Does Age Really Matter

I don't think age matters if you feel uncomfortable about it then discuss it with your partner before hand,. If there is an issue than it is something that should be discussed before you hook up. I myself prefer an older man. Not necessarily 20 years older but older. I feel they have more experience and have so much to teach me. I prefer a man to give me my enemas

Maggie

Obviously, it is all about personal preference. The important thing is being comfortable with your partner. If you aren't comfortable, it won't be a good experience for both (or more) involved.

The issue of maturity and age has surfaced throughout this entire thread. Each time it is mentioned, young guys always get the bad rap of being immature while older men are wise and fully matured. I feel it is unfortunate that many people think so absolutely like this. While many younger guys are quite immature and deserve to be labeled as such, there are also a good amount of young men who can treat an older woman with the respect and maturity she wants and deserves.

Speaking personally as a younger guy (25), like many other my age, I am fully capable of sitting down with an older woman and having a very intelligent conversation. I can empathize and sympathize with the feelings and emotions an older woman experiences just as well as a man double my age. I am very capable of handling any difficult situation with grace and tact whether it involves the older woman or not. I am a gentleman and very respectful to all whom I may meet.

So I ask, am I not desirable to an older woman just because of my age? Am I really so immature at 25 that a 40 year old woman would have no interest in me? I understand that a long term relationship would feel the strain of a big age gap but for a meeting with the sole intent of something like an enema, is my age really a big deal?

I am only asking this out of pure curiosity. I respect the experience answer most people in this thread are talking about. Assuming I have the same amount of experience as an older man (I don't), what would make a woman chose an older man over a younger man who is capable of demonstrating acceptable, mature, caring behavior?

Didn't mean to write so long. Just curious because I've always admired older women and have always dreamed of loving an older woman. I've just had a hard time because I get the stereotypical immature label. Maybe I'll just have to wait until I'm 30....

I was married to a man 20 years older and after 15 years or less,I began to realize that it was affecting me more than I thought it would.I needed to get out and find out what it was like to be with someone closer to my own age and interests before I became too old before my time.It was a hard decision but one I have not regretted!We are both remarried to people our age now.SO to some of us,yes-age does make a difference.It doesn't make that person any less important or valued-just that you have to do what is right for you.

Unfortunately for me,the sexual aspect of my marriage has changed and he doesn't seem to want to change this.I'm not saying it has anything to do with his age since men older than him are willing to fix this problem!He is a great guy otherwise for me.Many members on here can vouch for me in saying that their spouses are wonderful but the sex is not there like we want and they can't get them to change either.It's a catch 22 situation-what do we do to get what we need?

Without straying from the original post,some older men are able to maintain their sexual prowess and performance better than younger men so I give credit to them.If I were older and needing sex as much then as now-you bet I wouldn't refuse it!lol.For now,I'll stick to someone within 10 years of my age and as I grow older and wiser,I can still experience my sexuality with a mature man still willing to try!

My patients range in ages from 18 to 60. This past summer, I had sessions with 3 22 year-old and two 19 year old bbw/ssbbw. I'm 55. They didn't view me as a "creepy old guy" either. My current repeat patient is a 22 year-old ssbbw from Port Au Prince Haiti. She feel perfectly comfortable with me during a session or out in public. Still today, many foreign cultures don't view age as a deterrent to relationships or just casual sex.

I'm not referring older gents as creepy old men as I know that's not right or accurate.I hope no one thinks I meant that!Just everyone has a personal preference as to what they like.I wouldn't dare assume all older gents are the same! 😁 If someone prefers older women/men I wish them well.I just know my past with my ex and it just didn't work for me after a few years.I do believe for play though it may not matter as much.

This is another topic that can go on forever and everyone has their own ideas of what is preferred!

I guess it is up to you if age matters. For me I prefer someone my age. So age to me doesn't matter.

Age does matter, I don't have time for the drama and bullshit that comes with younger women. Give me a mature woman who knows what she wants and how to go about getting it every time!!

Age matter ? no if feeling good with, age does not matter

I agree with many of the others who have replied that this is such a personal preference. I have been involved with enema play with older and younger people and enjoyed each so it was not an issue for me.

Age doesn't matter too much to me as long as they are not younger than me. I think most people have a general preference for things like age and I do prefer an older man or woman.

Yes, I am not much interested at 20/30yo young ladies….. i prefer 40+

Be safe

Za

I'm not sure why, but I have always been attracted to slightly older women, and for some reason they to me. I find this to be true also with respect to my “zity stuff” with guys as well. I've been told it's because I'm mature and intelligent. Obviously there's no accounting for taste! LOL! But, I have far from the 6 pack, gym going guy. I am sociable and open to most things and frankly more on the “nerd with a personality” side of things than anything else. But. as an example my last GF was 31 and we got along great in all aspects. Sadly, she was transferred for work, and truth is I do miss her. So, I don't think age is that much of a factor. All of this is not to say, I don't find those in my own “closer” age range attractive. It's just a different “feeling” with someone older.

Most people are happier with a playmate somewhere close to their own age!

Age doesn't matter as long as they are around my age or not younger than me. Isn't that contradictory??

I'd prefer to find someone 40+ as I don't want to feel like I'm having an affair with my daughter or granddaughter! Someone fit.

Of course…make damn sure he/she is 18 years of age or older…and the only valid I.D. is a State issued drivers licence or I.D.card that passes all the bells and whistles tests….as there are fakes of these.

The esteemed Benjamin Franklin once wrote a short letter entitled “Advice to a Friend on Choosing a Mistress” which has been somewhat paraphrased as “They don't smell, they don't swell, and they don't tell.” Which pretty much works for me. While idea of a younger playmate is entertaining, there is a certain style, grace, and passion that an older woman brings to the bed.

Elaine

I heard the Franklin quote about older ladies as,"They don't yell, they don't swell, and they are grateful as hell."

Once one is older than the age of consent, age is merely a number. If you like older men/women, go for it! If you like younger (legal aged) guys or gals, more power to you!

“Whatever it takes to float yer boat”

For me, yes, for any sex act. I need to be attracted to the girl. Even though I'm 45/m, she;'d need to be college aged. Preferably a fit, petite cheerleader, gymnast or ballet dancer. Preferably who enjoys her middlespace, at least clothingwise. And who would enjoy my mask fetish and mask up for me ("play safe!").

Problem is, my fantasy girl really only exists in my mind. Yes, i find plenty of young females attractive, but I think the generation gap and lack of much in common would kill any such relationship. also, because of my relative isolation throughout my life, I socially fatigue easily. So, I fly solo, like many who were born with my disability. Thank gosh for the web.

When I was younger I only wanted older men. I spent most of my younger dating years with men at least 15 years older than me. I definitely preferred the maturity and the stability that was lacking in men my age. Funny enough I ended up marrying a man only one year older than me. I don't think it is specially the number that matters but more of what your expectations are in the relationship. That being said this only applies to consenting adults.

During the late 1950s I was a paperboy and several of the older women would invite me into their house for milk and cookies,hence they would milk me and get my cookies!

From when at a very young age, I realized that sex was great, I learned how to please a woman, by listening to older women as to what to do. My first encounters were with women just 5 to 10 years older than myself, several of them helped me to understand the workings of a woman's body and I learned and practiced as much as I could. I eventually I found out that just like men it is not the solely the engine but rather the engineer and how you worked it, if you were not really into what you were both experiencing than after a few encounters, the attraction and excitement was gone. So my answer to the question is Tall Short Plump Thin, Old, or Young it did not make a difference, as a young 18 yr old I had women in their sixties, and women as young as 18, The prettiest woman I bedded, (and she was gorgeous), Met her in NYC at Joe Namath's bar Bachelor's 3 was the worst If the chemistry is not there, the enjoyment is ok at first but after a while it was not worth the effort. So I say again, to the questioner, Age Does Not Matter (Just my opinion) If anyone would care to discuss this further send me a Friend request and we can chat here.

When I was younger I only wanted older men. I spent most of my younger dating years with men at least 15 years older than me. I definitely preferred the maturity and the stability that was lacking in men my age.

@Nixie Women mature faster than men, so I don't find it odd that some women prefer someone more at - or even beyond - their maturity level. Maybe that's why I didn't get a lot of dates in high school!! 😞

In my teens age didn’t matter and I liked older women because of their experience ! Later in life I liked younger girls because the sex was great! My last girlfriend was 16 yrs younger the sex was great but we weren’t on the same page age wise, that’s when I decided to revisit my bisexual side and have enjoyed it ever since and love my conversations with all my good friends here on Zity!

During the late 1950s I was a paperboy and several of the older women would invite me into their house for milk and cookies,hence they would milk me and get my cookies!

Codjer, it sounds more like meat and two veg!

I prefer a woman of my own vintage that has a lifetime of experience and knows an enema can be so much more than just bowel cleansing.

Watching all of these reply’s makes me so happy that I never got married, and I’m free to play the field!

Honestly, sometimes older guys have this experience and caring nature that I just need but that doesn't mean that I don't have a limt to how much older the guy should be.

@Lily1991

Honestly, sometimes older guys have this experience and caring nature that I just need but that doesn't mean that I don't have a limt to how much older the guy should be.

And just what age would be your upper limit?