HETEROSEXUALS ONLY-- Would you give and receive PLAY enemas from same sex

HETEROSEXUALS ONLY

If you met another person of the same sex and found out that you both had the same interstes in enemas, anal insertion, medical play or what ever, would you be willing to just play together but not actually "on" each other? 😮

Nope!

I don't even go to a female doctor, because the thought of a woman doing things that men are supposed to do,totally creeps me out. That's just me, and I don't have a bit of a problem with bi or gay women, because I am not paranoid that they are thinking of me that way.

And I know how strange that is, because in my line of work, I have to wipe and clean other women's backsides all the time. I don't think twice about that, if they comment on it, I just say--I clean you the same way I clean me.

Sure, why not?

It would (could) be the sameas getting a massage.

Don't confuse sensual with sexual.

Two different things and don't have to be together

Just do not know. Perhaps if the guy isn't some hairy big guy and very discrete. I'm a bit of a chicken. Need to be kept clinical.

Most of the time you aren't looking at who's giving anyway. You're concentrating to much on the good touch/feelings the lubeing/fingering/insertions/filling to give a darn. Give/get what you can from anyone willing that you may find acceptable/trustable. I've played straight so far, but conversation with my wife once led to same sex encounter as it had entered my mind from time to time. So out of curiosity got some gay films. To me I saw the M/M action as arousing as was M/F and F/F scenes. I got aroused more watching F/F action, as a woman knows how a woman wants it and learned that way to do to wife.

She loved the slower/longer forplay, sensual expanded hand roving, slower expanded area of oral play. Wife said if I got another male to play with she would want to be there to watch! I was surprised at that,but then tought I sure would want to watch her make out with another female, including enemas and whatever. But definately with disease prevention involved.

"I think it's sexy as hell for guys to play together" Well known to me of straight men's opinion on that and how they outrightly victimize other males about it, yet these same discriminators love thier girl/girl videos and mags. I've had wishes in mind to try more exploration with another male. It would be very interesting to me if some female started an opinion poll aimed at what other women think about that. Remember my wife saying if I ever had a chance for some same sex play she would be thrilled to be present to watch. I did have and had told her that my first sharing about doing an enema scene was with a male cousin,in living room, wwe just did not use water(simulated as we did have enough time to do the real thing,BOY it was very intesting and enjoyable, we were both 8th graders). No M/M since. But willing for that and granting wifes statement. After all, heard some of the hospitals in our area are assigning male nurse's for barium enemas for males in our area. (really don't like the sex seperation trend that seems to be spreading. Rather see co-ed lockerroom/showers and the same for the johns) A woman once dropped off her older son at a public pool and he was kidnaped from the locker room as she had to use the womans locker room. Don't know if he was ever found) This same risk is for fathers and especially singele parents. We all know of the bodies of sexes, why have any taboo's/seperations of it.

Judging from the many ads and profiles I've seen on this site, there are quite a number of men out there who are essentially heterosexual, but who play with men. Is there a discussion thread for guys who play with other guys? Should we start one? I'm straight and married, but I've had some fun over the years with other guys.

I consider myself to be heteroflexible (I really like men and have the best connection with them) but will happily play with a very occasional woman for the pure sexual fun of it if she really turns me on. If you wanted to call me bisexual, I wouldn't really object, but the frequency and percentage of lesbian/homosexual encounters compared to heterosexual encounters is very low--and my husband knows when I have been with women, mainly because the encounter was initiated at a group S&M or similar function or party.

Having said that, a guy who plays with men and does recreational enemas with men is Bisexual.

Don't feel bad about being bi. It doubles the number of people you can play with. 😁 😁 😁 😁

As I have said here before. I can have a deep understanding of the feeling a man has when receiving an enema - because I am a man. We have the same *operating system* and even though I consider myself hetero - the understanding of what another man is experiencing during an enema or masturbation brings curios feelings to my own groin. Vicarious pleasure? Looking at male porn can occasionally turn me on so I masturbate with it once in a while, but the anal I have tried with a dildo was not all that much fun and the taste of my own sperm makes me gag.

Who would know a mans body better than another man? and a woman's body better than another woman. I like the "heteroflexible" description. Haven't fondled anyone else's pecker since I was a kid, but given the right circumstances who knows. Or just stay with enema play. fantasies run amok...

Being hetero isn't bad. But, once you have been into a M/M experience with enemas it's an entirely different and most pleasing experience I ever encountered. The feeling of a real warm nozzle invading the most erotic area of your entire body is indescribable..... I had one male partner years ago, and looking again.

Thought a lot about this one. Would have to be a very special person, probably would have to be a couple for me to take an enema from a guy. But, having said that, once I took an enema I might be willing to take more....

I've had quite a few requests...some from this site...I've decided that I will share my giving expertise, but no direct sexual activity.

I might also let a skilled male giver give to me, but I'm not so sure about that. I'm totally straight, but an enema is soooo gooooodddd...

I prefer the female touch. However, as I journey through life I find old taboos and prejudices loosening their grip on me. If I met the right male, who knows. It's more the person than gender.

Anymore; I am still uncertain. I know for me; it's the typical taboos that's playing with my mind. But like one of my boot camp instructors said to me; "You need to get out of your comfort zone once and a while to expand." Doing just a enema; I doubt think I will have much of an issue, but afterward is on shaky waters for me.

It's so hard to find fellow enemates+ within travelling distance I'd consider it (but nothing sexual). Initially at least, I would probably prefer a couple or do cam2cam. A sexy, shapely bum is a big turn-on for me - plenty of ladies have one but it's rare for a male.

I would definitely consider doing enemas with another male... As long as it was well established that was the only anal activity that we engaged in.

Masturbation of course would have to be ok for both parties, too!

No, not for me. Enemas are too linked up with my sexuality and being straight I just dont have any desire for such play.

Honestly I would feel very strange and uncomfortable even if I was having it done as a medical procedure by another male. But hey, if thats what your into go for it I say.

No I just can't get used to the idea of being with a man. I was introduced to enemas by a female and I received enemas from my mother but never from a man or ever wanted to get one from a man

I've only had enemas from male nurses in either the hospital or clinic. --not pleasurable. It leads me to think that it probably stems from "Mom and her TLC". I guess a shrink would have a ball with that one. --Mommy is going to take care of me. Whatever, I give up. Only ladies please...and as often as they like. Love it!

the boxcar

I have entertained the subject in my mind. Although I am 100% straight, would I take enema from a homsexual male? I don't think i could do it. I definately would not get aroused.

It's a question about our inner personality code.If I'm straight I can probably understand gay or bi people,but I never will feel like they feel,that's why I can't find any pleasure in man/man model.

On the medical side I have THE BEST dentist, man with unbelievable tenderness and understanding so I trust Him completely!

Since enemas are sexual for me, I don't think I could give one to another guy.

I really fantasize about having women (who I don't have to pay) give me enemas.

For me, it would be a matter of compassion. If I was confident that I could trust him, and I thought his interest in mutual support was genuine, and I was not repulsed by his appearance, I would be willing to 'play' with him; six decades of being 'alone' having tempered my reservations... It is tough enough to meet someone with common interests..

My take is that for we who are klismaphiles, enemas are a form of sex. Mommy giving junior and sissy an enema on Saturday night may be nothing more than a bowel cleaning. Somebody giving me an enema is a sexual act. So if I am giving the enema, because I am a klismo, it is a sexual act.

As we know, girls tend to be a lot less homophobic than guys, and less uptight about quasi-sexual intimacies. Sez me, anyway. Now personally, being a bi female, it would be very difficult for me to keep it professional with another woman, especially one whose bones I wanted to climb. If I were getting or giving an enema to another woman, from inside my eyes I would be already having sex with her... 'cuz I'm a klismo. . Maybe it's just me.

Hugs,

Diane

Diane, I think you said it very well, and I would concur with you on all points.

I would do it with another woman, but my husband would never do it with another man.

Diane,

It's always refreshing to read another's thoughts, especially where there is such clarity of mind; I applaud you!

Hermann

I would like to try it, but have no experience in enema play with both, men or women, just did it solo.

This being 2012 most lines of sexuality have opened for those with minds willing to explore - Enemas are very erotic in themselves and sex does not have to be a part of the pleasure - It's trust between consenting adults

One of the difficulties I have found is that most men don't really differentiate between enema play and sex, and expect the latter as well. As an heterosexual man I would like to receive an enema from someone who is like me but that likes to administer rather than receive, and doesn't expect anything else. I wonder if that is something so difficult to fullfill...