How did you get turned on by spanking

I was spanked starting when I was a kid. My step mother was younger than my dad and she was the one who did the spanking. I got it a lot. Usually over the knee with a paddle or strap. When I was 14 or so I started to get a hard on when I had to go over my step mother's knee and I'm sure she knew it. After she finished I'd always go somewhere and jerk off. At around 14 or so I started wearing panties also and diapers a lot because of a wetting problem. My step mother knew about the panties because that started at her sister's house with my three girl cousins one time when I wet the bed and was given panties to wear while my underwear was being washed. I wore panties for the entire time I was there and when I got home my aunt told my step mother and she said she was OK with it. When I was 15 the spankings were not over her knee anymore. Now I had to bend over a chair she used for this and hold the arms. I first had to drop my jeans and then she'd start with a strap or belt. Usually she would do it over my panties and sometimes she'd order me to lower them or she would. I always got a hard on no matter how hard she whipped me. Now I'm in a submissive relationship with an older girl whom I met at my cousin's. Spanking is a major part of my training. I get it with a belt, strap or whip whenever I am being punished but I also get a weekly maintenance spanking with a strap or belt and its sometimes over my panties or sometimes not. It depends on her whim. Its every Saturday at 8 PM. She tells me after dinner what she will use and I have to report to her room with whatever it is, belt, strap or switch. After the spanking I have to remove my pants and panties and I'm put into a diaper and tight plastic panties for the night.

I knew I LOVED spanking back when I was in the first grade. Of course I was spanked, growing up in the late 1960s it was a normal and accepted form of discipline. I was spanked by my mom and mostly by my aunt. Being made to have my pants and underwear lowered and have my bare buttocks on display and spanked turned me on. I do not know why it started me but it did. I also remember when I was visiting my mother's friend Cathy, (I went to school with her son Lee) I would also see his sister Mary. She was a year younger then us but she also liked "playing house". I do not remember how it started but I would have her bare bottom over my knee spanking her and she LOVED it. She and her brother were also spanked for infractions. I would LOVE to meet Mary again as she was a true spanko. That is why I believe your sexual kinks are installed in you at an early age as it was for me. Just the word SPANKING totally turns me on. The idea of being under the control of a female being made to bare my private parts to her and being put over her knee and getting my buttocks spanked really turns me on.

Being over her knee, looking down at the floor, feeling the cool air on my bottom as she prepares to scold me then start the spanking, feeling the first spank, the sting and heat sets me off to a different level in my mind. If I am spanked in front of other ladies sends me into a whole different mindset.

I am a firm believer in bare bottom over the knee spanking and it should be utilized especially during these days. I was spanked and never got into trouble. I respect others and abide by the laws of the land. NOT like the youth of today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When I started masturbating when I was 12, it was all about the great sensations that I felt doing it, but after my orgasm, I felt guilty. I was an only child, and no one told me it was bad to jack off, but I just "knew" it was wrong. It was my greatest guilty pleasure, but I began to fantasize that I should be punished. That was not as good a fantasy as imagining a friend or someone else being punished. I had only seen a few spankings of others at that age, but I had a GREAT imagination, and I had all sorts of kids getting spanked while I jacked off. Spanking became my fetish despite the fact that I was not being spanked. I did manage to role play some spanking with my best friend, but we stayed in our jeans, and we did more laughing than anything else. In my fantasies, a male adult, usually a father, was punishing a son, and it was very serious. The son's butt was always bared. The father was stern; the son was scared; the scene was dramatic! Later I added some more "guilty" events such as bedwetting which made the parent resort to diapering the boy. In my teen years I discovered enemas, and that became another guilty pleasure in my mind. But spanking was the most powerful image. The mind is an awesome theater.

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When I was about 11/12 years old my two best friends (girls) and I loved to play spanking games...pulled our panties down and spanked each other hard, using different implements and rituals. It wasn't sexual (unless subconsciously) but it was one of our favourite games. By the time we went to high school, we cared more about boyfriends and makeup and movies than spanking and it took about 10 years before my mind would once again be occupied with thoughts about being spanked.

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I was 21 at a house party and went to the bathroom. In the stack of magazines next to the toilet were also adult magazines and i could not resist leaving the bathroom without looking through at least one of these magazines. So I stumbled upon an article describing a real life spanking encounter. It blew my mind and turned me on so much that I tore the spanking story pages from the magazine, folded them and put them in my handbag. I took the pages with me to my bed the night to read it again (as I would many times thereafter). Spanking images and stories became fuel for my most intense orgasms and it links right into the core of my sexuality.

Some interesting reads here. I got turned on by spanking as a means to an end...With my daddy spanking me naked so that I can be totally exposed in front of men, and I soon discovered that I have a high tolerance to being spanked (not only on my bottom, but on my naughty pussy too LOL x).

When I was around 10, I beat up my younger brother. My dad took me to my parent's bedroom. He told me to bendover at the foot of the bed and he used the belt on my butt. As time went on, I thought about it a lot and I started to crave it but he never did it again. Later in adult life, I met a guy for no strings sex. I was about 25 years old. I was lying naked in his bed and he wacked my naked butt with a belt. I was surprised but it was exciting. I never told him that I liked it. I felt liking to be spanked was too weird to tell anyone. I never told anyone until recently that I told my husband. The feeling came back recently when I was doing anal play with another Zity member. I could feel the belt that he was wearing had rubbed against my naked butt. The feeling came back and much stronger so I finally told my husband about my craving to be spanked. It took a lot of convincing my husband to spank me. I love being spanked. It gives me such a high.

When I was growing up, I was read stories from books written by Enid Blyton. Some of these stories involved characters being on the receiving end of spankings. I became fascinated by this, and started reading and re-reading the sections which involved spanking.

I was spanked growing up and sometimes in front of and with others. Witnessing spankings certainly helped kindle my interest.

When I was growing up, I was read stories from books written by Enid Blyton. Some of these stories involved characters being on the receiving end of spankings. I became fascinated by this, and started reading and re-reading the sections which involved spanking.

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Back in the day, there was a British writer who contributed to Speculum Pages. He's write quite long stories, often over 100 pages long. He also liked doing parodies and spoofs, especially on well-known British series like Biggles and on stories by Enid Blyton, such as 'Five'.

But while maybe EB (or the publishers) didn't mind some spanking in the books they published, they didn't go for thspanking - or any other kind of hanky-panky - when it was written without their permission. We always had to take the stories down.

@Dragonflies369 hmmm... I'm interested in the contraptions you were fantasising about. I've alway (perhaps oddly) been a bit more interested in the bondage devices and the build up for a spanking than the actual spanking itself, if that makes sense?And when I write, It's easier to get variety into the situation than into the sensation, if you know what I mean.

@agracier The books were also re-written, possibly in the early 1990s to remove the reference to spankings. The books were of their time, and when I was young the idea of someone receiving a spanking for misbehaving was the norm.

Speculum Pages, they were wonderful, I spent many hours reading those stories.

My siblings and I were never spanked. But we knew kids who were. Once I began puberty and began undressing my girl classmates in my fantasies, then I began wondering if any of them got spanked and if it was on their bare bottoms. Wasn’t until years later that a woman asked me to spank her. Which I did very very happily.

The artwork of Bill Ward, Eric Stanton, Jay Em & later Sorenutz!

@ 16 or so Ward a few years later Stanton ( oh and his Princk women? Chicks with dicks) then Jay Em ( his are the best) Later Sorenutz!! with amazon women LARGE breasts overpowering and spanking much smaller men well after they have cum. Oh and the artwork of Barbara too!

. Oh and the artwork of Barbara too!

Do you mean the artwork of Barbara O'Toole? Or is it another artist?

I was one of those people who say that even as a young child they were interested in spanking. One of my unforgettable memories was being ordered across the knee of my 4th-grade teacher in the classroom. Of course, it was not allowed for a teacher to spank a pupil so she just scolded me while keeping me on her lap for a good few minutes. I still remember the shame of being over the teacher's knee in front of my classmates.

@Examined:

The books were also re-written, possibly in the early 1990s to remove the reference to spankings.

It was earlier than that, I'm afraid. Late 60s / early 70s. As a small boy in the early 1970s, none of the Blytons from our newly-built and newly-stocked local library had spankings in them. But the ones my older cousins had from a few years earlier still had them in... I kept asking to borrow them but they always said no. :-(

Even the comics (The Beano, etc.) phased out spankings around 82/83.

For me it was when what became my stepfather moved it with us when I was 11. He believed in bare bottom spanking as discipline, I have no doubt that as I got older he enjoyed it more than he should have and made sure the embarrassment and arousal factors were experienced by me. My Mom took his side early on and I just learned to except and submit to it.

Spanking has had a secret thrill for me going back almost, but not quite, as far as I can remember.

My earliest kinky memory is of being very small, just five or six, right at the start of primary school. Myself and two other small boys standing in the playground, with a ring of older girls (maybe 8 or 9?) dancing around us in a circle holding hands, chanting - in a "ner-ner-ne-ner-ner" type way - "Girls get the slip-per, boys get the caaa-aaane", before breaking away and running off giggling.

That's probably the first time I ever felt that scared-yet-excited tingle in my tummy & bottom.

I also remember feeling a bit put out by learning this "fact", but then I thought about it and conceded that it made sense given that boys were caned on their trousers whereas girls had their skirts lifted and were dealt with on their knickers. (How I "knew" this I have absolutely no idea and would love to know - possibly from children's comics of the day?)

Also, my first primary school Headmaster carried his cane with him wherever he went, and the sight of it had a powerful effect on me. We were guaranteed to see it every morning as, unless it was absolutely pouring with rain, registration was taken in the playground: we'd all line up alphabetically in seven columns with our class teachers at the head of each line, with the Headmaster standing behind them, holding his cane as always. Sadly my surname is in the second half of the alphabet; had it been "Abbott" I expect I would have ended up even kinkier than I am!

A year or two later, I accidentally discovered masturbation (which I might write about in the appropriate thread), and was immediately worried that I might get spanked for doing it. I got semi-regular hand spankings from my father anyway, which I absolutely hated, they gave me no pleasure at all... but for some reason that I didn't understand at the time, I found the terror that I might be spanked for doing this new secret thing I'd found, only made the excitement more intense... and lo! a spanko was born. :-)

For me it was when what became my stepfather moved it with us when I was 11. He believed in bare bottom spanking as discipline, I have no doubt that as I got older he enjoyed it more than he should have and made sure the embarrassment and arousal factors were experienced by me. My Mom took his side early on and I just learned to except and submit to it.

ccm93 I have read lots of accounts here, and other places, of what indignities and worse, children suffered at the hands of parents. While your story is one of many it has touched me and I felt a need to write and let you know. I hope talking to others here allows you to process all that happened and someday stamp 'closed' on what happened. No one should have a happy teen years stolen from them the way yours were.

Thomas

I got turned on by getting spanked by girls i really fancied... two girlfriends have spanked me and after the spanking, they could see my prick was errect , so they wrestled me under them and gave me a really good hard shagging, while my bottom was really sore. They were really wet between their legs, so I knew that they were really stimulated by spanking me!

My siblings and I were never spanked. But we knew kids who were. Once I began puberty and began undressing my girl classmates in my fantasies, then I began wondering if any of them got spanked and if it was on their bare bottoms. Wasn’t until years later that a woman asked me to spank her. Which I did very very happily.

I was not spanked growing up, either. I think it was some pre-pubescent curiosity, that became more developed as I got older. I guess people into spanking are a small minority, since spanking is still considered to be taboo and a fetish these days. It's more acceptable to say you're into blow jobs than spanking.

I was not spanked growing up, either. I think it was some pre-pubescent curiosity, that became more developed as I got older. I guess people into spanking are a small minority, since spanking is still considered to be taboo and a fetish these days. It's more acceptable to say you're into blow jobs than spanking.

I don't think that. I think there is a fairly large fetish for spanking from all the sites and stories out there. My first spanking was the lady who took me under her wing in "The enema rookie " detailed in the story section. I found out mom spanked her when she wouldn't take her enema and introduced it into a session. It was pretty hot and got me into turning a bottom nicely red.

@ccm93

Your post is like some other women’s experiences on Zity, where their fathers or step-fathers or uncles even, bared the girl’s bottom for a spanking.

I still think it’s more about the man’s sexual desire and less about discipline.

How old were you when he last spanked you bare bottom?

I don't think that. I think there is a fairly large fetish for spanking from all the sites and stories out there. My first spanking was the lady who took me under her wing in "The enema rookie " detailed in the story section. I found out mom spanked her when she wouldn't take her enema and introduced it into a session. It was pretty hot and got me into turning a bottom nicely red.

The pay-for sites are there, but there's not as much free stuff now. There's only a few sites for meeting other spankos, and most of that is just online wanking. It's very hard to meet anyone unless you live in a really big city. Oh wait, I live in a big city...but I don't think there's a lot of kink here. On regular dating sites, forget it. Most of them are looking for vanilla sex. Mention "spanking" and someone might report you for out of line behavior. It's something you'd have to discuss in real life, so you could waste a lot of time getting to the point of meeting.

You wouldn't mention spanking casually out there. Not now. I think years ago, it was more acceptable as a fetish.

You wouldn't mention spanking casually out there. Not now. I think years ago, it was more acceptable as a fetish.

I think spanking - and other fetishes - are much more acceptable now. Many men’s and women’s magazines openly discuss fetishes: spanking, anal, Butt plugs/play, prostate massage etc. Spanking may have been more openly discussed years ago in the context of child discipline (spare the rod spoil the child). Now physical child discipline is frowned on. But as a sexual or intimate activity for adults it is much more understood and acceptable. As are lots of other pleasurable sexual activities.

I never experienced spankings as a child, but I would hear about them. When people explained what they were it excited me to think about how humiliating it would be to have someone pull down my panties and discipline me. I think I crave humiliation and discipline since I was always a good girl and never got in trouble or punished.

I think spanking - and other fetishes - are much more acceptable now. Many men’s and women’s magazines openly discuss fetishes: spanking, anal, Butt plugs/play, prostate massage etc. Spanking may have been more openly discussed years ago in the context of child discipline (spare the rod spoil the child). Now physical child discipline is frowned on. But as a sexual or intimate activity for adults it is much more understood and acceptable. As are lots of other pleasurable sexual activities.

Acceptable to the general public?

Have you actually tested this?

Understood and accepted by who? I've talked to a lot of men who said they have never thought of spanking a woman, a couple said they would never hit a woman...it's not that big out there.

You can't go by what is online for sale. It's just like porn is for sale online.

I think, to the general public, women spanking men is far more acceptable than the other way round, even if (or perhaps because) the former is often looked at as a rather humorous thing.

Then again, two things:

1. Fifty Shades of Grey (whatever we may think of that largely-awful piece of fiction) has increased its acceptability.

2. About 10 years also, the BBC did a TV programme called something like "A Woman's Fantasy", based on a confidential survey. The thing that made number one on the list that was broadcast* was, in fact, "Spanking".

* - Rumour has it that it actually wasn't #1, but that it was the top-most broadcastable one.

Hi Swe. I too never got spankings as a child, had a very loving and caring mother. As an adult I do fantasize about getting an OTK spanking! Turns me on just thinking about it. Guess I miss something in my life. Maybe someday, I will meet someone to experiment with. That is why I am on this Zity site. So many nice stories and people with shared hidden desires.

I was spanked growing up. My father met a woman who later became my stepmom and disciplinarian in our home. We didn't like each other, and I was spanked much more than my siblings. At some point (early teens?) I stopped to fear her and a belt in her hand. I was confused and excited.

I was only rarely spanked as a kid and I'm not sure exactly when my fetish with spanking began but I DO remember at an early age having a fascination with female bottoms. I imagined them bare, being spanked and/or getting shots. Even then it excited me. The advent of the internet made it much easier for like-minded enthusiasts to connect (like here). Even reading or writing about spanking gets me aroused but nothing beats the real thing - either getting or giving.