Does men's size matter?

Does size matter?

There have been brain scans that have shown the cervix plays apart in sexual stimulation. If they are correct, it takes a penis long enough to hit it during intercourse. If the man is not long enough to reach the cervix then the woman is not being stimulated to her maximum level. I think length at least matters. I would also argue that girth can be felt as well at least in stretching the vaginal tissues to pull the clitoris closer to the thrusting penis. 😃

Brant, first of all, I love your name, off topic I know, lol.

But you bring up some good points actually. Medically speaking, I am not quite sure how to say what I want to here, but, a woman's pelvic muscles that surround the cervix sort of remind me of a sling shot. Meaning that the muscles will stretch allowing a man who is longer to fit.

I read once, or Doc told me that the average length of a womans passage is between 5 and 6 inches, but due to the muscle structures surrounding, will stretch, which allows a longer man to get all the way in.

As I said before, Doc is bigger than average both in length and width. He is able to hit my cervix, which excites the heck out of me. And truth be told, of the few times I have been able to climax through vaginal sex, it's been because he's been hitting on or close to my cervix. However, I have also climaxed vaginally when the penis was hitting a different spot, but it wasn't nearly as intense, and felt totally different. I think the reason doggy style is by far my favorite position is for exactly this reason, along with feeling dominated, but it allows him to get even deeper, which in turn, makes him thrust even harder into my cervix.

Mmmmmm!

Hands down, Yes! But it's the "triple threat" that is more important...

1). Is it large enough to just slightly hurt upon insertion?

2). Is it rock hard?

3). Does he know how to use it?

If the he answers to "yes" to all then it's a recipe made in heaven, and he's a keeper.

Size: for me if he reaches my cervix and stretches me width wise it's a turn on.

Hardness: who cares how big it is if it's not standing proud? If you can hang a napkin on it without sliding off...yum. This provides more stimulation by filling her.

Skill: if he hasn't got skills, then the first 2 are invalid any how. Does he use it like a fine instrument, or just hope for the best? Is he in control of it, or is it in control of him? It's night & day.

The BONUS:

cleanliness. Guys pls do us a favor and keep it squeaky clean, fresh and give it a shave regularly from top to bottom.

It depends on the woman. My EX-wife wished i was about 2 inches longer and a little more girth. My current wife thinks my size is perfect and anything bigger would hurt her. So i would say it depends on your partner. All in all i wish i had a little more girth. It also depends on how you us it, like i learned how to stimulate my ex by positing my self.

From my point of view, that is a guy taking another guy. Size does matter, if it's the size of your forearm then best to just keep it in your pants because your not ramming that thing into me. It seems that guys with big dicks think that all they have to do is push it in and the person will enjoy it. The best night I had was with a guy who's dick was only about 3 inches but he could sure hit all the right spots.

Back to topic: under 3 is to small and over 7 1/2 is to big, as far as girth goes nothing is to small but any thing over 5 1/2 is to big...for me at least.

How big is it, not as important as to knowing how to use it.

It's not what you have got, it is what you do with it, whatever the size.

Get the actions right and you won't find many women complaining on that score.

I've found that it depends on the woman, as well as your own skills. I have about a 6.5 in member and only had 2 women. The first I couldn't finish the job with, because she required a lot more, and different stimulation. My current girlfriend orgasms easier and with less time, so usually even if I finish quickly, 9 times out of 10 we do it together, and about 50% of the time I blow on her second/third (when 2&3 are close together)

I've found personally I can usually try to get her going at least once after I'm done, as long as I don't pause and keep a vigorous pace. It all depends on how you and her match up, it's not just how you use it, but how she takes it

I'm rather large down there & have had very few few complaints. It's been tough to get it all in sometimes butt always fun!

A friend of mine had a contest once. She wanted to see who out of her guy friends had the largest cock. She asked several guys she knew to send her a pic of their erect penis next to a shaving cream can for comparison. I sent in my pic. She tallied up the entries and the winner was.......

Anyway, I though it would be fun to do a similar contest. Is there a female on this site that wants to start such a contest? We need a fair and impartial judge.

Some women say it does, others dont. I can say I have been complemented on many occasions on my size. When my wife saw it for the first time she was like: "YOUR HUGE!!" I'm no Porn star but I can can say I'm slightly above averge. Makes me feel sorry for her exes......

I am average sized, so a bit biased when I feel that it is what you do with it that matters. However, my wife, who is sexually experienced has said that the sight of a large one really appeals to her but the reality is that unless the person attached to the whopper is knowledgeable and skilled then disappointment is all too common. A further observation that she makes is that many guys that are blessed seem to feel that their good fortune is the pinnacle and that they dont have to try too hard to excite/arouse and please a woman. So she preferes a skilled and considerate lover.

In my bi sexual experience I have been with a variety of men. I found the really large too painful to be pleasureable. I seem to recall the one with a relatively small penis was able to get extremely hard and provide a lot of pleasure. Interestingly, I have found the person, their sensuality and their general approach and attitude far more conducive to good sex, the penis is actually secondary to the overall pleasures derived. Mind over matter!!!

Does size matter? If she says "Is it in yet?" and you have it fully inserted, then size matters.

Its now the size of your guitar....its the tune u play

I agree size doesn't matter, it is what you do with what you've got. It's a two way street. Both parties need to participate or only one is going to fully enjoy the experience. I have been with someone who was very thick and very long. You would have thought that he was always satisfied. Not so, he said that some of the women were intimidated by his size. Others were fascinated. Just like the penis comes in all lengths, girths, and shapes ( large head small shaft, small head progressively thicker shaft, same size head and shaft etc) women's vaginas are different. Some stretch easily others take more time, still others won't stretch that much at all. For all you average to smaller men think of when you are ready to climax. You want to loose yourself and pound into the vagina,anus,mouth until you cum. He stated that there were very few women who could accommodate more than half of him and that if he did not want to hurt who he was with he couldn't loose himself in the climax. That tends to diminish the strength and pleasure of the event if you must keep yourself on a short leash.

So don't envy those men who are very big they have their own problems.

I believe that size doesn't matter but attitude. If you work on pleasuring your partner you will be pleasured, no matter what your size or shape.

If the member can do the job size is not important. There are ways to makeup for size so use all the skills you have to make it work.

As mab said, "It's not what you've got it's what you do with it that counts".

I have never had an issue with the size of my member, I just couldn't give a rats arse. Some guy's are so hung ( no pun intended) up on this. Except how you are and concentrate on how to best use it and enjoy the pleasure it will bring.

From a gay male perspective, I have always found that men with a larger than average penis really do not get that much bigger when fully hard, yet the men with a small to average size penis can become huge when fully hard that it is amazing and such a huge (pun intended) turn on for me! Yet, it does still boil down to the point of does a man really know how to use it, and some do and some do not. I had intercourse once with a guy with a very small penis, but he knew just how to use it and used it well. I have also been with guys with a larger than average size penis and never wanted to use it at all to please me, so I thought, what a waste of inches. However, that is not to say that all men with a large penis do not know how to use it, as I have taken very large ones and would have to rate those times as excellent sex. Still some of those men with a large penis often have admitted to having trouble finding willing partners to "take" their large size so found their large size tended to be their curse. I would like to throw out the question to those men with a larger than average penis and ask them if they have found their large size to be a "curse" in finding willing partners to have sex with?

Im gay and size has never bothered me at all - never see why people make a fuss - its just a penis lol

I don't think size matters whatsoever. Over the years, I have put on some weight, but recently dropped about 20 pounds. Interestingly, my erect penis "grew" slightly, having previously been buried in blubber fat. So loose some weight men ... you will not only be more healthy, your equipment might magically grow an inch ... or two.

"Anything over a mouthful is wasted."

Size does not matter if the woman loves the man. My guy is less than 4 inches erect and we have not had a problem.

I wish I could lie and say that size doesn't matter to me, but ummm, I just can't. Lucky for me the man I love happens to be way above average and then some in that department, lol.

Mashie

Thanks for the compliment, Mashie. Until now I didn't even know you loved me!

Nick

Awww Nicky, you found me out, and here all this time I thought I was being a sly dog about my feelings for you. Gosh darn, I need to learn how to hide my true feelings a little bit better in the future, lol. You know I have to automatically love you, anyone who loves a good injection has my heart and has had me from......bend over and drop 'em. Hehehe

Mashie

It does to me..but I might not be the norm..I like the smaller side of average..Big ones scare me...I get the most pleasure from external stimulation..so it's not what's inside of me that matters.

You know Grace1, I used to be the exact same way. I was of the thought that if a guy had more than say 5 inches my va jay jay was a no fly zone. Sex for me was for some reason very painful, scary, and not at all pleasurable. I have had a few negative experiences through the years so honestly sex really wasn't on my "want to do list". Actually I hated it. I hated it so much that until I met Doc I had abstained for almost 13 years with absolutely no desire to ever have any again.

Now I know you all get really tired of hearing me say this, but all of this changed for me when I met Doc. I can't honestly tell you what it was that changed all of this for me. If I had to think of a reason I would have to say that for the first time in my life I was actually really in love, and I mean head over heels in love. Also, I completely trusted him on all levels. For the first time in my life I had sex with the lights on. I had never done that before. Now when we have sex in the dark, which has only happened maybe 5 or 6 times, we are being "kinky", lol.

Doc is a lot bigger than 5 inches, and he's quite wide, lol. Yes it still hurts a lot in the first few minutes, especially when we have been apart for a few months, but instead of a hurts so bad, it's a hurts so oh so very very good, lol. Maybe it's part that I am totally in love with Doc, or because I am so turned on by him and I find him the most sexy man I have ever seen, or maybe because I have hit my sexual prime, or even maybe that I have discovered my kink and that I am not alone and that it has a name, or maybe it's a little of all of those things. But all I know for sure is that I LOVE sex with Doc..........a lot!

Mashie

As you know, Mashie, I would love to "bend over and drop 'em" for injections from you. Owing to the subject of these posts, however, haven't you got that instruction the wrong way around? Wouldn't you prefer your patient with pants down before bending over so you could have a good look?

Nick

Another vote for 'average' from me but skill counts more than size. I've had large that had no clue what he was doing and left me very unsatisfied.

This subject brings to mind an old Churchillian joke. During the war, a British company received a large export order for condoms which, as rubber was a strategic material, required prime ministerial authority. Churchill approved the request with three conditions:

1. Each item to be a minimum of twelve inches in length,

2. Each item to be a minimum of three inches in diameter,

3. Each box to be labelled "Made in Britain - small size"!