Foreplay before enema?

Seeing the bag, assembling the hose and nozzle, running the water, and filling the bag all contribute and are a form of foreplay. A delicious part is inserting the nozzle and those few precious seconds before snapping open the clamp. That anticipation is priceless and I'm getting wet just thinking about it.

You're getting me wet just reading your post Emom!!!!!!!! 😜

On the few occasions that I have had to enjoy erotic enemas with a female partner, our foreplay has centered around oral stimulation, completely arousing both partners in anticipation of the insertion of the nozzle and flow of the enema.

Preparation of enema sometimes aroused me more than administration. I get hard even seeing enema bag or can is being taken for further use. Then all rituals with placing me in a right position make me feeling excited.

I have to agree that the preparation of the enema is often the most exciting part.

Seeing my red rubber hot water bottle hanging in my bathroom waiting to be filled gets me excited and then taking down the bag and filling it slowly, watching the sides of the bag swell gets me even more excited every time! Attaching the hose and slowly inserting the well lubed nozzle then unclamping the hose then I am in enema heaven!

Years ago I had a nurse friend who was 15 years older and loved to give me enemas. She would start by rubbing me with warm oil and then inserting a finger in my bum all the while asking me do you want an enema? After about 5 minutes of this I was more than ready.

My boyfriend at that time would put ky on two to three fingers and start sliding into my rectal, which i found very sexy. I was ready for my enema then.Enjoyed the enema even more so.

"Years ago I had a nurse friend who was 15 years older and loved to give me enemas. She would start by rubbing me with warm oil and then inserting a finger in my bum all the while asking me do you want an enema? After about 5 minutes of this I was more than ready."

- Gusher

Oh, I would have found this highly arousing if I had been in your place!!! Especially because she's the older one. I usually like to be the dominant. But if she had that much age on me, I probably would have felt very childish & embarrassed with such treatment & would have accepted my fate.... Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!! I would feel very naughty in such a situation & probably need a sound spanking prior to the enema 😢

I prefer to give the lady a bit of oral sex and some cuddling before I give her an enema.

Hi all,

I know that for those of us who have the good luck to have a partner for enema/suppository play, that play is often a foreplay before having sex. But I would be curious to know what people do BEFORE that kind of play, or in other words, which is your foreplay before giving or being given an enema/suppository, if any.

Enemas CAN play a role in rough foreplay. Sometimes my husband gets aroused by giving me an enema.

Thanks Lisa, I can certainly understand why that happens ;-)

My question though is more about what you do before starting the enema: do you cuddle, or just talk, do you do anything before taking the enema bulb/bag out? Or is that just the start of your fun?

The foreplay that I love to have before an enema is all mental. I get so aroused when I am told that I have been a very bad girl and in need of a fitting punishment. A spanking is a must and then an anal inspection to see if I am in need of a good cleansing. After this I am putty in their hands!

We start off with some oral and toys licking and working toys wich leads up to water injection and butt plug and then getting us both off

I always started enema play with my husband by lubricating his anus and rectum and getting him to relax his sphincter. This required taking my time so he was lubricated properly, inside and out. It's surprising how much time can be spent in preparation, every part of it foreplay for the actual enema. Which in turn is foreplay for the anal sex which comes afterwards. Come to think of it, the foreplay can go on and on until spontaneous combustion occurs. Hence the term "flaming asshole".

Enema for me is generally the foreplay... but often I'm giving myself an enema, so it's also the main event.

My enema partner and I play different scenarios. One is we come home from work. We usually start out in the kitchen with a drink and where I complain about my stressful day. He explains that he has a great way to relieve my stress. I get a pat on the butt and I know what's coming. We go into the bedroom and I go into the bathroom to freshen up and come out and find him laying naked on the bed masterbating. That leads to a lot of kissing, touching which eventually leads to anal sex. Afterwards we prepare for our enemas. A warm soap suds enema followed by a saline enema is a great way to relieve a stressful day. Positions vary for me.....sometimes on my back, sometimes over his lap but my favorite position is on all fours. This gives him access to my nipples and clit while he is filling me up. Guess it depends upon our moods.

Delightful to finally find out the origin of "flaming asshole"!!!

I suppose several in proximity get to the nuclear state of "critical ass".

There's something about the use of 420 in the preliminary stages of an upcoming "E" session. It heightens the experience all around and makes for a more enjoyable time all around.

Just simply tantalizing my scrotum and anus.

What is "420" Perspectives?

I'll answer for him.. 420 is a reference to pot, weed, marijuana.. I don't know how it started but April 20 has become National Pot Smokers Day. 😃 Somebody told me that they thought that one should smoke joint everyday at 4:20 but good luck with being able to do that.

Grace, I heard it said that college students usually had a little time before going to the evening meal at which time they would get together to share a little weed. The time was generally 4:20 or so. Hence the name.

^^^^ Yes, that is the original myth. Is it true? No one knows for sure. THAT'S WHY IT'S A MYTH!!! SINCE ABOUT 1971

I may be wrong but I have always been under the impression 420 had to do with the police code for public intoxication much like how 187 is slang for murder and 211 for robbery although this isn't often known of its origin because the codes are not the same almost anywhere.

To throw in my on topic 2 cents here Enema foreplay in my mind is most importantly there, in my mind and its more about anticipation than anything else. Knowing in advance is the ultimate arousal and can be played so fun depending on the creativity of your partner. A spanking and teasing, having to bend over for a thermometer and a good long thorough lubrication are great physical foreplay but a really descriptive threat can have my mind excited for some time and this is where the fun is. I like to hear Hot or cold, big, soapy 😳 "You are going to cramp and squirm and deserve it" or "Well you have to take it all and we probably will be repeating this regardless if you like it or not cause its good for you. Now get the bag and soap the water is already running and you are going to sit and watch as I prepare it for you" 😞 :-\\ 😄

"Well you have to take it all and we probably will be repeating this regardless if you like it or not cause its good for you. Now get the bag and soap the water is already running and you are going to sit and watch as I prepare it for you"

Sounds like my mother and later my ex lol

I think enema foreplay begins with the mental aspect. If I am going to see my partner this evening I might call her and tell her that tonight I am in an anal mood so when I get there I am going to have examine her anus to make sure it is clean for anal penetration. I tell her that I am going to have to give her an enema or two. I will also tell her to be ready when I get home by being bottomless at first on the bed on her knees with her cute ass high and face down. I tell her to leave the door unlocked and to have the first bag full with very warm soapy water laying on the bed next to her with towel and lube. Then of course when I arrive I spread her behind and inspect her while making her hold herself open for me. Then I take forever to lube her both inside and out. I tease her by pressing on her anus making her think I am about to penetrate but don't. Then when ready I insert the nozzle but use it as a dildo at first to get her turned on since she is very anal erotic. I make her take her top off so she is totally nude. I feel this creates more of a submissive vulnerable mood for her. A very important part of the foreplay is what I say along the way. I tease her and lightly threaten her if she is a bad girl. etc much encouragement and finally the key words "Ok honey are you ready for your first enema? Take a deep breath and try to relax for me. Here come the nozzle." The rest you all know.

I like giving or taking the enema while getting or giving oral stimulation a great form of Foreplay in its self. Some would not like to put their face neat the anus while their partner is filling but that has never stopped me. Anyone know of a thread having to do with Oral While Taking an Enema ?

I like hugging, touching, kissing, finger probing of anus before the enema.