Is being hairy kinky or gone forever?

I don't mind natural or shaven pussies , but if I had it my way I would prefer shaven. I'm a hairy guy, but my scrotum is always shaven and the rest of the pubic hair is trimmed.

It's not kinky--just personal preference and it's probably not gone forever. Like most fashion trends, hairless seems to be the look of the day but tomorrow might be back to hairy. Many of today's fashions demand at least well trimmed, if not complete removal of, body hair. Today's high-tech razors and improved depilatories, have made it much easier and safer to remove or trim body hair. Imagine trimming one's pubes or pits with a straight razor. And now there are numerous methods that offer a permanent solution. So blame modern technology for contributing to the hairless look.

If we are talking about partners, hairy or not should an agreement between the couple. For adult entertainment, I definitely prefer smooth. But a quick on-line search will find several adult sites specifically geared to those who enjoy the hairy look.

Being hairy has gone the way of the buggy wip, when is the last time you saw a new buggy wip store open. Wax it all off I say, it means simpley... I'm open for business! ;-)

I shave when I feel like it - I could care less what anyone thinks of it. If they think it's sexy - whatever. If they think it's ugly - whatever. It's mine and I do what I want with it, haha.

Prefer waxed lady parts, can't beat the smoothness. But like most fashion trends

bushes may make a come back. Wonder what all the lasered pubic areas will do when hair is back in fashion? Hair transplants?

It is a fashion trend either way and trends are notorious for being fickle and unpredictable. There is no way to know what people's tastes will be like 20 or 10 years down the line.

I'd say it depends on how the access to porn an erotica remains. In spite of all the rants and rage by some segments of the population against its relatively easy availability now, within a globalized internet, I doubt it will be banned to any serious degree. And that means that since now there is far less shame in showing and talking about genitals, there will be a tendency towards more overt grooming and care of those parts. And part of that grooming will be shaving or trimming.

When it was considered socially unacceptable to see people's parts, even amongst spouses, there was really no need for genital grooming. Even handling one's own genitals was not really considered to be all that acceptable behavior. So there was no real need to shave or trim. Why go to all the bother when no one saw the results anyway?

Now that nudity is at east partially accepted, even if only in a (sex) business context, there will always be pressure to show all parts of a nude body to its full potential. And that also entails genital shaving/trimming. And many people will copy that look.

So I'd predict that until society reverts back to a general state of prudery and sexual shame (and that will inevitably happen in the future at some unknowable date) shaving and trimming will remain popular.

I keep my crotch trimmed, but I shave my balls, around the shaft and around my asshole.

I love it when my girl is unshaven, it is so much more sexy like that.

The idea of her coming back from the gym with a hairy, sweaty crotch is so much hotter than if she were clean shaven.

I can appreciate shaven too, of course, it is nicer to look at I think, but it isn't sexier.

I am a woman and straight, and I don't believe that 'hairy' will go in the direction of dodo.

Pubic hair on a woman is bold, womanly, and beautiful. It is daring and exudes confidence, which can be so erotic and sexy. It's just different. Of course, I am not talking about out-of-control jungles. But you know what I mean.

Remember Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct? I highly doubt it that she would command that kind of reaction from men (and women, I might add) were she cleanly shaven.

Besides, I doubt that men actually give a damn. When there is a beautiful healthy naked woman standing in front of them, all preference go out of the window. Lol

Here's a link showing something related to this thread. Lingerie store mannequins sporting pubic hair.

http://gothamist.com/2014/01/16/american_apparel_mannequin.php

I'll have to stop by one in NYC, either the Chelsea of UWS stores.

I like clean-shaven genitals in women. But - and don't ask me why because I sure as hell don't know - for some doggone reason I find neatly trimmed (not shaven) armpit hair in females incredibly sexy. I won't blame anybody for thinking I'm a bloody raving lunatic, or at the very least, a strange fella...... 😁

But I'm not. We're all individuals with all sorts of kinks and preferences which turn us on (or off), so to say that hairy is out forever, is surely bound to be proved greatly exaggerated for now and the future.

There are several ways to look at this. Bushy is great, trimmed is great, and shaved is great, wait a minute that's only one way, it's just great anyway.

I like smooth, both for men and women. Second choice is natural. Stubble is a distant third.

I like both, I find both shaven and bare sexy

I'm bare and I prefer bare or at least well trimmed. It's cleaner and I think it looks, smells and tastes better and I'd rather not pick pubic hair out of my teeth. So yes..I hope being hairy kinky is gone forever.

Pubic floss is just - awful.

I had always kept waxed/shaved because I thought all guys preferred that, until my current boyfriend asked me to let my pubic hair grow out because get this, he had never seen a full bush on a woman in person...now he asks me to alternate (wax it, leave it, leave a landing strip, etc). He has said he's curious about seeing my armpit hair, so maybe that will be next. I doubt he will ever be into hairy legs though, and to be honest I prefer shaved legs - the feeling of getting into a bed with freshly shaved legs is GLORIOUS.

my current boyfriend asked me to let my pubic hair grow out because get this, he had never seen a full bush on a woman in person...

Remarkable how styles, customs and preferences change. When I was growing up and sneakily buying the first real sex mags I could get my hands on, there were never any photos of shaved pubic areas, nary one to be seen. Sometimes with very light blondes you'd get a faint approximation, but nothing much more. It was all natural hairness as far as the eye could see.

On the other hand, when buying photography magazines with artistic academic nudes, the whole pubic area would be airbrushed out, retouched so that it looked like a public Renaissance nude statue - no pubic hair, no hint of sexual organs or anything like that, just a smooth mons continuing all the way between the thighs.

Later, things started changing, and when I first saw photos of shaved genitals, I knew that was the way for me.

Just over 3 years ago I grew my bush back as my husband had never seen it. I do admit after being bald for 17 years, it was a bit different seeing myself with that flaming patch of red hair down there, but he loved it, but now the romance is over, all things come to an end and the bush is soon to be shaved. My husband tried shaving me once and I think I still have the scars to prove it, so it's going to be a do-it-yourself project with him taking pictures. Just hope I don't slaughter myself.

^^^^ Trim it, then WAX IT OFF!

Maybe a couple of pinpoint bleeding follicles, but no scars!

I think bushes will be back - most fashions are cyclical! Bare is exciting when it is new and different but I think very closely trimmed is the best, practical and a sexy solution.

I don't shave my pubic hair and I don't like shaved genitals in general. Both sexes look pre-pubescent when shaved. Pubic hair is there for a reason--It shows that the bearer is adult and it carries pheromones. Pheromones increase arousal. It is entirely a personal choice however.

Both sexes look pre-pubescent when shaved.

It's odd that people never say that about shaved faces.

Imagine how demeaning it would be to describe every man who shaved his face as looking like a pre-pubescent. And yet with genital shaving it's bantered about as being quite normal ...

I for one don't like the hairy look for women or men. Just my personal taste. My wife shaves most of her pubic hair and underarms. I am in the final stages of laser hair removal from my shoulders down to my toes so I have no body hair. I find it kind of interesting to look at nude beach porn like Cap d' Agde in France. You can see hundreds of people at a time and most seem to do some trimming if not all shaved (men and women) but some go for the all natural look.

Now a days pubic hair on women is kind of rare so when we see a full bush it is quite shocking (check out the old porn from the 70s). So I can see it might be a real turn on since it is somewhat rare.

I apologize for saying "prepubescent". I didn't mean to offend. It's a matter of style and I'm a dinosaur.

I never quite realized how charged an issue this is. It seems to be taken a bit to extremes though.

It's odd that people never say that about shaved faces.

Imagine how demeaning it would be to describe every man who shaved his face as looking like a pre-pubescent. And yet with genital shaving it's bantered about as being quite normal ...

I've worn a full beard or thick goatee for over 15 years and wore one off and on for the 10 years before that. A number of people have said things like "You would look so much younger if you shaved that beard." Or "the beard makes you look so much older than you are."

I don't have a baby face by any means, but when I did shave it a number of years ago acquaintances and colleagues did say "you look so much younger" and meant it as a compliment I'm sure. Most of the people very close to me wanted me to grow it back, I think they missed it mostly because it was so familiar to them. My sister even said "you look sinister without a beard". That comment actually kept me shaving for a while.

Many guys will grow a beard to look more mature. Of course many more grow one to be rebellious too. So there is some slight element of maintaining the youthfulness of preadolescence in a man keeping his face clean shaven. The fact that facial hair is by its nature a more public expression than pubic hair, it's existence or non-existence will naturally be less taboo.

Just as facial hair styles are seen as rebellion when they buck the standing norm, so are choices about pubic hair styles.

In holding to my statements above, I can't understand how it can be viewed that a shaven pubic region does not look at least somewhat more childlike than one with a bushy mound.

Another point harkens to some baggage I carry from the era when I grew up. In the eighties in the conservative American Midwest, my young adult contemporaries generally sported full manes of pubic hair. We could be certain that our parents did too. It seemed so staunchly accepted as the societal norm. To come across a girl that shaved around her vagina at all was a rare find, and something quite racy. A girl that took that much time and care grooming her genitals was often viewed as "easy" or "a bit of a nympho." Mind you, many of us young bucks were trying to talk our girlfriends into shaving their pussies. It was exciting and different.

I respect everyone's choices and preferences. Personally though I prefer a full coif on both sexes. But especially on men. When I see a fully shaven adult penis I can't help but think it looks just the slightest bit silly because of the incongruity of the absence of pubic hair next to the mature genitalia.

Don't get me wrong. I love seeing penises and vaginas anyway they come, shaven, au natural, and any point in between.

Variety is the spice of life.

Mind you, many of us young bucks were trying to talk our girlfriends into shaving their pussies. It was exciting and different.

Right ... that's what fashion is often about - finding new ways to look exciting and different ...

Hairy, trimmed not shaved bush

Doesnt matter if a woman is hairy..............it is how its meant to be after all.

I guess I will weigh in this subject because I did have all my body hair removed through laser hair removal.

Ultimately it really comes down to the eye of the beholder. I personally don't like body hair on a woman or a man. I like seeing all the body's anatomy from a skin point of view. That's just my personal taste.

If someone sees me and says I look prepubescent well that's ok, but that is not how I view myself. My genitals are certainly prepubescent looking and when a woman shaves her genitals they certainly don't look prepubescent to me. I think it looks super sexy and is a turn on.

So if pubic hair is a turn on or kinky for you then you should keep it. If you don't think so then shave it or permanently remove it.

Right now it seems many (but certainly all people) are choosing to trim or shave, but once again it all seems to boil down to the way a person views themselves.

I remember when most women trimmed only the minimum needed to prevent strays from coming out around a bikini. I like the current fashion, but have always presumed that it is simply the current fashion and that in due course the desired look will be a rather full bush. Time will tell 😃.