HETEROSEXUALS ONLY-- Would you give and receive PLAY enemas from same sex

I am in no way a homophobe, and in fact have gay friends and family members who are part of the LGBT group, however, when it comes to anything involving nudity, or sexual in nature, my proclivities are strictly with females. What these folks do with like-minded adults is strictly up to them, and of no concern to me.

Yes, but it would have to be a good, trusted friend.

If homoflexible is mostly gay, but would consider a heterosexual encounter, then what's the opposite of that?

Is there a label for a straight person who would consider a homo encounter under the right circumstances? Or is that just encompassed by terminology like "questioning?"

If homoflexible is mostly gay, but would consider a heterosexual encounter, then what's the opposite of that?

Is there a label for a straight person who would consider a homo encounter under the right circumstances? Or is that just encompassed by terminology like "questioning?"

Yeah that is called "heteroflexible". It is to be not quite straight.

Yeah that is called "heteroflexible". It is to be not quite straight.

YUP, a person like that would be ME!

98-99% of my sexual activity is with my husband. I see two incredibly accomplished women once or twice a year. My husband knows and is comfortable with the situation. Neither woman and I ever had a threesome with my husband and the two women and I never had a threesome.

Sigh.....let me jump into the fray. Yes, I am heterosexual and had one encounter about 40 years ago when a guy gave mea blowjob. So here I am, many years later, retired and married to a wife who has made it clear that she wants nothing to do with sex. Add to that the fact that my age (72) and diabetes had gifted me with ED! No erection, no ejaculation and no orgasm. All that adds up to a massive case of sexual frustration.

So I discover this site and start entertaining the possibility of enema play with another man. If anything, it would offer a release of my frustration. Could I do it? I really think I could and enjoy it. Only time will tell if there is a chasm between reality and fantasy.

No i wouldnt

Nope I would only let females do that

The title and the question are different, to start with. The title is "give and receive ... from" the question is "would you be willing to just play together but not actually "on" each other?"

The answer to both would be "not quite sure". This isn't a red-button recoil situation, those would involve my genitals being stimulated by someone of the same sex, someone of the same sex penetrating me with genitals, or kissing someone of the same sex in a sexual way. Taking enemas in the presence of another man, or even giving and receiving enemas, is something that I'm not sure about. I could recoil in horror, or I could be OK with it. Right now I'm definitely not rushing off to find out.

The title and the question are different, to start with. The title is "give and receive ... from" the question is "would you be willing to just play together but not actually "on" each other?"

The answer to both would be "not quite sure". This isn't a red-button recoil situation, those would involve my genitals being stimulated by someone of the same sex, someone of the same sex penetrating me with genitals, or kissing someone of the same sex in a sexual way. Taking enemas in the presence of another man, or even giving and receiving enemas, is something that I'm not sure about. I could recoil in horror, or I could be OK with it. Right now I'm definitely not rushing off to find out.

They are VERY SLIGHTLY different but in the same ballpark. Would you do enemas to yourself side by side with your male friend giving one to himself?

I expect 99% of the HETEROSEXUAL / STRAIGHT men would say NO.

I have played with a woman before in the past because we both had a medical fetish. It just wasn't for me. I LOVE men way to much.

Mashie

They are VERY SLIGHTLY different but in the same ballpark. Would you do enemas to yourself side by side with your male friend giving one to himself?

Yeah, same ballpark - but if I had to choose one or the other, no getting out of it, no last minute showing up of the marines to rescue us, there's enough of a difference I'd go with the "side-by-side each of us giving to ourselves" over giving to or getting from someone else, and I'd choose that over having to do more involved sexual activities with another man.

I'm still not lining up to do either, so I guess it's more of a mental exercise.

Edit - I guess in a forced situation it woudn't really be play, so that moots the initial question.

They are VERY SLIGHTLY different but in the same ballpark. Would you do enemas to yourself side by side with your male friend giving one to himself?

I expect 99% of the HETEROSEXUAL / STRAIGHT men would say NO.

Allow me to heterosexually confirm your thought.

NO, no way, no how. Period. I'd rather go alone - better fantasies to go with it, too.

As an example, I was in a threesome twice many years ago with a very nice hetero married professional couple (dentists). They wanted me to do a medfet exam and enema on and then vigorously fuck the wife while the sub husband had to watch. We all enjoyed it but after a while the husband started to want physical intimate contact with me while I did the wife, so I didn't see them anymore. I was actually somewhat uncomfortable being naked in the room with the other man there, but his need for contact with me was what ended it. No offense to him or anyone else, but it was just me being too firmly male heterosexual to enjoy anyone but a woman.

Eric

HETEROSEXUALS ONLY

If you met another person of the same sex and found out that you both had the same interstes in enemas, anal insertion, medical play or what ever, would you be willing to just play together but not actually "on" each other?

Nope.

Nope

I've been thinking more about what I would and would not feel comfortable with, really from anyone other than my wife rather than only from another man.

I think I might be OK with coaching over the phone or Skype (audio I think), probably either way but I was originally thinking in terms of having someone talk me through one of the more powerful enemas to see how the experience was different. I could return the favor here, but it probably wouldn't be very sexual either way.

The other thing that might tempt me would be someone who really knew what they were doing showing me how to use a colon tube. The focus here would be on learning the skill with no genital contact, so I don't know if that would count as play or not. It could go either way (M or F), but I imagine that there are probably more M's willing than F's, but it would need to be someone I could really trust either way that it wouldn't go any further and would be safe.

In all of these there would be two conflicting pulls - on one hand having a woman who was not my wife do it might open up the whole sex thing, which would be uncomfortable. On the other hand doing stuff with a guy is doing stuff with a guy, but then again I've already had guys do things to my ass that were non-sexual, so that might be less of an issue as long as everyone kept the sex part off the table. Best of course would be to have my wife do it, and I'm not sure if I'd "pull the trigger" on anyone else.

General play "for fun", fisting, prostate massage, other sex stuff is a no. I don't think I would ever be comfortable with that.

In any case I don't think it would really ever happen.

Yes. I am only hetero so I think about being with someone same sex for the physical enjoyment, but I could not do intimate kissing, etc. as I am not particularly attracted to a woman.

No I could talk to them/ after being raped by a guy the thought makes me want to be a 4th person in the mix so that is my thought

Yes i would either way

baron said

Yes i would either way

Your profile says you are NOT straight / heterosexual.

It says you are heteroflexible.

For we klysmos., enemas ARE a form of sex, so it would have to be with a female for me.

For we klysmos., enemas ARE a form of sex, so it would have to be with a female for me.

Yes, I agree exactly.

Eric

After giving this question a little more thought, I've come to the conclusion that no heterosexual person would willingly submit to an exam or enema with a person of the same sex for the sake of pleasure as that contradicts the very definition of heterosexual.

Engaging in such an act, by definition, makes one at least heteroflexible.

After giving this question a little more thought, I've come to the conclusion that no heterosexual person would willingly submit to an exam or enema with a person of the same sex for the sake of pleasure as that contradicts the very definition of heterosexual.

Engaging in such an act, by definition, makes one at least heteroflexible.

@KC_Patient Bingo!

I weighed in on this a couple of times already, strictly on the male heterosexual side. As enemas are both physically and psychologically so overtly sexual for me, I could only enjoy giving or taking a recreational enema with a woman. It just occurred to me that one time many years ago I had a colonic done by a pro at a new facility I hadn't been to before. After arranging it and getting there, I found out it was a male therapist, which I hadn't thought to ask about as every other prior one had been female. I almost left but decided to try it, and although the actual physical part of the colonic was fine and fairly enjoyable, I was definitely much less comfortable with the man touching me and giving and talking me the through the colonic. I had a few after that in different places with women which were immensely more enjoyable. I'll probably not ever have another one now at age 65+ for various reasons but if I ever do it"ll only be with a woman or not at all. Although I do love the unique sensations from a machine-driven colonic, I can get so much intense satisfaction from a long, large 3.5-4.5 quart enema at home that the colonics are not really worth the expense anymore. Nice memories.

Eric

Yes, because the fun is physical pleasure not mixed with intimacy. It would be mechanical.

No, I'm not the least bit interested in sharing something this intimate with another man.

Of no interest at all

I tried it once with a very nice guy who is a nurse. We had about a two-hour session during which we both exchanged enemas, It was a good session, but the magic ingredient wasn't there. So, ladies, you definitely get my vote for preferred enema provider!

No way for me. Women are integral to my enema fantasies.