Making my wife's recent gyno appointment for her I asked the receptionist about accompanying her to ask the doc something she was too embarrassed to ask herself. The nurse/receptionist told me husbands are never allowed in the room during the exam. I told her I had only recently heard of it for the first time myself. I did not say I heard it here first. My wife says her doc just hands her a paper towel to wipe as he turns to leave. In my case as a male my urologist also just hands me a paper towel "please wipe yourself" and then turns his back and busies himself with my chart while I wipe and pull my pants back up. I've only had the old rubber-glove-trick done by a doctor at the most 4 times - all males. I've elected a female primary doc now but so far she's never examined me other than for a cold.
I just changed Drs a few months back for other reasons, will have my first actual exam with the new one in a couple of months so I have no idea what he does. My old one though always used TONS of lube (gross amounts) and when done it was the same routine, he took a large paper towel and one wipe top to bottom then tosses it in the trash and helps me sit up before asking one last time if there are any last questions and reminding me to see the nurse for my paperwork on the way out. I see nothing perverted or horrible about it, he probably knows most women do not want to squish or stick to the stupid table lol. It is not like he lingers or does more than a quick swipe. Its not like he was not just poking figures in there or anything LOL! Then when he is gone I hope up, clean up a bit more, change, and hunt down the always missing nurse for my papers.
In a play exam I like it when my Doctor leaves me all greased up. In a real life exam where I am paying the Doctor I hate it when the Doctor forgets to wipe and leaves me all lubed up.
A few weeks ago I had a cystoscopy and when the doctor had finished he asked if I minded him giving me a pelvic exam.Once he had finished with that he got tissue and wiped the lube off.Maybe because I had a foley catheter in he wiped off rather than leave it.
My wife's doctor wiped the lubricant off of her last time. It left some residual toilet paper/paper towel shreds on her labia. We had sex when we got home and she was mortified, she thought that she had left that on herself from when she'd peed before the exam.I assured her that the doctor left it on her (I am not positive - only pretty sure, but it made her feel better).
My girlfriends doctor hands her some papertowel and she wipes any excess lube off herself that might be on her
There is a jar of wet wipes on the counter at my gyn. She tells me to help myself to them and then leaves. Never had anyone wipe me before. When my family dr does the exam she offers me tissues.
My wife's doctor does not clean off the extra lube (and there is a lot of it!). She always grabs some tissues to clean herself off before getting dressed or I grab them if I am closer to them. My doctor will offer me the box of tissues when he is finished doing a rectal exam on me at my yearly physical. I always feel like there is a ton if it to wipe off, like I have just been slimed!
Never had any doctor wiping me him/herself and I'd find it very weird if it happened.My ob/gyn just points to a box of tissues and tells me to help myself. I usually don't wipe myself off because I like the feeling of being all slippery down there and usually as soon as I'm back home, I masturbate or have sex with my partner so the extra wetness is a great bonus!
There's always been some kind of tissue or wipe provided whenever I've had an exam. The doctor's usually just said something about being able to get dressed again and adds something like "there's wipes over there if you'd like to use them" he then leaves me to wipe and dress.
My wife's gyno now, (female) does not wipe at all. Her old GP (male) used to make one pass from top to bottom. He always did a rectal after she turned 40, her new gyno never dies one
I have always wiped myself, never had a doctor do it for me. I've either been handed a tissue or shown they were on the counter and told to use if needed. Nowadays I don't wipe at all as I enjoy the feeling of the excess lubricant on me and in me after I leave the office. It's a nice reminder of my exam and what I just experienced.
Yes My gyn (female) is very aware of the lubricant between my legs and maybe dripping down my thighs so we wipes it off very carefully and thoroughly. I appreciate the concern and follow through. There are also wipes if she does not get it all.
I have never been as wet, lubricated, slippery or slimy between my legs or on my thighs after a GYN exam as after one round of intercourse.It's never a big deal to wipe off excess lubricant. A couple of wipes will take care of it.
I get up out of the stirrups and given tissue by the chaperone /nurse and wipe myself before changing. Never been wiped by anyone else other then when a baby would be weird. Maybe play dr would be fine.I had a transvaginal pelvic scan on one occasion after the scan I was told all finished and can use the gown as a towel when I change which I didn't appreciate for some reason and I took paper off the table
My gynecologist wipes me himself but he gives me wipes for if I can still feel anything there. I do not really think it is a big problem wiping up after my exams have been finished. I think @Switchablesusie is right, after having sex I have got a lot more to wipe up than what is there after an exam.
True it doesn't really matter I wouldn't make any issue if they did wipe me, it's a step down from having their fingers in my pussy and ass.Plus In my house if you make the mess it's your job to clean it so by that logic I guess should insist the dr does it.Agree with with switch, the lube is veey small amount compared to the post sex feel of my wetness mixed with his semen.
I have never been cleaned after. There is always tissue there and they leave the room after they help you sit up and step down. When I sit up sometimes more comes out of me.
Husband loves wiping the lubriacnt from me at home. My latest OBG does a cursory wipe with those exam room tissues, quite thorough between my labia and then hands me the box to finish. When I walk out of the waiting room I wonder if the other women sitting there are asking themselves Does she feel the KY? and that makes me smile and look them in the eyes sometimes.My husband loves to explore my panties especially the evening of my exam when the gusset panel is soaked with the KY and my own discharge, plus all of my other natural stains.I am blessed with a spouse who is not embarrassed about natural womanly secretions and on those nights he becomes my OBG in residence. His examinations are quire thorough and satsifying. Only I wake up the next morning with a huge puddle stain under my hips on the mattress.
I have had the same gyno for 16 years, so she is rather predictable. When the pelvic is complete she give me a quick courtsey wipe, and says there are tissues on the counter for the rest. Now my hubby gets no wipe, my guess is that because he is the opposite sex. I would assume if Inhad a male gyno, i would not get that extra contact that for some might find invasive.
She is very kind and does a courtesy wipe and then mentions that there are tissues on the counter as I proceed over to my clothing. By then I am just glad to be heading towards my clothing and not needing any further examination or procedure. It would not matter if she failed to wipe since that's really my responsibility as I don't like having to deal with stains and messy undies once I leave.
Actually this is one of my favorite turn-ons, and I discovered it by accident. A medical office building in our town has an OB-GYN practice on the first floor along with a pharmacy and a coffee shop. The coffee shop has some chairs and tables out in the common lobby area. I love to sit and sip my coffee and watch the patients come out of the OB-GYN office into the lobby. Frequently they head straight for the rest room and you know they are in there cleaning themselves up after their exam. Sometimes you can catch them pulling at the crotch of their slacks as they head for that restroom. I never bother or approach anyone, just sip my coffee and watch the parade. Hope this doesn't make me a creeper.
For my wife, after her pelvic and rectal exams, our PA mentions that there are wet wipes and tissues on the counter to clean up with as she leaves the exam room so my wife can get dressed.For me, after my rectal/prostate exam, our PA also mentions the same thing as she leaves the exam room.
Wet wipes sound nice. The times I've had it done (rectal) they've passed me a box of Kleenex, which always seems to leave a bit behind. Even though they're just tissues it was a bit odd the first time, as I was always used to using those on the other end.
At my Gyns office he doesn't wipe me off, so I just use the paper gown they give me to put on at the beginning of the exam.
For my wife, the doctor has always wiped off the excessive and then allows her to wipe off any more after he leaves.