

Absolutely no doubt. That's clear from his comment that he was "pleased" with everything.

Question: Do coaches, teachers and other adults that are in a position of authority over kids begin to take advantage of them simply because they have the opportunity to do so? Do they become perverts because the opportunity presents itself? Or are perverts simply drawn to those types of jobs where they'll be able to exercise control?

In other words, which came first: The pervert or the opportunity to be one?

Maybe a little off the subject but I was sort of kidding with some of my colleagues one day and joked, "It is a little known fact that it used to be law in the state of Indiana that each school district was required to hire a sadistic latent homosexual gym teacher to paddle the students." Everyone in the group laughed and one woman stated, "You just described my high school gym teacher to a tee."

I think it was an auto-erotic episode where i slapped my butt with my belt and felt it get warm and that made other parts feel warm too. very interesting.

I had been getting the belt on my bare bottom for a couple years and sometimes in front of my step sister which I had no choice but to accept. I think I first got turned on when I had just turned 13 and had a bit of pubic hair and my step mother had this way of getting me ready by having me face away from her and she would reach around and unbuckle my belt then undo my pants and immediately yank everything right down to my ankles. Well this day was the first time my younger female cousin had come to stay and she followed the usual way and I then put my hands over me and she said hands at your sides and the girls were giggling and pointing as I moved my hands and I felt it start to happen. My step mother couldn’t see but heard one of them gasp so she bent me over and gave me 12 whacks with the belt. I grabbed my clothes and ran from the room.

I was playfully spanking a lady I was with for being a "naughty girl". The more I spanked her, the more turned on she got. The more turned on she got, the more she squirmed and resisted, the more into it I became, and continued spanking her.

Her bottom was glowing deep red and hot to touch and doing a "wetness check" I found her to be SOAKED.

You naughty girl, I yelled at her, getting all turned on from your discipline, I said as I continued to spank, and then it happened. She started shaking and had an orgasm over my lap from just the spanking.

That made me a fan

Spankingly

Stephen

Back in the 60's rural guys in high school most all took Ag Mechanics--so it was an all malke class---the teacher --a very young guy was a great teacher and well liked---He occasioanlly would just stop and paddle a boy bare assed right in class----Guys knew it hurt bare- but seemed to just accept it as he never paddled w/o good reason he was one rare teacher who was still very popular and who still paddled bare for something serious-----He was not much older than we were--but had our respect----It sounds unbeleivable for a younger reader today but it happened---and my bare butt could attest it hurt when he had to do it!

I can trace my first excitement with spanking back to when I was about 6 years old, and in Primary School. If the weather was such that we couldn't go out to play at lunchtime, the classroom would be "looked-after" by 2 or 3 senior 11 year olds. They were usually girls, and they issued us with activity books, which contained puzzles, colouring exercises, problems, etc, which I think they had produced themselves. I vividly remember one occasion, when I told the supervising girl that I couldn't do the problems. She looked at me, and said, quite calmly: "Well, you will have to go over my knee if you can't do it". At the time, I don't think I had heard that exact expression before, but somehow I knew that it meant that she intended to smack my bottom. The spanking didn't actually happen, but I reckon that was the first trigger.

My next encounter that seemed to cause me excitement would have been when I was about 9. One of the boys in my class was well known for acting the fool quite a bit, particularly with in front of one male teacher, who took us for probably just one lesson a week. All of sudden, the teacher had had enough, and shouted at the boy to come up to the front of the class. Something about the way he summoned him led us to think that a spanking was about to take place, and sure enough, it did. The teacher had been half-sat on the front of his own desk, and pulled the boy over his knee / lap. This was the first time that I had ever seen this happen in class, but of course in the 1960s, this was quite a common occurrence. I remember feeling an unexplainable tingling all over my body, "butterflies in the stomach", I think we used to call it.

Anyway, the boy was over the teacher's knee, and the teacher let-fly with his hand, landing a good 6 or 7 hard spanks to his trousered backside. When the teacher had finished, the boy was pushed-up off the teacher's lap and went back to his desk. I remember that the punished boy was very red-faced with embarrassment.

The same boy was punished again, by the same teacher, a few weeks later. On this occasion, the boy had been playing with a plastic snorkel during the lesson, which had obviously annoyed the teacher, who then used this to first hook him around the neck with it, then use it to pull him down and make him bend over the desk, and then he whacked his backside with the snorkel several times. There did seem to be a bit of humour with this event, but it still seemed very exciting. I wonder how many of my classmates went on to remember these events, and ended up as spankos?

I know that future lessons with this teacher always held a strange anticipation for me - would anyone get spanked this week?

I was not spanked as a child but would hear friends experiences and was curious. Not sure how old I was but read a book of nursery rhymes and the old Lady who lived in the shoe had all her kids lined up for a spanking. The sight of one of those kids over her knee bare assed getting a hairbrush spanking did it for me. Hooked ever since.

This is conjecture, but I'm willing to bet that watching and hearing my sister being spanked played a BIG role.

For me it was watching my older cousins dishing out spankings - and then being on the end of one that did it.

I always liked the concept but had a lady request one during an enema session. I wrote a story about the experience entitled "The Enema Rookie". After that I found I liked to redden a bottom OTK. It can be very erotic for both partners. The severity needs to be explored before going there so no boundaries are crossed and like anything else use a safeword as well.

When I was about 12 I was over st my friends house next door, he was a year Older than me. His parents were not home and we started to play a game which involved throwing a ball at a target. If you missed the target after your 3rd try you had to go over the other guys knee for a spanking. Each spanking consisted of 10 swats using your hand. He was much better at it than I was so I found myself over his knee more than he was over mine. Each ten swats left my butt warm and stinging! We laughed a lot. When I got home I went to my room to change for bed. I looked at my butt in the mirror and it was bright red and hot and my whole body was tingling, some areas more than others.

I guess the turn on started in my mid teens. When I was spanked I became aroused. I guess it was during puberty

As a child, I remember thinking of ways to administrator spankings. I used to think of different implements to spank with or the different contraptions that I would be strapped into. Back then, i didn't bring sexuality into it. It was just something fun to do.

As I grew older, I became aware of it being sexual or even as a domestic discipline.

It has only been 3 years (that I've been reading erotica), give or take, that I have been wanting them sexually and as a domestic discipline tool.