Has anyone been examined by a parent?

Not overly sure how one goes about getting poison ivy to their crotch area but yeah that would certainly get me over any modesty issue as must have been horribly uncomfortable.

I have not been "examined" as such by a parent more quick look if I had a complaint before deciding to make dr appointment or not.

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Not overly sure how one goes about getting poison ivy to their crotch area but yeah that would certainly get me over any modesty issue as must have been horribly uncomfortable. . . . .

It's easy. You unknowingly get the poison ivy residue on your hands while taking off your pants, socks or shoes and while taking those clothes off, you touch yourself.

It truly happens all the time.

True, it's bit an issue or at least a common issue here as its bit native to uk I assumed if had it on your hands would notice very quickly.

Either way not something I would be in a hurry to experience 😢

My mother examined me for suspicions of phimosis. The first time she was with my aunt, who had had to get her son circumcised for that reason and reassured my mother that my foreskin, althought tight and hard to retract, was nowhere as tight as my cousin's.

My mom still followed up on the foreskin situation for some years, either asking me to retract it fully in front of her, either doing it herself. She had been really freaked out by what had happened to the cousin.

Apart from that, when I complained of tummy ache my mom would press on various points in the tummy to get an idea of the problem.

Not By My PArents But My Grandfather's Real Sister Also Can call Her My Other GrandMaa Examined Me When I was 12 Years Old. I was having cough & Cold . So She Ausculated my Chest I remember and My Mom , My Cousing Sister was in the room too 😢 Tooo Embarrasing for me

Molliewhite: A friend of mine was having pizza and he used the spicy pizza oil. Some of it ended on his fingers but he forgot about it. He then went peeing...

I hadn't been examined by a parent, but when i was a very young kid my maternal grandmother used to always come in the bathroom & wipe the tip of my penis with toilet paper when I was done peeing whenever I visited her. I started doing that on my own, and one time in our bathroom while i was peeing & my dad was shaving at the sink next to me, he looked over & told me to stop doing that. I told him grandma used to do that to me but he told me to stop anyway, i concluded that somebody, maybe me who knows, must have left drips in her bathroom 1 time or something. I'm wondering if anyone ever saw me walk out of her bathroom with an erection.....

I was in the same situation as CincyMetroEGiver. When I was 6 or 7 years old, I was camping and touched poison ivy as a child and then had to pee. My dad had to look at my genital area because I kept itching it. He took me to the doctors and everything was fine but it was embarrassing, even at 6 or 7, to have your dad look at your stuff.

My mom used to check my vagina for pubic hair development (early bloomer) when I was little. I have to sit on my bed with my legs spread nice and wide, as she'd check it out. Also, when I was around 3/4 my vagina used to get very dry so she used to rub olive oil on me.

After a surprise genital exam at the doctor when I was 11 or so, where he told my mother that since I was finally starting to show some very slight pubic hair development, I got a huge surprise where both my parents came into the bathroom after my bath about a month later. This was just as I was about to get out, and I'm pretty sure both of them knew that and used my to catch me off guard. They said they just needed to follow up on the doctors orders and see how I was growing. I was so mortified and I kept trying to cover up. I know I even started crying a little which made it all more embarrassing since I felt like a baby. They kept reassuring me that they just needed a quick peek for a minute and i could get dressed into my pajamas. So there I stood, dripping water on the bath mat and a arm held by my side by each of my parents as they both looked at my tiny patch of hair on my vulva. My mom even used her spare hand to spread it open for about 5 seconds to check if I had some on my inner part as well. She commented that she thought I had some more grown since the doctors exam a month prior. Both seemed satisfied with what they saw and I could finally get dressed. I still to this day hate that doctor for telling my parents to check me periodically.?

Yes, mom sometimes checked my testicles and my foreskin. I hated it ...

Your mom examined your genitals? Why? How old were you when she did that? Did your little peepee hurt? Sorry that was a joke.

In regards to Agracier's last statements:

It's true that many cultures have traditions that would make many of us cringe. This is especially true in regions where the prevailing attitudes aren't dominated by Judeo-Christian or conservative WASP values.

One thing that REALLY creeps me out are those father / daughter "purity balls" that Christian conservatives have cooked up in recent years. In an atmosphere reminiscent of a high school prom, females as old as 21 and as young as 7 ( ! ) publicly pledge to preserve their "purity" until marriage, appointing their fathers as "guardians" of their sexuality until daddy finds a young man that he deems worthy of his daughter's hand in marriage.

BARF!!!!!!

One thing that REALLY creeps me out are those father / daughter "purity balls" that Christian conservatives have cooked up in recent years. In an atmosphere reminiscent of a high school prom, females as old as 21 and as young as 7 ( ! ) publicly pledge to preserve their "purity" until marriage, appointing their fathers as "guardians" of their sexuality until daddy finds a young man that he deems worthy of his daughter's hand in marriage.

BARF!!!!!!

There's just something very disquieting about the whole concept. Seems like it promotes a very unhealthy sort of relationship between father and daughter, something on the verge of gross and obsessive. Because I'm quite sure that Daddy isn't really thinking much about his daughter's hand that's given away in marriage, but another part of her that becomes privileged access to the new husband and for which I dare say Daddy feels just a twinge of jealousy.

A very very dubious and suspicious going-on if you ask me ... not very healthy from a moral point of view.

I'm totally creeped out by it too. Daddy s little girl, eh? The ideas which are promulgated by the "moral " majority !

I know two guys who as high school boys let their dads (who were doctors) do their sports physicals. They were very comfortable with it. One kid said to me "why would I let a stranger examine me when my dad can do it".

No my parents have never examined me the only person i would let do that is my doctor i find it creepy if my parents wanted to examine me no way no how would i allow that to happen

I know two guys who as high school boys let their dads (who were doctors) do their sports physicals. They were very comfortable with it. One kid said to me "why would I let a stranger examine me when my dad can do it".

I think that this would be more acceptable considering they were guys. It'd be a little strange if they were gals, though.

I know this maybe a bit on a tangent, but I was re-watching 'the Pacific' for the umpteenth time and it was only this time that it struck me that one of the main characters in the series, Eugene Sledge from Mobile Alabama, gets examined by his father several times. Sledge wants to join up in the Marines after Pearl Harbor, but his father, doctor of internal medicine as described in the series, examines him and notes that his son has a heart murmur. So he refuses Sledge permission to join up, until he of course does so anyway.

We aren't shown much of the exam and are led to assume it was only to ascertain Sledge's heart condition, but then again the series is about the war in the Pacific, not anything to do with medical stuff ...

Still, it was an interesting thing to note.

That article was a fund of misinformation and also misspellings. What a lot of crap!

I think it would be extremely strange and uncomfortable to be examined by a parent. I wouldn't even enjoy being examined by an acquaintance, like a friend or neighbor. For me it would be very strange to be examined by someone you know and then have to be around them the rest of the time knowing that they've seen you and possibly touched you intimately.

I think it would be extremely strange and uncomfortable to be examined by a parent. I wouldn't even enjoy being examined by an acquaintance, like a friend or neighbor. For me it would be very strange to be examined by someone you know and then have to be around them the rest of the time knowing that they've seen you and possibly touched you intimately.

Absolutely, it was.

I've availed myself of the free services of a friend who was a physician, but only for more mundane things - sore throat, ingrown toenail - never anything intimate. I enjoy the distance maintained by a purely professional relationship.

No, thank gosh :/

Though, this would be a fun scenario to roleplay

My dad examined my crotch, including spreading me open, to check the extent of injuries from hard playing and also from poison ivy, and I did not mind at all because it was better than going to a strange doctor.

Amy K why would you have your dad examine you and not your mother?? I find that quite strange and weird indeed and kinda freaky at the same time?

My mother worked for a dentist and regularly checked my teeth.

She also had to apply medications inside of my labia when I was very young due to a bad accident that left me with a very large cut in an area that couldn't get stitches.

She regularly examined the area to check for healing or infection.

Got to ask what you mean by hard playing??

I do recall many years ago when my eldest had an accident and had what i think they call a straddle injury. Ended up with a very horrible bruse between legs and she was the same didn't want to see a strange Dr. Waited couple days to get appointment with out regular Dr

Yes!

My mom would often examine me, usually right after bath time.

The most memorable exam by mom came when my cousin and I had returned from summer camp. I was eight years old at the time, and my cousin David was seven.

Mom had us both bathe (we had grown up together) and when finished bathing, she came into the bathroom to inspect us both. She was most concerned about insect bites, and the possibility of ticks, and even head lice.

She gave us each a brief look-over, front and back, from top to bottom, the both of us standing naked in front of her.

I remember vividly that she actually lifted his penis and scrotum looking for ticks! That is something I will never forget.

We were both pronounced to be clean and vermin free. 😃

As I said, I will NEVER forget that exam, and I'm pretty sure that David hasn't forgotten it either. 😉

C.

Never for me.

"It seems this is quite normal for some cultures, according the instructions of DR.suchitra in her blog:"“A guide to teenagers parents” - A mothers role.

"http://psychologyofteenboys.blogspot.com/2007/03/mothers-role.html

The article had some interesting points and some weird ones as well. I don't know if it would appropriate for a parent to show their son or daughter how to masturbate although some families do engage in incestuous relationships but the vast majority of families do not!

However I do believe there are certain things parents need to teach their children when talking about bathing such as anal and genital cleanliness. Daughters should learn how to use a douche to help out when she has her period and sons should be taught how to properly clean his penis and testicles, especially if he's uncircumcised. When a foreskin is not pulled back to clean the glans there's a lot of bacteria that can build up which could cause problems in the future. I've heard that circumcision became popular in America to help prevent masturbation, probably because they felt there wasn't a need to show a boy how to pull back his foreskin and that way he wouldn't become aroused. Guess what, a boy's going to discover masturbation no matter what! I suppose there are some parents who fear their son might become aroused when being taught how to clean under his foreskin but the parent should understand that a young man becoming aroused is completely normal and is nothing to be embarrassed about.

Also it helps if parents are open when talking with their children regarding sexuality. What if a family never talked about sex and then a teenager has a sexual experience with someone and ends up getting a rash or some STD, if they're not open about discussing sexuality then the teen might be too embarrassed to tell his/her parents that they need to see the doctor and their situation could become much worse.

One thing I found interesting in the article was when it talks about masturbation helping to relieve violent behavior, I don't know about violence but I do know that typically if a male ejaculates and has an orgasm it takes away some of his sexual tensions. I know that's the case with me, if I haven't ejaculated in awhile I feel like I'm always thinking about sex but if I have an orgasm I tend not to think as many sexual thoughts as often. I think I first became aware of that when I saw the movie 'There's Something About Mary' where Ben Stiller's character masturbates before going on a date with Mary and she thinks he has gel in his hair but it was actually his semen. After watching that clip it gave me the idea to masturbate before hanging out with people I was attracted to and I think it did help relieve some of my sexual tension.

And then there's another topic, the sexual scandals of Catholic priests and choir boys, I know it's quite a leap from the article but I just wanted to put it out there. I think priests should be allowed to marry and be able to have a healthy sex life. We are all sexual beings and when you deny a person to enjoy their sexuality with others bad things happen from child molestation to rape. Look at prison rape for example, I've heard some people ask why are there more homosexuals in prison than heterosexuals, I think they're trying to claim that homosexuality is evil but they miss the point. When you put only males or only females together people are going to try to fill their sexual needs, it doesn't mean that they're homosexual but it's their only sexual outlet besides masturbation. Although prisoners sometimes can have conjugal visits from a spouse and that was probably started to help reduce the amount of rapes in prisons I would imagine.