Hubby and I now both love playing with caths. When we first decided to play was when he showed an interest in the procedure as part of our play..I had been cathed in hospital a few times and found the sensations pleasurable.
Hubby decided he wanted me to cath him so we obtained a few caths and read up on the pitfalls and then decided to try.
We had some lidocaine so first after sterilising everything with hubby lying back on the gyno chair painted some betadine on his penis and then carefully squirted some lidocaine into the eye
He found the feeling unusual but not painful.
I then opened the sterile packing of the cath and lubricated it with surgilube and by this time hubby had become a little excited so had started to get a erection. I think this actually helped with the insertion.
The cath was a 18Fr 30CC foley.
I started to push the end into his urethra gently. He said he felt it as quite strange but pleasant as the cath went in about a couple of inches and as I kept pushing it in further lubing as I went he said there was no pain and the slight irritation as the cath went in the first few inches had disappeared.
At a depth of about 12 inches there was a sudden twitch from hubby as it got to the prostate.
I continued to push it through and into the bladder and he said it was a new feeling and was like he wanted to pee but couldnt. I had a clamp on the cath so urine couldn't gush out yet.
When I inflated the balloon and made sure hubby had no discomfort as I did I then attached the drain port of the cath to a bag and released the clamp.
Hubby said it was a weird feeling to be peeing with no control.
He said he liked the feeling and had no pain at all.
I kept giving him drinks so he passed quite a bit over a while.
When we decided to get the cath out I deflated the balloon and it came out with no problem or pain.
Some hours later when hubby peed he had a mild stinging in the urethra but not painful. The next few times the pain subsided and the next time we played with caths it didn't re-occur.
Caths are now a normal part of our play and we cath each other and play cath games like irrigating bladders with sterile saline and even both cathing and connecting the caths together.(Brilliant feelings)