Foreplay before enema?

Back in my traveling days, my gal-pal and I would begin our activities by showering together. A slow, deep anal probing with a soapy finger along with kisses and whispers of a warm slow enema was all that was necessary.

Sweet Julie........ I couldn't agree with you more. For me, the enema IS the foreplay...... it is the preparation for lovemaking that lovers give to each other.

My wife would tell me to get on the bed, head down, butt up, om my knees and she would pick a dildo and loosen up my hole. With the full enema bag hanging on the pole, she would insert the douche nozzle and start the flow. She would quickly climb in bed with me and I would fondle and finger her anally and vaginally to orgasms while filling. Wonderful foreplay, enema and sex. We both came to a happy conclusion.

Just the knowledge that you are about to participate in an enema session can be very erotic. Once your partner agrees that they are in need of an enema, foreplay has begun. After crossing that line, there is no going back. Kissing and intimate touching only intensify the emotions and build to a point where your partner demands it is time to fetch the enema equipment, fill the bag with warm water and return to their side.

Love oral stimulation up to the point of orgasm. then stop and finish the enema, then great sex

Haha, the enema IS the foreplay....

One of my favorites is to have the equipment out and visible -- either hanging in the bathroom, or if meeting someone at a hotel - we sit in the lobby for a bit and chat, knowing what is coming -- when we get to the room (usually mine) - the look and gasp of seeing the big red bag there on the bed with all the "trimmings" is very erotic -- taking the bag, and her hand and leading into the bathroom where she sits and watches me fill and prepare -- when it is done - there is this awesome awkward silence - me holding the full bag and she still fully clothed watching -- and the transition to naked and being lubed and prepared ... great fun!

Isn't the preparation the foreplay before an enema? For me, it is...

Inasmuch as enemas serve a variety of functions, I suppose that one must consider the intended outcome.

In a solo or self administered scenario, the enema is usually the foreplay and the preparation may well enhance the process. The anal/prostate stimulation certainly moves us guys toward the ultimate outcum.

If one has an enthusiastic partner, various scenarios seem to enhance the enema experience. Some like the punishment aspect and may include some type of correction such as scolding, spanking, corner time, etc. Some prefer the inclusion of a degree of dominance or submissiveness. The role play may well be the foreplay.

I happen to prefer a couple of more tame, but sensual nonetheless, role play scenarios. They may lean a bit toward some MedFet situations. The foreplay may well include some more traditional types of activities to get both warmed up a bit.

I enjoy playing the role of a doctor or therapist who may inquire as to the circumstances that brought the client/patient to me. In this interview, I may suggest some therapeutic procedures to further evaluate symptoms and appropriate treatments. Discussing these treatments and asking about experiences often begins to get the juices flowing and setting a mood. Preparation can be good foreplay. I might examine a variety of areas and manipulate various erogenous zones in an effort to enhance the stimulation.

It is my experience that enemas are far more enjoyable if one is already buzzing and there is a level of stimulation. This is especially true for anal penetration. Thermometers, fingers, speculums, or other anal toys, may well be enjoyable.

A shared bath, perhaps with bubbles, or a massage are certainly wonderful ways to enhance the mood. Whether the enema is the ultimate sexual act, or whether masturbation, oral, or intercourse finishes off the interlude are certainly desirable outcums. The beauty is that there isn't just one way to assure a happy ending to this simple procedure and pleasure.

Enemas are foreplay, but anal stimulation while preparing your partner or yourself for an enema is always nice...

Try inserting an old straight adult enema nozzle and keep it there a while. I find that this produces contractions that are quite arousing.

The most earth shattering orgasms I've had in my life were doing conventional sex with the enema flowing into me at the same time. And yes, filling the bag, lubing the nozzle and hanging it next to the bed, set me on fire sexually. Then she would grab a finger full of Vaseline and insert it in me before we began. I went out of my mind by the time the vaginal nozzle was inserted.

Just talking about it and anticipating my partner lubing me up is foreplay! Putting an enema night on the calendar days in advance is highly stimulating.

Hearing the enema being prepared, feeling my rectum being lubed, insertion the click feeling the hot soapy water entering are all foreplay to me!

Have always looked forward to those exciting (and somewhat nervous) moments when my partner and I (anticipating the magic of the anal erotic play, enemas, suppositories, toys and sex we will be sharing) embrace, touch, undress, caress and kiss each other tenderly. This increases the desire to be entered deeply and filled totally by each other. The passion mounts as we engage in ever increasing degrees of intimacy and all consuming mutual pleasure.

Just the opposite, I often use enemas AS FOREPLAY to excite masturbation or role-play scene with a partner.

Most times foreplay for me before an enema is to come into zity and chat with others who enjoy them to. Soon after that im sometimes filling. Sometimes i just enjoy the chat and skip the enema.

We like to threaten for days pretending fear of being taken advantage of saying, "Oh no you don't!" or "Oh no Mr Bill!" or "Keep it up and I'm going to give you a belly buster." or "Leave my butt out of it." or "I'm going to pump you full and leave you hanging." but "Last time you did that, I nearly shit the bed, so NO!" This may even go on for more than a week till she is ripe and needy of special attention.

A relaxing, sensual, probing massage in just the right places, with a bulging enema bag waiting overhead and lubricant on the nightstand, sends me into foreplay heaven. Loving partner with patience a must. I trained him well . 😃)

Nice Vicki. Suppos good prep too

Well sitting on the bed waiting for my nurse....full bag hanging on the hook, and then here she is, standing in front of me and her breasts are just a mouthful away. Gee, whats to do? Oh well, WTFOver.

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A nice massage in a candle lit room is great. However being taken by the hand and lead into the bedroom where I am slowly undressed and then to the bathroom where I am stood in front of the bath tub and bent over for a serious lubing of my ass, then told to sit on the closed toilet lid while watching the enema being prepared is very hard to beat.

I enjoy being on this forum and chat That sometimes is enough foreplay for me to trigger I need an enema response

Rim jobs to lube and relax anus

Certainly chat on Zity promotes those urges towards eneplay. Several ladies here are very nice, really pleasure oriented, and open to most any chat on their enema preferences. Quite a few men are also very descriptive of their pleasures. Fantasy and mental images get charged, and before you know it it is playtime. For me, the sight of a bag or bulb gets me compulsive and from there it's all on autopilot.

Love sharing a warm shower to cleanse the outsides first...

With my second wife (the kinky one), the enema was a big part "of" the foreplay. We would normally both either already be mostly undressed or we would undress together, then I would place a blindfold over her eyes, a gag in her mouth, then put her arms into some form of a restraint system (armbinder, collar and cuffs, etc.), and make her stand in the corner or someplace where she could hear everything that I was preparing. Next came the administration of the enema. Now this could have been in one or more of several positions, i.e. standing, across my knees, bent over a piece of furniture, or whatever. I would normally give her about two quarts of warm water and then make her hold it in place with a butt plug. At this point, I would just have a little fun with her . . . . maybe a spanking . . . or some tickling . . . or on those rare occasions make her just stand there and squirm for a while as the enema worked its magic. Then when I thought she was about to loose it, I would escort her over to the commode, pull the plug, and sit her down so she could relieve herself. Of course her hands were still bound so her movements were quite limited at this point. When I felt that she had released the bulk of the material filling her colon, I would let one hand free so she could wipe herself and flush the toilet. Next we would proceed to the bedroom, and with her still bound (and the freed hand re-bound), gagged, and blindfolded, I would have sex with her until both she and I achieved our respective orgasms. We would normally just lay there together for a short while until I released her restraints and she was free to move around on her own untethered. I used to get so hot (and hard) giving her the enema that it was sometimes difficult to not jump her right then and there well before we made it into the bedroom. Oh, for the good ole days, I do so miss them, and her!

If the enema is for preparing for anal sex, then it is foreplay.... and often is followed by a little spanking for "perversity".

I personally think an enema is a wonderful foreplay instrument. One the best things to arouse me is for the female to do is to have me watch her filling the bag, put it on a hanger, then ask me if i am ready for my enema is HOT1 But the best for me is to have her insert the colon tube or nozzle (I prefer the douche nozzle) into my ass and “FUCKS” me with it, sliding in and out, slower at first and the faster later. Then the full feeling after the enema bag is empty is hot too. She told me once “I just fucked you and it looks like you are already pregnant."

A good hard spanking