I would not take or give enemas to another man, regardless of the relationship. All my kinks would fall in the same realm. It just isn't in my character. I could talk about it, possibly watch or be watched but more on the watching side than being watched.Personally, the naked male form is a pretty hideous thing. I can only stand the sight of my own body after having grown up with it. The sight of another man just doesn't do anything but make me want to turn the page or turn it off.
That is a good question for me.about 40 years ago, one of my close friends offered to give me an enema. I declined, but, then, I had a beautiful girlfirend, in Nursing, who really enjoyed doing enemas with me. Today, I probably would.consider it, were he and I still in touch.
I don't see why it wouldn't be fun to play with the same sex as long as both agree on what is to happen and respect each other's feelings and boundaries .
As long as it is giving/receiving enemas, I wouldn't have a problem. If the intent was to go beyond that into a sexual encounter, then thank ye, no!
I couldn't do either. That's just freaking awkward IMHO. I only give my wife enemas. The night before my back surgery, they sent a 50ish year old dude named Mick to prep me. His weird looking ass didn't take two steps into my room before I said "Oh hell no! No fucking way Hoss!" I hit the call button and asked for the attending RN. She asked what I wanted, and I told her if they didn't send a female to take care of my prep, I was packing my shit up and going home. The RN came to my room and said "some men prefer having a male orderly do the prep." I said "well that's them, but I don't want a punk messing with my private areas." She said "okay, I understand, we'll set you up with Mandy." I didn't know who Mandy was, just as long as it was a chick. In about 5 minutes, the door opened, and in walked the cutest little brunette CNA you've ever seen in your life. Not Hollywood beautiful, just plain cute as a button. She was really nice too, and very mature mannered to be so young. I figured she'd really embarrass me with what she was about to do, but it wasn't that bad. In a span of about 1hr 15min, I got my back, ass, and hips shaved slick as an onion. Then the worst of it came when she flushed me out with a 3qt barium enema kit. That young lady sure knew how to use that thing. I ended up getting almost 2 1/2 bags of tepid soap water run through my guts before I pooped clear results. No, that wasn't fun, but I actually felt better when she got through. But at least I kept my dignity no matter how uncomfortable or embarrassing it was.
That is something I can not imagine -- I have had some occasions when it was offered but I have refused the guys all cases. Last time I did the same even he was a medical professional.
My knee jerk reaction would be no. But if the scene were to fit and there was an established friendship and common interest, I could relax that attitude.
No thank you. Not interested. I prefer female doctors for everything. Just not my thing if playing and not my preference if it were for legit medical reasons.
I would not have a problem with giving or receiving an enema from a male or female, as long as the parameters of play are firmly established. By that I mean, just an enema and nothing more, what type of butt play or sexual activity may be desired.
Although my enema fantasies primarily involve play with women; yes, I would definitely enjoy engaging in enema sessions with men too.Cum to think of it, a group of both sexes with several bags, buckets, and bulbs would be fantastic fun.
Can't say I would. Just too uncomfortable with the idea. I have, however, been in three-ways with 2 guys, one woman, but the focus was all on the lady. No more than incidental contact with the dude.
This is something I have done, and to be honest, the first time was somewhat scary. I just jumped into the encounter without knowing anything about my new friend and quite frankly, there were aspects of the encounter that off-putting. Now I have to know the person, respect the person and their judgment. Since (most) men are hairy smelly beasts, I think it prudent to be aware of all aspects of a potential playmate. This would not preclude women either. Sorry to say, but I've known some pretty nasty girls too. All in all, discretion, knowledge of the person, confidence in their ability to be discrete also, compatibility and the sureness of committing to such a personal relationship. This kind of play transcends friendship; the intimacies involved demand honor from both parties.
Nope. For me, enemas are a very sexual activity, and I have zero interest in sharing the activity with another male. Not homophobic at all, just strictly heterosexual.
Not for me. Strictly heterosexual here. By chance, I'm on a lovely trip right now to support and enjoy a longtime dear friend's renewal of wedding vows with her husband. I met this friend in middle school because her brother has been an equally good friend since 7th grade. He came out as gay in 1973 during senior year in college, after I'd already known him for 7-8 years. We've been close friends ever since meeting, and have lived together several times. He's here for the wedding vows too, and even if he made an offer, I would be too uncomfortable being straight to enjoy trading enemas with him. He's very handsome, smart, witty and talented, but sexually I can only enjoy women partners. Enemas, though not entirely or necessarily sexual, are so personal and intimate that a play/enjoyment enema would feel like I had a male lover.
I have been thinking about this from a medical standpoint. I would always want a female to be involved in this, just as I have always wanted a female to remove abdominal staples, sutures. I have also had most urinary catheters placed by females, as well as removed. I am just much more comfortable with a female doing any of these procedures. I somehow feel safer with a lady.