I have had Foley’s for about 24 hours which is starting to get of the long side of safe. I thinkthey have a wonderfully unique felling while being installed and in place. As previously mentioned they can be a bit irritating as they are removed and they always for me seem to have some lingering pain for several urinations after removal. But even it’s not that bad and gets into my “interesting feeling” category after a few normal urinations.
In preparation for my enema I will be told to drink several glasses of water. Then my partner will install the cath. As soon as the first urine shows she’ll clamp it off, move it further in and then inflate the balloon.
By the way, I’ve inflated the balloon outside the bladder to better understand how big a balloon I was dealing with as well. If you do this, when you suck the sterile water back out of the balloon into the syringe be careful not to go too fast. If the balloon doesn’t contract evenly you can develop a small wrinkle which can be very painful on insertion. If you take about 95% of the water out of the balloon while its outside the bladder and then patiently the balloon will normally deflate smoothly. At the worst, withdraw the plunger of the syringe very slowly and observe the balloon for any wrinkling. Wrinkles are painful enough to put you off cath play. If done correctly it is a very interesting and pleasant experience.
Once my partner has installed and inflated the balloon she will gently tug on it to seat it properly on the Bladder sphincter. If you use too small a diameter tubing you may leak around it. If you pick too large a cath diameter it will be difficult to remove particularly if you have it installed very long. I figured out that I wanted to start small and work to larger sizes.
Once it’s in place she well connect it to the leg bag and strap the leg bag to my leg. If we are going out in public she will often install a second clamp to the tuning and pen the primary. She will then take the tubing and the new secondary clam and drag them up to the waist band of my pants so that she can have access to it if she wants.
If we’re playing with enemas, the clamp is closed, During the enema she may bargin with me to take more enema in exchange for having my bladder drained.
Once installed you can remain in bed perhaps restrained in a spread eagle for long periods of time and your bladder can be drained continuously. I generally have her install one when we arrive at our play site and it stays in till we are ready to leave. We share enemas and administer to each other. I will administer to her while me cath is connected to my leg bag bit I have learned to make sure the the tubing is attached to my leg so I don’t accidently snag it on something as I’m moving around the room. That little accident will make you think you have just ripped you guts out from the bottom.
There is typically some discomfort with removal but it’s not terrible. A lot of times it is the lubricant that’s getting smeared on the inside of the urethra as the cath come out. The burning can persist after the removal for a little while, so I’ve learned to drink several glasses of water before removal so that once it is out I can flush the urethra as quickly as possible. It seems to help to stroke the urethra as you are initially voiding your bladder after removal to get the lube out quickly.
You certainly do not want to try to remove a cath with the balloon still partially inflated. The way the inflation deflating system is set up, is fail safe. If there is any question about whether the ballon might still be inflated we simply cut the balloon fill tube and the saline shoots harmlessly onto the floor. Once you’ve done that there’s no way the balloon can still be inflated. Uninstalling it that way also prevent the balloon from developing wrinkles on deflation.
All in all cath ply can be an interesting new sensation and these just nothing like sitting at the dinner table or in a movie and unclamping and feeling your bladder deflate. It’s even more exciting if someone else does it for you.
Jag