I just read 60s man's opinion that "most gay people have dealt with their sexual orientation while most heterosexuals struggle with their sexuality."
I am curious where you find your information about making such an extreme conclusion. You cannot possibly speak for all gay people just because some of your close friends are gay. Some people are quite comfortable being bisexual. Are they struggling with their sexuality as well? Human Sexuality is a life long journey of self discovery and adventure.
It has little to do with a person's sexual orientation. It's a very personal and subjective journey. I don't think you can speak for "most heterosexuals", or for anyone else for that matter, except yourself.
This is a fetish kink site. I think most men and women enjoy some kind of ass or anal play. Otherwise we wouldn't all be here having open minded discussions about fetishes and our sexual experiences.
I would have to say that I certainly care who I have sex with, and I do have my own personal preference if my partner is gay or straight!! There's nothing wrong with being a straight woman who loves having kinky sex with straight men. But that's just my preference, and I don't speak for others.
Um, last time I checked, most gay men enjoy having sex with other gay men, just as an obvious example.
I don't think anyone on this site is a prejudiced homophobe at all. Each person has their own curiosities, kinks, fetishes, and sexual orientation. No one on this site is judging others' sexual orientation. We are all celebrating being very kinky in our own ways and exchanging such creative and interesting ideas.
Let's just all have an orgy now. I'm down for that !!! ;-))
Perhaps you took this question a bit too personally.