Expulsion etiquette

Early in our marriage the wife asked what is it with men and oral sex (giving). My reply WAS what could be more personal and intimate. For me it created a wonderful and close bond. I see enemas and expulsion as the same sort of thing. My poor sense of smell may help enable this attitude but one could skip the first bag full. If everyone is having a good time great, if not its time for a compromise. She tolerated my enemas and took one as needed.

Usually when i expel, i like to have the person who gave me the enema to be present in the exact same room as when i am expelling the enema whether it is on the toilet, in the bath tub or any where else. I always make sure that i bring my giver with me to make it a more intimate and connecting experience for the both of us. Most times my wife gives them to me but when she is away on business trip I usually go to my local GP and complain of really really bad constipation and tightness around my stomach and she usually fixes me up with a nice hot and warm 2 liter bag enema which getS me running for the toilet in no time.

The ones I've shared we expelled separately. If I could do it now I'd like to be comfortable enough with each other to share the whole experience.

If in a role playing type of scenario, dom/sub scenario, believe it should be both given and seen for max effect.

Master stays in the bathroom with me while i'm expelling, and i'm usually giving Him a blowjob while doing so.

I typically have a laptop with me watching "fun" videos

Release/expulsion has always been an anticlimactic byproduct of enemas for me. The excitement is always the filling, so unaccompanied on the toilet is the norm here, also for any play partners who may be in my life at the time.

G.N.

My enemas are always solo, but if I had a nice woman to share with, I would enjoy giving her a enema while I'm giving her oral. Then when she is ready to expel, I would gently help her to the toilet and have her sit on it backwards leaning over the tank. That way I could rub her tummy and butt and watch her expel too to see if she's all cleaned out or needs another one or two. Expulsion is just all part of the process.

Partnersub and I prefer to expel in private. When we play, we are always in a hotel room and because space is limited we can hear everything. That's enough for both of us. Enemas sometime make me nauseous and dizzy so if that does happen he stays with me.

I'm strictly solo right now, but I don't think I would mind the company while expelling but I know for certain I would have to leave the room if my wife ever got an enema from me. Even if she wanted me in the room.

When it comes to expulsion, I love the humiliation aspect, but also the care-taking aspect. I like standing above my boy and holding his head to my chest as he sits on the toilet and expels. I give him nice coaxing words about what a good boy he's being and pointing how dirty he was and how he needed cleaning out. Luv it when he responds to concur. He has to learn that all his functions belong to me and he must undergo them in my presence.

I don't get any kicks watching a woman expel and definitely want my privacy when doing the same. That has always been one of my ground rules. When a woman heads to the bathroom after an enema I will always put on some music and all have appreciated that gesture. I am one of those people who don't like to see, hear, or smell others having a BM.

The act of watching a women expel is super erotic for me. Something so private normally being done in front of me is amazing. I was introduced to enemas by our next door neighbor growing up. She was very pretty and she new I would always look very closely. I was 16 and had my first sexual experience withy girl friend when my basketball bounced into her yard. I went to the door and she let me in wearing a very short robe. My eyes almost popped out! She offered me a glass of water and when she handed it to me she felt my bulge. Long story short that led to an amazing experience. When I finished went to the bathroom to wash my hands and hanging from the shower head was a red bag- I asked her what it was for and she proceeded to give herself an enema right there. I was hooked

Personally i like to be watched or watch the expulsion. However it really depends on what the couple whats. if the object is control or humiliation be there if not then in private.

I can take it or leave it. Since my Sh%$ don't stink everyone is invited to watch. Obviously MY opinion of the smell is not shared by most of the world, according to my bride.

But don't think for a moment she won't ease out one of her little deadly air biscuits and pull the covers over my head and laugh as I die a slow horrible death trapped in the sheets while she hollers PAY BACK!

Now I ask you, is that anyway for such a prim & proper lady to act?

Skybear

I really enjoy the sound of the expulsion if I have given an enema to someone, particularly if they are a little verbal about it. I like to be in the next room.

Expulsion attendance should be done when all parties are in agreement

The last time I was given an enema by someone, he had a bucket ready and I got on my hands and knees in his large tub (an extra treat since I currently do not have a bathtub of my own--just a stall shower).

One of my fantasies is to be fully erect and be blown (or fuck and ass of pussy even) while expelling. The time this seemed like a possibility there was a bit of a mental block I guess and couldn't quite get it up.

If the objective is humiliation or punishment then yes.

I want NO-ONE present in the same room when I am expelling!

I prefer to be alone when I expel, though I have had partners who stayed and listened, and once, in a game of truth or dare, had to expel with 7 friends in the room. I enjoy watching and listening when others expel, but will leave the room if they prefer.

I prefer to be alone.....unless the enema was a punishment enema then of course, the giver will be watching!!

I'm sorry, 7 friends were in the room when you expelled? That must be some bathroom. Two people in my bathroom is a crowd. Or did you expel in some other room? If other than the bathroom, in what did you expel? How many were present when you were given the enema?

I've never had anyone watch me expel but I have been in the room when a playmate was expelling since he was a sub and I wanted to up the humiliation factor.

Self-administered enemas are, by definition, a private affair, and for me the expulsion will usually be as private as the administration. I don't get any thrill from my own (private) expulsions, although it is always interesting to observe. I like to keep track of how 'loaded' each successive enema is, and how quickly it emerges. In fact, I usually expel into a measuring jug, so that I can see how clear (or not!) it is, and so that I can check how much of the inflow has actually emerged.

If I am administering an enema for a friend (or for an acquaintance who has contacted me through this or some other website) I will usually be clothed, while my friend/acquaintance will be totally naked. That is how I do it. I always insist that the enema recipient be totally subservient throughout the process, which of course means he/she will have no privacy during the expulsion. Occasionally I will walk away while expulsion is taking place. However, if there is no seriously unpleasant smell I will usually stay while the expulsion occurs.

Second and subsequent enemas seldom present any excessively unpleasant odours, so I will usually stay with my friend and caress his/her head while the expulsion takes place. If the blowjob scenario arises, I do of course let it happen!

I usually like to finish the session by blowing my completely-cleaned-out friend. I admit to being a bit of a cum-addict where men are concerned, but I do also love the challenge of providing multiple orgasms for the ladies!

[color=#333333]I visited a CT in Florida on occasion. He was my instructor for getting my license. He knew pretty quickly that I was in it more for the pleasure than the money. He was gay (I'm not) and had a steady cliental of guys coming for enemas. The bathroom was small and the door was removed. He said that on occasion someone would pass out and by observation he could prevent that from happening. (I think he just enjoyed the sight and the embarrassment of the patient.) [/color]

For me the embarrassment is the best part! Having my arse fully exposed when having the enema administered then being watched (or watching!).

With an Epsom Salt and soapsuds enema, especially an hour or so after taking bisacodyl tablets on an empty stomach, there is only ONE rule for expulsion. "Get it ALL in to the toilet!"

Hi LisaK, How fast do bisacodyl tablets work for you? I'v taken them on an empty stomach and waited six hours for any effect. Castor oil takes its time with me also, 5-6 hours to start. The only thing that seems to go faster is Citrate of Magnesia.

I love the intimacy of expelling with the partner in the room or being there while he expels. Any facade is removed and you are completely vulnerable as you expel the enema in that intimate setting.

Having someone watch me expel depends on whom I'm with. The girlfriend who first gave me enemas and to whom I gave enemas was totally into watching me. I enjoyed doing the same with her. I've been with women who were totally unselfconscious about defecating in front of me. For those who are less so, I am self conscious about expelling in front of them. Thus whether I feel comfortable depends on how the audience feels. As for

myself I find expulsion appealing. It is only the last act in a play which I enjoy a lot. A forceful expulsion is evidence of an intense enema! Unfortunately I'm playing solitaire these days.