Foreplay before enema?

What kind of foreplay to you have before you give or receive an enema?

I do the whole medical thing before giving the enema. Height,weight,exam rectal temp and then the enema. What a feeling

Best for me is having a conversation with the woman who will be receiving my enema care. Coaxing, cajoling, slow preparation and observing her reaction. Of course it works in reverse too. I like her to be caring and rather maternal.

My enemas are all solo, The initial foreplay is more mental, and follows this kind of process:: First, thinking forward and mentally planning what kind of enema session it will be. Then, when I'm alone in the house, I make sure any distractions are minimized--turn off the phone and make sure I won't be surprised or interrupted. I am usually somewhat aroused at this point.

Then I begin assembling the equipment in the bathroom and lay out a towel to lie on in the bedroom. As I begin choosing the nozzle and lubricant, I strip to my underwear, and begin admiring myself in the large bathroom mirror. Usually I am already quite erect and the visuals are quite stimulating, and I am extremely horny and excited about what is soon to happen.

Depending on my mood I may begin some self-petting but I try not to get too carried away too quickly.

This kind of teasing foreplay continues through at least the first third of an enema, and I try not to ejaculate until I've taken all of the enema, in fact ususally not until after the first strong urge to expell the enema subsides. This is usually 2 to 5 minutes after I've received the entirety of the enema.

Of course, this doesn't always work, and there are times when I experience an uncontrollable and powerful climax only two thirds of the way through the enema. In this case, after I regain my composure I will try to finish the enema, but usually the moment has passed and I simply head for the toilet and enjoy the feelings and emotions of expelling.

When I'm alone, I think about what I might do. I pinch my nipples, and often end up using nipple clamps before I go into the bathroom to fill the bag up. This usually results in me being dripping wet even before I start, my slippery juices are often running down my inner thigh. In the tub, if I'm trying to take a large enema, I'll twist the nipple clamps for more pain, to help me take it in.

I'm in a poly relationship: my wife likes all the usual suspects; my gf/sub likes a bare-handed spanking.

Don't know if you'd classify this foreplay, during play, or just playtime.

Two of my gal-pals were enema enthusiasts who loved slow preparation, slower administration, and tender caring during the events.

Both enjoyed the gentle and thorough application of either KY jelly or petroleum jelly ... touching the absolutely right areas was so important.

Then the enema bag was placed about a foot above each, so the liquid took many long and enjoyable minutes to enter. One loved a full body massage while receiving her enema, the other simply wanted me to carress her buttocks and legs ... in both cases, I was the winner, although we disagreed on who got the most pleasure when she received.

When we switched roles, it was the same ... slow and easy. One of the gals was a petite, 98-pound bundle of energy who loved to "ride the cowboy" as I received, while the other one just played to her heart's content. Again, everyone won.

All of mine are solo so a lot of times I start by reading an e story. As I get into it , I'll set up my equipment , fill the bag and hang the bag on a hook. I'll slowly insert the nozzle after i've greasrd myself,partially close the clamp for a real slow flow and play with myself and my nipples until the bag is almost empty and I'm ready to cum. Normally I can hold off until the bag is empty. Some times I have to take 2 before I can cum.

I am very fortunate in that I have someone that gives me a whole body massage, some prostate stimulation and then a very "clinical" enema.

MIND BLOWING experience !

Rob

London

I was trying to figure out what I do that would be considered foreplay to sub before he gets an enema. The most predominant thing I remembered is just telling him in the morning what he will or can expect that evening. Mostly the high point details so as not to spoil the whole experience for him.

I consider the knowing he's going to get an enema the foreplay for him. Even if he isn't suspecting that an enema is going to happen, he'll figure it out when I enter the bedroom with the large Tupperware pitcher with nice warm water in it(since the daughter caught me filling the bag one night the pitcher is more discreet to fill). I sit it down in the bedroom and go get the bag and hoses out. Sub is pretty quick to figure out his bums on the line.

Usually I don't plan an enema. They just happen because 1) I'm in the mood to do one(with sex of course), 2) The timing is good(kids are a sleep, the bedroom is not too cold, or neither of us is too tired) or 3) it's just time that sub had a good cleaning out.

Just giving or getting for us is foreplay. The taking of it,the holding it. Talking about hot it feels. Its all good

Drawing small circles around the anal corona with the tip of the nozzle,just prior to insertion, or letting a little solution squirt against the anus and dribble down the cleft of the fanny. Perhaps a lengthy session lubing the anus with my finger. Otk spanking, to awaken the nerve endings of the sub. Intimidation, a little discomfort,apprehension, all work as mental foreplay as well.

For me the enema IS a form of foreplay. The prepping of the nozzle, the filling of the bag, the insertion of the nozzle, and even the control of the water flow just adds a bit to the experience. Step by step by step.

An enema can be a part of the foreplay process. Where they fit in, beginning, middle or end, or not at all is a call that sort of has to be made on the fly, depending on how you feel, and how your partner reacts. Good foreplay is not "programmed."

Anal probing and lubrication along with nipple stimulation is effective for me

I so agree with soapytim and many others on this topic. I to am usually solo and the whole process, mental first of reving yourseelf up for a good session, picking the equipment fir the day, what hoses, what bags, what nozzles, what solutions. Then setting up the whole scene, laying the bags out neatly, creating the solutions, making sure evrything is just right. Heck, this takes easily an hour and the thoughts and visions of wet red rubber bags hanging all bulged up is the best mind f---. A lot of nipple tweeking, cockrings and then the real fun starts...It's one stop shopping: some serious foreplay, the s-- act for a few hours then an amazing climax! What could be better? How many out there are into solo scenes like me...I'd love to exchange notes...

I have gave subs of mine all kinds of foreplay before an enema , such as flogging , fisting the vagina with arubber glove on , an nipple clamps

Read estories, butt plugs, watch videos of some one receiving one

Giving her oral until she wants a finger upin her bum then after slide the nozzle home and let her flow and suck her clit till she pops

I recently received a very deep massage, followed by a light sensual massage from Sue. I knew that an enema wasn't far away when she began to lightly caress my anus with her finger.

She warmed me further by inserting first one finger and then another while she slid her free hand under me to stroke my clit and caress my vaginal area both inside and out.

With both girls and guys, oral sex,dildoes in their butts, deep kissin, licking

And all this time I thought the enema was the foreplay. 😃

For me, the lubrication is the best bit. Done slowly, building up the anticipation of what's to come...

I start by reading an enema story and watch a video of enemas. I go on-line and chat in a room and ask what kind I should tale. Most of them want me to do it on web cam and tell me what to do.

My foreplay is mostly from reading the Forum posts. That usually gets my rear end hungry for some filling.

I like to chat online when I'm ready for my bag. Sometimes something interesting comes up.

My mother started me on enemas when I was under 3 years. I always felt it was pleasant.

This was not accidental. my Mom would tell me that she was going to lube me just like the nurse

at the hospital. She would have me on my back and cup my little dick and balls around the base,

lift up on them and start applying lube to my anus, then working her finger in and out slowly, and

would gently massage my prostate though I didn't know what it was that felt so good and would have

an erection with her warm hand squeezing and relaxing on my genitals. I thought it wonderful and odd.

I asked her what that was that felt so good inside of me and she just said "That's normal."

My Aunts were into giving and receiving enemas and would come by to "help" Mom when she told them I was getting an enema. Thay would ask me if I was afraid and told them no, I enjoy them. They just cooed and rubbed my butt while they readied me and would sometimes just start the enema without my Mom. They all wore dresses and would

take them off in case I had an accident.

While they were squatting end taking turns lubing me and sqeezing my equipment, I noticed that they had

had a big wet spot on their panties. I thought they had peed themseves.

By 11 years old, I started having orgasms in these sessions.

I enjoy my pussy being played with before I get an enema.

I like to play with my wife to get her into a sexual mood. Otherwise she treats the enema in a medical way. She still likes the boner that comes after, but the enema is better when she's in the right mood.

I'm with HappyGal. Just the anticipation is enough to get my motor humming. Slow and thoughtful is best, taking time to prepare everything right.