Female Squirting / Ejaculation

Sometimes I can feel myself squirt, other times it just sort of pours out of me and soaks the sheets. There is a greater sense of satisfaction and a greater sense of release of pressure in the pelvis and muscle tension in the body when I squirt. Then I can just lie there, coo and moan and feel quite wonderful for a while.

It isn't as dramatic as some videos make you believe. If we believed all we saw in porn, every man here would be packing at least ten inches in his pants and all the women insatiable. (Well, that last part may be true.)

I wish I could more descriptive but I kind of take leave of my senses when it happens and it's difficult to conjure up the adjectives when I'm no longer in the moment. I hope it as wonderful for you as it is for me.

The most intense orgasm that I have is during an enema. I really don't need any toys, just myself and that full warm feeling 😄

OK so sex is a kind of control thing. I'm not into control, but I control the flow. How could I ever explain. I want it to hurt just enough to say "love". My boyfriend turned me on to this and now I get to handle the situation.

No, bulber, it is not anybody's "tale."

It is real, but not everybody can elicit the response from their partners, and (so i was told in anothr posting) not every woman squirts.

There are films ad clips of some famous "squirters" (Cytheria, Jenna Fire, Tianna Lynn etc.) and web sites devoted to it. You might check them out.

I had a patner who had some violent and wet orgasms when I was younger, and didn't know what female ejaculation was.

I now regret not investigating the cause of the wetness more at the time. But I am happy that I caused the reactions.

Ah, to be young again.... 😁

Ciao

I have never squirted to my knowledge, but I understand that women can learn to squirt by practicing kegel exercises.

I will squirt when it's a particularly intense orgasm even if I'm just masturbating. No dildo need. It's a small squirt... nothing like men do, but enough to know that it was powerful!

Not all the squirters in pornos are real. Porn stars like Cytheria are real. The squirt actually comes from the urethra,not the vagina. The medical community is beginning to accept the concept of a female prostate, and it's stimulation (through the G-spot) causes intense orgasms. The fluid can be thick or thin depends on the woman, and can have a strong flavor or very little flavor. Just as the flavor of a man's ejaculation can be changed by what has been eaten or the amount of water in a day, so too can a woman's ejaculation change in flavor intensity.

I have felt guilty for peeing myself (as I thought) when I orgasm and have fought against it. Since reading this chain I have realised what is happening have just let go and the feeling of relief is wonderful. I have been a squirter without knowing it.

A hint from a guy who has had a squirter for many years----keep it fresh, the fresher her squirts are the better they will taste. the first couple of times you make her squirt just soak it up with a towel, after that enjoy--------ford

I started squirting after my hysterectomy. I don't know what the surgeon did, but the sex has been great since the operation. I often squirt while on top during sex.

Sure you would!! You gals wouldn't have anyone trying to persuade you wanting to stick something into you or trying to convince you to try far out things. I thought at first only we guys were the adventurous but after reading some of the ladies posts, I'm convinced many of us are pretty docile.

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. . . pressure applied to the top of a woman's vaginal canal just in past her gspot can sometimes even make a non-squirter squirt. . . .

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That's because you are pressing on her bladder, and she's [with good reason] more involved with thinking about her sexual pleasures than holding her urine.

[quote author=Mash4077th link=topic=19725.msg195983#msg195983 date=1238377866]

. . . What you are actually seeing is urine being forced out. Yes we have glands down there that do and will secrete fluid, the glands are very small and simply can't produce fluids in that quantity. . . .

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Thank god, a sensible statement on the topic. If we had any structure large enough to be capable of holding that much volume of liquid that wasn't urine, many surgeons, anatomists, pathologists and gynecologists would have found it long, long ago.

If these women in the porno films urinated before the filming, there wouldn't be such a spray.

For those with the time and disposition to read...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation

Thanks "user264" a very interesting article! As I said earlier I've experenced the effect and while the amount wasn't large it sure didn't taste or smell like urine.

Fantastic thread! We're hoping to be posting here in the near future with a squirting success story 😃.

This is a great thread, thanks to all for the comments. Female wetness is fascinating to me. I think I am a Lesbian trapped in a man's body. I have only had experience with two squirters and I did get a mouth full both times. The flavor was about the same as has been very adequately described in these posts; more bland than salty and dries sort of sticky just like regular girl juice. I was taken quite by surprise the first time, I thought I had been peed on, but there is no urine bitter taste.

We men (this is highly age dependent)are only good for a couple of ejaculatory performances in a "session" and holding the moment of orgasm while maintaining an erection is the degree of skill the ladies like. Most of the ladies I have known like to be penetrated and manually stimulated at the same time during coitus. This is different than just straight licking. Nature has arranged for the female to reach her maximum wetness with orgasm and she then slowly regains her composure and then she relaxes or goes for another orgasm, each girl being different. As crude as it is to state this, I feel that it is our animal heritage and the female is physically readying for more male intrusion and insemination. The emotional side of the woman is what dictates this extant. I have seen (second hand, I was not lucky enough or at the right time) two gang bangs in my college years. Both girls were highly intelligent women whose hormones took control. One of them was a mathematics major. They just became temporarily insatiable-nature's way. As far as I know, neither one did this again at least at school. I had a girlfriend who admitted to me tackling a fraternity on vacation in Jacksonville, FL, she claimed 11 "kills." She said it was ten guys but one guy managed two pops. This from a Southern Baptist girl who would not say the words "fuck" or "pussy." She stated she "pleasured the boys." I wonder if she squirted, she never squirted for me!

I have only ejaculated twice in my life, both times on my own using vibrators, but it was NOT urine, but soaked my bed completely and gushed out with no control at all.. I can definitely say it wasn't urine, it had a different consistency, no smell, and was a clear/whitish/milky liquid.

I enjoyed it immensely, but wish I could find a man to help me achieve it without using battery aided toys!

I read somewhere that it is impossible to urinate and orgasm at the same time as one shuts down the other, or is that just on men?!

I don’t think that I have ever squirted. I have had partners tell me that there was a gush when I came but I really think that it was just contraction of vaginal muscles forcing my abundant fluids out.

A few years ago (Okay more than a few) my husband and I tried to get it to happen. The common wisdom was that it was brought on by stimulation of the ‘G’ spot. While it was pleasurable enough during the act it caused me a lot of urinary problems for days afterward so we stopped trying because the ejaculation never did happen.

I have been with women who definitely excreted a fluid that was neither vaginal secretions nor urine when they orgasmed (believe me I can tell the difference). The volume was small (less than an active male would ejaculate) but it was without question an ejaculation.

That’s my experience.

Jackie

It's too bad that more woman aren't aware of this phenomena! This is a site I just stumbled across. My significant other really has a great orgasm when we 69 and I massage this spot on the roof of her vagina. While there is fluid, in all, probably less than a tablespoon! I know she feels exhusted after the orgasm. My recommendation is that woman explore their own possibilities either through masturbation or with their partner.

Have a sexually active day!

Female ejaculation remains a "well-gnawed bone" in gynecologic circles - There is no anatomic evidence of a structure that would result in it. Still strong anecdotal evidence suggests it happens. This is a most interesting discussion. There is a book "The G Spot" that chronicles this but it is not very well supported - Perhaps someone here would submit an NIH proposal. Could you imagine a Congressman getting ahold of this!

DrLaennec

A female patient of mine ejaculated while I was vigorously massaging her g-spot during a bi-manual exam.

Has anybody seen the book, Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl?

I read it and I'm not convinced. The ejaculation part of the book is a lot of BS. I stand by my earlier post.

Female pelvic surgery is done countless times every day throughout the world. If there was a structure capable of holding the amount of fluid that has been reported in female ejaculation that WASN'T urine, it would have been discovered LONG LONG ago.

Even the salivary glands, which are much bigger than the paraurethral glands can't produce fluid at rates and volumes equalling the purported amounts in female ejaculates.

Yup! I gotta go with Mashie and Switch on this one! You know that phrase, "there ain't nuthin' new under the sun"? It applies here, if there were a magical mystery gland, it surely would have been discovered by now. I won't deny for a second that there is more vaginal lubrication produced at some times than others, or that a small amount of urine is being released at orgasm but really, ejaculation? Really?

Hmmm, come to think of it, maybe more personal study on this subject is needed! Just in case.

Play On!

LadyDoc

I first squirted at 13. Yes, I felt it squirting out in several spurts from my urethra. I started masturbating around 10 and had my first orgasm at 11. At 12, I got caught by the school nurse (in a stall in the girls' restroom) and I got a big lecture about it, so I gave it up for a few months, until shortly after my 13th birthday. I was in the bathtub, playing, with my knees up and wide, when I felt an orgasm coming on. That's when it happened and I saw it... whitish liquid, in spurts, a bit thick in consistency, in the water. It felt wonderful! Now, at 27, if I don't have an orgasm for half a day (or more), I will ejaculate during orgasm.

I have a keen interest in sexual research literature and I have learned that only about 10% of women are true female ejaculators. Typical 'squirting' is what the researchers call temporary orgasmic incontinence. It's actually urine and is pushed out in a continuous stream during orgasm. This type of 'squirting' can often be 'learned'. In the porno industry, the girls' bladders are drained with a catheter and 'back filled' with either sterile water or sterile saline. This is why it comes out crystal clear. Still, many people get excited whenever their female partner 'squirts'... real or otherwise.

My gf will 'gush' at orgasm but not 'squirt' per se. The fluid will cover her thighs and bottom. It's sexy as hell.

When I get direct, prolonged stimulation on my g spot i squirt. To make it really impressive, I take a break and force my self to calm down, let my arousal subside and then get back to it. If i stimulate my clit, i will orgasm, so I have to keep my hands off myself and practice restraint. Or have someone restrain me. 😁 THe longer the stimulation goes, the bigger the squirt. When it happens, it feels electric, pulsating. Not like urinating or when liquid escapes from my vagina. It's pretty wild!

Okay, I wasn't going to answer this thread, something about TMI, but now I just gotta respond!

At the (somewhat) advanced age of 50, I had my first-ever squirting experience just last month when my partner and I were together. What a mind-bender that was! I'd love to have it happen again, but I think the circumstances have to be just right and the stars have to align in the proper houses; you get the idea! If it never happens again, that's okay with me; it happened once and sometimes that's all you can ask for.

Like my friend soumise, I find that I have a number of very distinct "types" of orgasms. Some are very sharp, quick, and intense; some are long and slow; some are so subtle as to try and sneak by me; and some are like an earthquake. I can't predict which one will occur and that's part of the fun.

I too have gone through a period in my life when I was an-orgasmic. For me it lasted eight years. 😮! Part of that was circumstance, part of it was by choice. It ended when the right man came into my life. soumise, just give it time; when your psyche has healed you'll get back on track.

Here endeth the lesson!

LadyDoc

I can't squirt! I've tried stimulating my g-spot with my fingers, it feels like it's the right spot and I get that funny feeling that goes along with it (or so I've read). I can feel my orgasm building, and it's a different sort of feeling than when I'm playing with my clit, but the squirting never comes. I've also tried using the handle of my hairbrush because my fingers get tired.

Any pointers, please?

It takes me a looooot of stimulation to squirt, and I can't do it very frequently. If only it was possible to do it every time - it really turns him on!

I usually squirt when my gspot is rubbed. it takes me awhile for it to happen though.

Folks go back and take a look at the quality of responses to this post - This is medfet at its best. Better known as female ejaculation - it remains a true enigma (on several levels). I came to studying this in a rather unusual way. While freshening up my teaching notes on the clitoris I chanced upon a bibliography with mentioning the book G-Spot

http://www.bookfinder.com/search/?ac=sl&st=sl&qi=tS8EE5ZC4IxImR5etdxxu1T11N8_8824278243_1:92:698&bq=author%3Dalice%2520kahn%2520ladas%26title%3Dg%2520spot

So I went to our local library (part of a large consortium with 75 co-operating members and 20,000,000 plus books.) I checked the catalog and found 32 copies, 31 of which had the notation “See Librarian” what this means is that 31 copies had been stolen! Well I got more than I had hoped for! I check out the book and was looking in the stacks when a librarian who I have long been fond of came up to me and said, “Did you find your book ‘interesting’ ? With a twinkle in her eye. I said “I haven’t started it yet” She then went on to say, “I flood” when I have sex I become a virtual pond. Well she gave me a sample (soaked tampon) in a Zip-Loc bag. I decided to analyze the sample before I read anything. Here’s what I found:

Not urine – neither urea nor creatinine were present both major constituents of urine

Not Bartholin gland secretion – Did not produce a fern pattern on drying

Not starch – Iodine test was negative – I didn’t think she was offering a fictitious sample

Not semen – No spermatozoa – No fructose

Anyone with an interest in chemistry wishing to take up the ball?

So next I read the book – it was challenging – I like books that offer more questions than answers. Here is what I gathered

No one has been able to find any anatomical proof that this spot even exists. Despite careful histological (cell) studies under the microscope, no one has found anything different that surrounding tissue in terms of innervations.

Despite this – the author Alice Laddus found on survey 10% of all women experienced ejaculation and a good number ejaculated! Now here in the group we have all these splendid anecdotal reports which suggests even higher percentages. Now it could be that only those who experience this phenomena have stepped forward.

What a fertile field for someone interested in research! I would start with a poll – then an intensive medical history. Physical examination on cam would clinch it!

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