How Do You Like Your Anal Sex... Pleasure or Pain

I like a little bit of both. Just enough to feel whats happening and making sure I get the prostate stimulation that I need and enjoy. The six inch long two inch wide seven speed vibrator makes it all happen.

It depends on the day. Some times I want it rough and without much prep, other times I need to be warmed up to it and it has to be gentle, and then other days I want nothing put up my bottom what so ever.

I like it smooth and well lubricated.

Vigorously rough and forceful is ok as long as it's smooth and slippery.

There's no fucking a dry hole in our house!

I like it nice and gentle because my husband always just does it like that and I feel well plugged. I do not think I would like it rough so I have never asked him.

As a guy who has been happily penetrated by a few women in my life, fingers, tongues, plugs, thermometers, strapons, I am in favor of good lubrication always. And I have always been sure to carefully, slowly prepare the bottom holes of my partners over the years.

In fact to me the penetration is really the 2nd half of a long intimate session, where caressing, rimming, fingering, and lubing are the long wonderful first half.

The only time I did it without lube was as a punishment. She hated it until the next morning when she said she loved it.

I like the mix of pleasure and pain :-). We will usually start off slow and finish hard, the harder the better. But every now and then I like to start hard and fast right off, plenty of lube but no easing in. The sting is nice :-)

Anal sex should not cause any pain! Pain is always an indicator that you might have gone too far!

I had received anal sex a few times and really enjoyed it with my friend. One day we tried it differently. My friend lay on his back and I lowered myself onto his cock facing him. This allowed him to play with my cock as he was inside me. I felt him throb as he shot in me and I came on his chest, The next time we switched positions .

Haven't had nearly enough experiences, either giving or receiving, but I have to say that whether I am giving anal play or getting fingers or toys (hopefully moves to a strapon!) I'm firmly in the pleasure camp.

If I want pain in that region for any reason (hopefully fun) there's always spanking.

I'm a pleasure girl. Anal dilation prior to anal sex is what I like. And, the dilation can be a great deal of sexy fun. My husband uses graduated glass dildos on me. Small at the beginning, then when my anal muscles begin to loosen the dilation becomes much easier and exciting. Some times he will use his fingers. One, two and then three. When I'm dilated to a certain point my anal muscles give way and open up. That's the time for "Big Boy" to enter the fun! We have enjoyed anal sex for over 40 years now. My sweet little rose bud is not worn out yet! Anal sex is my favorite. Orgasms are out of this world!

25% of my (thus far) anal sex partners liked it rough. I was somewhat caught off guard the first time we did it when she said, “Just shove it in!” As I as slowly attempting penetration.

I recently came across a short video clip of an anal sex scene from several years ago. Her moans and grunts were quite emphatic even though I was going slow, so I would say that some level of stress is enjoyed during backdoor play. The orgasm was another clue, too.

My wife liked anal sex hard - but only after lots of anal play to relax her. I always eased in to start and built momentum. I could read her cues as to when to go harder.

My wife liked anal sex hard - but only after lots of anal play to relax her. I always eased in to start and built momentum. I could read her cues as to when to go harder.

Exactly ……….. start out slow and tender, rimming, massage, LOTS of lube and then slide in slow, and build up depth and speed. When she is near cumming, she loves it deep and hard and some pain ……. then she explodes !!!!

Anal sex to me is ALL about the erotic, pleasurable feelings derived from having all the nerve endings stimulated in my anus to achieve a new level of sexual enjoyment. That would mean I'm on the "pleasureable, erotic, sensual" side of the anal sex club.