Is being hairy kinky or gone forever?

Aren't we in an era that accepts a wider range of styles than some prior generations? Still, each of us probably finds some styles more attractive than others. I find I usually have a preference for women with hair on their heads and in their nether regions, but I also find there are exceptions to every rule. (Remember the song, "she's got hair of red; I never cared for hair of red, but she's got hair of red; that's my preference now!") Some women are so hot just as they are that one's usual preferences become irrelevant. In fact, my over-riding preference is for a woman that is self-confident and secure, and doesn't need my approval. (I'm totally neutral about male hair, BTW; couldn't care less one way or the other.)

It is what you want it to be. If you want hair to be kinky, it certainly can be. If you want it gone for good, you can have that, but it will cost you time or money or both.

I was around for the late 60s when "do your own thing" became culturally popular. Of course there were limits even in the late 60s. You could do your own thing, but you had to wear the uniform, blue jeans. If you didn't, you were not entitled to do your own thing.

I do think peer pressure is greater today. Thus it takes a real individual to go against the pressure to be hairless, as if that really matters to your friends. So let it all hang out, but be careful not to get it caught in your zipper.

When I first started buying sex magazines in the 70s, the real ones that is, Dutch or Danish publications, had predominately full pubic haired models in them, few were even trimmed. But every now and then there would be someone with sparse of virtually no hair - not specifically shaven I think, just very sparse. These were the images that stayed with me, that I remember best.

There was also a sex comic, quite well illustrated by professional artist Hans Borrebach. He drew it in the late 60s but it wasn't published until 1985 or so. And there is a scene of several pages in which the girls of a boarding school, for some reason shave off their pubic hair and get punished for it. Silly stuff but well drawn and also something that has always stayed with me.

And recently I found a copy of a Danish sex film from 1971 (or thereabouts anyway) called 'Pornoigrafi' which shows a clip of a girl shaving. Unusual stuff for those years. But the film won several prizes in erotic arts categories at a few festivals .

So, what I'm getting at is that pubic shaving is not something that has come entirely out of the blue. It's just that somehow its become more acceptable than previously.

I've read where Gwyneth Paltrow and Cameron Diaz are 'leading' the trend for pubic hair - hell, I've had a bush ever since I could grow one! Who knew - I'm a fashion leader!

I dated a girl who always kept herself perfectly trimmed and was a true gem. We dated only a year then she met someone else... He insisted she go 'back to nature'. That transformation was a shock. I saw her a year after they were together. Forget the 'natural' look, legs, pits, crotch. I prefer the 'manicured' look. A little time and effort results in true beauty. Just my opinion.

My Ex Boyfriend Used To Love The "BUSHY ME" But I am Not Much Of a Fan Of BUSHES /Pubic HAirs. So Whenever We used to meet up for sex . We USed To Have Sex With" Me In Bushes".. Then He Would Shave it off :\ 😜 lol

For cunnilingus I prefer a well-trimmed or shaved/waxed public hair.

For aesthetics I think my preference goes to well-trimmed. I like some nice hair in front (aesthetics) but very little hair around the vulva (for cunnilingus).

Aesthetically I think a full bush is a bit disorderly, and a totally shaved/waxed pubis seems to be hiding itself shamefully (in some movie codes basically one cannot show pubic hair because it's taboo). An adult woman, if nude, should not be afraid to show pubic hair.

Regarding armpits, I don't mind a little hair there. As with the vulva, the most important is that they should be kept clean and without strong odors...

Finding hairy genitals kinky or arousing is hugely subjective. I love women shaved and smooth all over especially their butt holes but I especially get turned on when I see a thin racing stripe just above her clit. Amazing!!!!

Which leads me to another related question. How many men and women here shave the area around their butt holes. I do it because I hate hair but for me it's equally important to do it so that there is no hair around my butt for poop to cling to. Imagine getting ready to go down on someone and they have a hairy butt hole with trace smells of poop clinging to it. Yeah I know "that's what showers are for blah blah" but really? I'd just rather be rid of it lol.

In answer to your question I prefer to be shaved completely which includes everything around the anal area. However unless you've got somebody doing it for you it's not always the easiest area to shave. I don't suffer with any itching or regrowth issues in my pubic region but I definitely get some itchiness if I give the hair any chance to grow back between my cheeks. With my pubic region I shave because I prefer the look and feel but with the anal region it's also about cleanliness and hygiene and certainly from a "poop" point of view I reckon I'm better off without any hair down there.

No one has complained about my bush ... i do trim it sometimes ... but i prefer a bush. 😃

Personally I like hair and no hair. It just depends on my mood. I'm nor really into crazy hippy hair all over the place on a woman. However is she likes a little fuzz, I am just fine with that. There is something deliciously kinky about eating out a woman with a waxed pussy. But that being said if you want your woman to be hairless men, you better be willing to reciprocate. JMHO.

I am a fan of no hair. I hate hair in my mouth when giving and when receiving I am so much more sensitive without the hair. That makes sense since you are then in intimate contact with the skin. Hair also holds odors. It is gross thinking about it but hair on the vagina or ass can never get completely clean after urinating or a bowel movement unless you wash it with soap and water. Much cleaner to not have hair. Of course then you have to deal with shaving every few weeks but I will take that over hair any day. Shaving can be a turn on if you share it with your lover.

Hair also holds odors. It is gross thinking about it but hair on the vagina or ass can never get completely clean after urinating or a bowel movement unless you wash it with soap and water. Much cleaner to not have hair.

Well @padude it is just not true that having pubic hair is dirty. I have full pubic hair and my husband does does my bikini line for me. It is so that especially for my modelling I do not have anything showing outside the bikinis or thongs that I wear. All I need to be clean is to wash and I will do that at least twice a day, and it will be after and some times before I have sex with my husband. Yeah my husband says my pubic hair traps my scent but he likes that, I am sure it is because of the pheromones, and it is not dirty at all. Women who shave still need to wash anyway, they just do not have as much natural scent.

I do not think either that having pubic hair is kinky, it is just a fashion thing for now.

I think it is cyclical; 25 years ago being shaved was considered kinky, now, not being shaved is considered kinky. Who knows what the convention will be in the year 2041?

The proliferation of porn has made pubic hair removal for both females and males completely mainstream. I'd argue it's so mainstream that a lot of people would consider natural pubic hair unusual or even weird.

Obviously, when it comes to something as personal as your pubic hair, you should do what makes you most comfortable and confident. I personally see no need whatsoever to groom my pubic hair and it's not even something I've considered.

. . . . I've had a bush ever since I could grow one!. . . .

My daughters have NEVER had a bush. Their pubes have been shaved since they first sprouted a fuzz (along with their legs and armpits.)

@Switchablesusie - do you have a bush, or are you shaven?

^^^^ It varies. Sometimes I'm waxed, sometimes shaved, sometimes trimmed. Lately mostly waxed.

I prefer a natural hairy pussy and ass. While I'll never kick a woman out of bed because she is shaven ( I do, at times find that very erotic too ) I just like hair. Not really into hairy pits or legs though. For them a shave is nice. I have had a couple girl friends that their leg hair and pits were so fine they didn't shave and that didn't bother me at all.

As for myself, I guess you would consider me hairy. My cock, balls and ass. I have hairy legs and a mild hairy chest. For my woman, I would have no problem shaving my cock and balls though if that is what she wanted.

Hairy is not gone forever. It is still here. And it is kinky if you want it to be. To me it is just everyday.

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Like everything else sex-related, it is an entirely subjective thing.

I've never been with a woman who was completely shaved. I would find it perfectly fine, and exciting, but my preference is for a full natural bush. Whatever the configuration, or hair color happens to be, is fine with me. I love the variety of pubic hair textures, (something I didn't see mentioned). There is the soft fluffy blonde hair. There is the darker, more substantive brunette bush. there is the wiry black of Oriental women, and the curlier black of African American women. All fascinating to someone who just likes pubic hair.

My present partner has white hair on her head, but a full dark brown bush which I love. She sleeps in a pair of panties, and there is nothing I enjoy more the crawling under the covers in the morning, while she is still half asleep, and running my tongue up the front of her right panty leg. There are always a few wispy hairs peeking out. None on the left so the hair growth is not uniform.

I should add that underarm hair should be shaved, in my opinion.

I love women who have a bush as it's such a lovely feminine look. It reminds me of my younger days back in high school and college when most women didn't shave. Of course, it's a personal choice so everyone, men and women, should groom the way they like and feel most comfortable with.

As far as under arm hair on women goes, it can be pleasing and somewhat erotic to see. But here in the US I think it's seen by society as being unkempt and mostly considered a fetish.

I'm definetely not a fan of unshaved legs on women. That's just too hippie natural for me.

So, having more hair than is considered "normal" by society these days qualifies as a fetish.

My guess is that the amount of hair is actually a fashion -- and like any fashion there are trends.

"Is being hairy kinky or gone forever ??". . .No, it's just a trend & trends come & go.

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"Is being hairy kinky or gone forever ??". . .No, it's just a trend & trends come & go.

It is indeed a trend, a fashion. But for once in my life I have wholeheartedly embraced this fashion. Hairy genitals remind me of my very younger days, all fun enough, but I do envy those young enough to have grown up thinking that shaved is the norm and who started even before they started experiencing sexual activity.

When I got remarried just about 15 years ago, I was shaved and remained that way until a couple of years ago when he wanted to see what I looked like with a bush. So I grew it back, after a couple of months he wanted it gone, then he wanted it back, shaved and the cycle repeated itself.

I got tired of it, told him to make his mind up, he said bush and so bush it is. He has hinted at shaved again but not going to happen.

The ubiquity of porn has solidified the normalcy of hairless bodies. Shaved armpits and legs on women has been commonplace for quite some time because of the visibility of those body parts. Now, I think it's fair to say that people are growing up seeing far more nude bodies than ever before with the vast majority of those being from porn and the vast majority of those porn stars with no body hair.

Personally, I do not like armpit hair or leg hair on women. However, I quite enjoy a women with a well trimmed triangle or landing strip and with well-trimmed hair around the outer labia. To me, pubic hair signifies something special and alluring.

I do understand those who prefer a fully shaved pubic region on women. It does make the external genitals and vaginal opening much more visible and prominent which is certainly exciting in its own right.

I have never been with a woman who had hair everywhere, but I have been with many women who have hairy pussies. I like them both ways 😃, but the hairy ones capture me because of their aromatic properties. The fragrance of a woman with a hairy pussy is so intoxicating. Absolutely no perfume can capture that fragrance. My cock just throbs thinking about it. Plus for me that triangular patch defines her femininity.

My preference is shaved, but I often find bushy quite erotic to see. Just like the feel of smooth skin on my lips and the absence of hair between my teeth. As for myself, I'm shaved.