How did you get turned on by spanking

I was spanked by an older couple who looked after me when my Aunt had visitors. I got erections after they spanked me, I was left bare so I couldn't hide it from them. They didn't do anything but it left me both ashamed and excited. Once when I was in my very early teens I took a short cut through an orchard and the owner saw me. I knew him from church but only to recognise him. He asked me if I wanted him to tell my Aunt or he could ‘tan my backside’. I chose the tanning and he took me up to his house. He took down my shorts spanked me in front of his wife who took a keen interest in proceedings and told him to take down my underpants too. I found it humiliating to be bared and spanked in front of two strangers but also very exciting. I cut through the orchard on several occasions in the hope it would happen again. This was a very, very long time ago I hasten to add.

I grew up in the early 50s and 60s, spankings were very normal back then. I had two older brothers and an older sister and one younger sister. There wasfive kids in our family and as far I know none of us were ever spanked. My dad are used to threaten spankings however he never did. However at an early age probably as early as five I know I wanted to be spanked and it’s been with me all my life I’m now 70 years old. So I am a firm believer that it’s something that you’re born with.

I was a child in the '70s, and both of my parents, but especially my father, were frequent users of corporal punishment. His spankings came from a thick (and hard) rubber sandal, and they happened suddenly and without warning. My spankings didnt have a ritual to them, my only warning being a sudden flash of anger by my dad, following which he would suddenly grab me, put me accross the nearest piece of furniture (usually the couch), and wail on my butt, sometimes taking my pants down, and sometimes not. This happened fairly often to me, and I hated getting a spanking from my Dad. I was actually, outside of home a rather docile kid, and hardly ever got in trouble at school. But at home, my parents thought I was mischeivous and stubborn.

As I said, I hated the spankings at the time, at least when I was the one getting them. But I eventually developed a great fascination for spankings and paddlings when others were on the receiving end. At school in Florida in the '70s, paddlings were very much still used. I was never paddled at school, but I often could hear other kids getting paddled out in the hall, and in first grade, one was even paddled in front of the class (pants up, but causing him to cry unconsolably after it was over). I developed quite an arousal for all these spankings I saw or overheard.

It was not until my last spanking from my dad, at age 13, that, afterwards, I realized how arousing it was that I received a spanking. I have stories of my spankings elsewhere on Zity message boards. As a masochist, so many of the experiences of being made to receive things I did not want (spankings, enemas, teasing at school, braces, glasses) ultimately developed into intense sources of arousal. In the '70s, some kids, like one of my closest friends, were no longer spanked by their “progressive” parents. Back then, I envied kids like my friend, who were not spanked, but now I look back and am very grateful that I received my spankings, and that they happened fairly often. The masochistic joy I get from recalling them is fantastic.

It seems like a lot of people are relating their childhood disciplinary spanking experiences with their current erotic practices. I was brought up in the 50's by two very conservative parents. I was never spanked. Someone posted about “progressive” parents. Mine were anything but. As I grew up I remember talking to my mother about it and she simply responded that they settled differences by reason not violence-perhaps something more people should exercise today. Now many years later I can experience the humiliation, pain, or eroticism whether it be with one or in front of others without the negative thoughts they many have expressed about their childhood spanking experiences

It started for me when I was about 4 and I played with an older girl that lived down the block. She was about 10. She liked to treat me like her baby and we played house alot. She also loved to spank me as part of the game. I remember that she always had shorts on and when she told me to get over her knee, I would resist until she picked me up and put me over her lap. She didn't spank hard only a few swats with her hand, but being lifted up and put over her knees really had an impact as I always wanted to be forced over a womans lap before they spanked me. She spanked me outdoors in my yard mostly, but took me into my garage when I complained that people walking past the house could see us. She found some old kitchen chairs in there and sat on one when she took me over her lap. She never pulled my pants down though as the spankings were always with my clothes on. Now I want to be bare bottomed or naked when I'm spanked. I was very lucky to date a girl in my junior year of high school that did spank me like that. The rest is history.

How soon should a Domme start maintenance spanking for her sub? I'm a sub. The first night my step sister took me over to her girlfriend's house to turn me over to her for special training as soon as we got there my sis said “he's ready now.” The domme's name Chantelle. First thing she did was ask my step if I was wearing panties. She said I was. Then she explained very matter of fact like, that this relationship must start off correctly and I had to realize that I was her submissive and that she was going to train me to be a proper submissive and the way to start was with a maintenance spanking. I didn't think it would all happen this quickly. She first made me take off everything but the panties and led me into her office. There was a padded bench in the office and I took a look and knew what it was for. I was then ordered to stand by the bench. She informed me that this would happen every week on Saturday night. I was to report to her office and bring the instrument she was going to use. Then I would be put over the bench and she would put the restraints on me. I was to ask to be spanked and was to count each stroke and ask for another. “Now we'll start.” “Bend over the bench and your sister will put the restraints on you.” “You may keep the panties on for this first time.” My sister put the handcuffs and shackles on me. Then she asked if I was ready. I politely asked Chantelle to give me a spanking. She came in front of me to show me the leather strap. “This is what I will use on you tonight. In time you will experience another type of strap, a paddle, a switch and a whip." “Are you ready.” “Yes mistress.” She then moved beside the bench but it was in front of a full length mirror so I could see her as she readied the strap. She reached back and let me have a hard crack on my butt. “One. Please give me another.” This went on till she had given me 20 lashes with the strap. After my sister put some oil on my butt to ease the stinging. She unlocked the restraints and led me into the sitting room. Chantelle then gave me a black satin sleep shirt and told me to kneel before her. I did and she then put a leather collar around my neck and locked it. "You'll sleep with the sleep shirt and your panties tonight. You'll be on a long leash in case you have to use the bathroom. But starting tomorrow you will be diapered with plastic panties every night. The rest of the rules you will learn soon. So, I was spanked right from the start. I get a maintenance spanking every week and usually it gives me a boner after which I am allowed to jerk off in front of Chantelle.

I agree with GARY1951; I think it's something you're born with and you either know the desire is there from the get-go or you come to discover it in more or less time. I was not spanked in any way by either parent while growing up, yet my interest, though I could not explain it or verbalize it was very upfront in my mind every time the topic of spanking came up somehow, somewhere, most often when overhearing my buddies talk about their spankings or hearing them being spanked, most often with their dad's strop. I eventually came to physically explore the scene as a young teen and soon discovered a strong sexual component associated with it…and still do today as a senior in NH. As far back as I can remember the fantasies about spanking or getting spanked were there. I soon discovered after starting to explore this as an adult, (early 20s) that almost every guy I connected with about getting into it expressed one of two very clear experiences in their growing up, so much like me. They were all into it, big time, whether they had been spanked as kids or not. So, yes, I think you're born with it.

The first time it happened I was spanked in bed, lying face down with my bottom upwards. I think the position may have contributed towards it as well as my hormones just starting to come alive (I was 11 at the time).

It's been seven years since I posted on this subject. I am still getting spanked and self spanking. For Role Play and for stress relief.

The implements that work the best for me are the Pickle Paddle and hands.

They leave my ass red and stingy.