How to get started

I got lucky - one day I braved up and told my boyfriend that I have a heartbeat fetish. He thought it was sweet and adorable and now he's very much into it to. From there, I began to slowly tell him I like the whole medical thing in general, and he was very accepting of it. He's a paramedic, so he really knows his stuff, and he's very good at it. 😃

I have gotten her to massage my prostate several times kind of like an exam and it felt great but for her to do more like speculum play and administer enemas idont know

I agree with SlimNicci 😁

Hey casalezione. i'm an exeperienced 53y.o from rome and i would like to give a couple of adivce. Try playing doctor. first time you and your wife, it's a pleasent role play and it could made your wife exiteced. second step wide the range find a friend of yours or her nad play doctor again. third step let her make the chioce. if you came in rome we can meet or semd email to: lasinodoro@libero.it

I have tried different times to introduce her to it, but I think if they are not inclined in that direction, it just wont work. So what is exciting for me seems to have no effect on her. She doesn't find going to the doctors as being erotic at all.So I'll just have to enjoy this fun stuff by myself.

I agree, different people have different fantasies. My girlfriend is aware of my medical fetish, but I don't think she shares the same passion for it. I let her know that I would like to be present for her next gyno exam and she seemed pretty okay with that. However, full on medical roleplay may never come to fruition. I just continue to fantasize about it by myself for the time being.

One night, I lay in bed with my girlfriend. We had just finished making love and she'd had a satisfying orgasm. She was on her stomach, with her knees bent and widely parted - her favorite position after an orgasm. I asked if she'd like to try something 'different'.

"What did you have in mind," she asked.

"Would you like to find out if you're anally erotic?"

"Are you serious?"

"Sure," I replied.

"Um..... how is it done?" she asked.

"It's very simple," I said. "I'll be right back." I went to my bathroom and brought back a tube of lubricating gel. She watched as I squeezed out a generous dollop of gel onto my right fingertips. "Now, I'll gently apply some to you," I said.

"Um..... where?" she asked nervously.

"Between your buttocks."

She seemed surprised.

"Um..... okay." (She often says 'um' when she's nervous.)

"Just relax..." I said in a soft, reassuring voice, as I applied the gel to her anal area.

I slid my left hand beneath her 'tummy' and lower... until the tips of my middle and ring fingers found her already erect clitoris. I began to stroke her, at the same time that I gently pressed some of the gel into her anus.

"That feels... um... different," she whispered.

"Do you like it?"

"Um.... do it some more..."

I did... and she began to moan softly. It wasn't unusual for me to bring her to orgasm in this way and position. I could see that she really enjoyed both kinds of stimulation. In less than 3 minutes, she was seconds away from what promised to be a huge orgasm (I can read her very well by her sighs, moans and movements). In that ONE second, right before her orgasm starts, when her vagina and anus relax - just before her orgasmic contractions begin - I easiy slipped most of the length my middle finger into her anus. THAT did it. She moaned loudly - in ecstasy - as a tremendous orgasm raced through her body and took her completely apart.

"UUUNNNHHH!..... UUNNHH!..... UUNNHH!..... UMNH!..... UNH..... unh..... unh..... uh..... she moaned, as her anus contracted tightly around my finger, in exact sync with her vaginal contractions.

Munutes later, when she was back down from 'cloud nine', she looked at me and a small grin played at the corners of her mouth.

I smiled at her - a warm, affectionate smile.

"What did you DO to me?" she whispered.

"Did you like it?" I asked.

"Yes," she whispered, "VERY much..."

"That," I explained, "was an anal orgasm."

Her eyes went wide and her mouth formed a perfect "O".

"Do you remember me mentioning medical fetish... and gyno fetish? I asked.

"Um..... yes....."

"Well, that's just a sample of what it feels like," I told her.

"I... I'd... I just wish that I'd let you do it sooner," she said softly.

Long story made short: my girlfriend is now in the process of learning a whole new source of pleasure... and I'M her teacher...

This is off topic, not relevant to the conversation line.

Also a HOT story - thanks!

I'm not sure, though, that many ladies - if any at all - are REALLY anally erotic. My impression is that many ladies endure it, and some find some pleasure in it - but orgasm resulting from anal stimulation has to be a great rarity.

Nice, thanks for sharing 😃

Not really off-topic... It does peryain to 'how to get started'. It's how I got MY girlfriend started... 😁

Yep... She offered to try it on me... and I let her. It was kinda nice for me and one HELL of a turn-on for her :-) .

Thanks every one I can't wait to try some of your ideas.... should be alot of fun

Id agree with the sex-with-a-twist way... And then if that goes well, when lightly teasing at a later day, say something like "hmmm. lets play doctor." Allow them to suggest small steps further, or you could also suggest them, and let them know how much you like it the more "clinical" it gets.

Some years ago I tried to get my wife involved with the scene, just in the privacy of our bed room. But, alas after much discussion, purchases a Nurses uniform for her, start of a toy collection, and got out my enema equipment. We played once or twice, but that was it, got one enema out of the deal. She was just not interested at all even tried giving her an exam, that did not work at all. For those that have been able to connect with there mates thats wonderful. I am try some small steps some day again, but not holding much hope.

Wear scrubs for pajamas !

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For those that have been able to connect with there mates thats wonderful. I am try some small steps some day again, but not holding much hope.

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You're very lucky she was open to your ideas and willing to try to include them. From what I've read on this site, alot of people haven't told their significant other of their fetish.

Well i am new here so bear with me, I started slow with the exams, and always ended with an orgasm for her, now the role play go's much further, speculum,rectal exam, usually shaving, i use beads for the proctoscope, but always ending in an orgasm, I have her in a hospital gown to start and treat it as she was really there, at times she might even need an enema, so by taking it slow it has developed to a great time

I agree with flyfisher, you should start slow, especialy if you're not sure about how they will react, like it is not a big deal to you and move from there. That way if at any point you find out your partner is not really into this you can change direction. This is especially helpfull if you are afraid that your partner will not like it and think wierd stuff about you like I do...I'm slowly introducing it to my boyfriend

oh and ppdoctorgene I don't think orgasm from anal stimulation is that rare, the first time I had a really strong orgasm was analy and my girlfriend also likes it! Good luck to you mate

😁 If you have a significant other and want to integrate your medical fetish into the relationship, I suggest that you go slow and have your partner tell about her medical experiences. This might be most appropriate soon after she returns from a checkup. You will probably want to ask for more detail but do it with care and patience. You can then reveal that the telling of the experience turns you on. Perhaps after a few weeks you could ask her to tell you of the experience again and further discuss the aspects of the exam that sexually excites you. Over time you may be able to integrate the story of the checkup into your love making. Give her your undivided attention and try extra hard to satisfy your partners desires as you integrate your fantasy into your love making. After you have all your interests on the table you may find that your partner is willing to engage in a play doctor experience. It is important to remember that the fantasy of a play exam is sometimes more fun than actually doing all the work required to accomplish the real thing. Patience and understanding will go a long way. You may get where you want to go.

I think you summed it up very well Speculator, very good point. 😉

I had a an ertic feeling with my dentist she is a lovely women

I started with role playing. Suggest a 'play doctor' sort of thing. If he or she is fun loving and willing to try new things, it's easy to suggest things from then on.

I introduced my wife to med play in various ways. Started by asking what was done to her in a physical, and I showed some interest in it. Then I started going into the exam room with her. Then at home I'd tell her it was kind of hot seeing her touched and examined and I'd pretend some of it in bed along with regular sex.

She always liked sex toys so I finally ordered a speculum and suprised her with it one night. She liked my using it on her. She asked if I can order some larger ones. And that stared a buying spree of med equipment, which I use on her fairly often. Great fun!!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! I think everybody, one time in the life, play DOCTOR OR PATIENT. Just tell her is a wonderful way for exciting (for a COUPLE VERY IMPORTANT) GOOD LUCK

Try to know your couple first, but trust me you should enjoy first that she(he) doesnt know yet, for exmple i would like to cry getting a shot, but he knows i like it...so he wont care... and he likes bondage so we play with our fetishes...give to recive!!

Carla

I bought my girlfriend a speculum as a present and then proceeded to use it on her - she loved it!

Honesty works surprisingly well (as should be). Play as an exiting idea and playing it out still is two different things.

Good story!

I'm torn on this subject. I've dropped hints, some subtle, some not so subtle to my wife but she has zero interest in pursuing it. If it would be uncomfortable for her then there's really no joy in forcing her into something she doesn't want to do...although forcing her might be a little kinky too 😉

The other part of me feels like this is an area that would end up being a bit of a letdown in reality. I was, until I met her, under the belief that everyone harbored some secret fetish and that some of us were just more outspoken than others. I was wrong.

But my question is, once you get there, i.e. broaching the issue, developing trust, getting your other to go along with it...is it really worth the trouble? Do they enjoy it?

I recently wore my vinyl nurse outfit and the bf loved it! He actually suggested that we buy a stethoscope after naughty nurse sex without me having to bring it up. I'm pretty stoked. 😁