Do we care if a person is gay or straight?

I absolutely don't care one way or the other about someone's sexual orientation. It's how they compose themselves and interact that matters.

Sexual orientation matters little to me even in real life.

But here, on zity, the common orientation - the thread that binds, the common factor - is the love for our fetish!

May our tribe increase!

I don't care at all. The main issue for me is how we interact - not a persons sexual orientation. If a person have something nice, educational, exciting, inspiring etc I don't look for that persons sexual orientation. We have a common interest, and I find myself learning new things almost every day I visit Zity, thanks to the skilled, nice, fun and interesting people that share the same fetishes as I do.

Even though I consider me being mostly straight - if the right person, the right circumstance - in short: In a given situation I wouldn't mind playing with a fellow guy. I'm sure it would be interesting and educational, and I guess really arousing.

I could care less. I've had several gay friends over the years and the only reason I don't see them anymore is one or the other of us moved. As far as sex goes, I am heterosexual and don't persue any type of relatioship with gays, but that has nothing to do with how I feel them as a person. There's enough to worry about in this world without making someone's sexual preference a matter of concern. Live and let live.

Only if I having an intimate relationship with them. On line I just could not care less. Some might reject me because I am old, straight or have a kink or fetish they do not care for.

For me the answerr is...not in the slightest.

Doesn't matter to me in the least if someone is gay or straight, I don't look at anyone any different because of who they choose to be intimate with.

I don't think it matters one bit... there are people of all persuasions sharing, debating and offering views on a range of diverse but related topics here...

I don't care, in fact I am really interested in chatting with both gay men and lesbians and let me not leave out bisexuals as well. I am not looking to have relationships past friends and chat, I am married and we are monogamous. I enjoy the take on human sexuality that folks with sexual orientations different than mine have and they have a lot to teach me about what works and how.

I sure don't. I don't care on here, I don't care in the bedroom, I don't care at work, I don't care anywhere!

Doesn;t matter to me if someone is gay OR straight but....The only gay people I absolutely CANNOT stand are the ones who shove their gayness down everyone's throat. I love gay men who are REAL men and act as such. The ones who act like high maintenance drama queens although I'm sure that deep down they are great people, I can do without.

Same goes for high maintenance drama queen chicks. YUCK!!!!!

IT has no bearing whatsoever for me. Suggestions made on this site by persons who come across as being gay (I have no idea if they are or not) have been the source of much fantasy. enjoyment, and fulfillment for me when I simply put it in a heterosexual context or simply change the "him" or "his" to "she" or "her".

No, I really don't care about it at all. It's odd actually, my parents are pretty racist and never miss an opportunity to bash gays so I grew up in a pretty hateful environment but I don't share their beliefs. A person is a person, and unless they are trying to convince me to try something with another woman, it's really none of my business.

It doesn't matter to me. Gay or Straight or anything in between. The conversations are always good and interesting and sometimes even stimulating. 😉)

When I was way younger it did but it matters not anymore..

Gay or straight...what the hell would that have to do with anyone's fantasies or sexual desires. I am hear to read and listen to others experiences both for pleasure and education. If I say I am heterosexual but fantasize on sucking a mans cock will I be judged or will it be ok if I say I am bisexual. Hell if I say I am a martian will that mean I am weird because I want to fuck a moonie😃 An orgasm and what it takes to accomplish such a great and wonderful rush has nothing to do with sexual orientation. Men (most men) especially are so controlled by their macho-ism that they won't even explore the idea that our hole if treated (fucked) correctly can produce the same feeling a woman gets while having her vagina poked, prodded, fucked, licked you name it. (Ever wonder how a woman can have multiple orgasms?) And while this is happening do we really care if our partner is gay or straight. My gf is straight but we have a little female friend that joins us especially for anal fisting because her hands are not as big as mine. The girls lick each others holes followed by a good fisting...never have I heard or mentioned anything about whether or not we are gay or straight. When they push their hand in my asshole I am too busy enjoying the ride to think of who the hand belongs to. Some of my best and most respected friends are gay, both female and male...and why, because most have dealt with their sexual orientation while most heterosexuals struggle with their sexuality.

I just read 60s man's opinion that "most gay people have dealt with their sexual orientation while most heterosexuals struggle with their sexuality."

I am curious where you find your information about making such an extreme conclusion. You cannot possibly speak for all gay people just because some of your close friends are gay. Some people are quite comfortable being bisexual. Are they struggling with their sexuality as well? Human Sexuality is a life long journey of self discovery and adventure.

It has little to do with a person's sexual orientation. It's a very personal and subjective journey. I don't think you can speak for "most heterosexuals", or for anyone else for that matter, except yourself.

This is a fetish kink site. I think most men and women enjoy some kind of ass or anal play. Otherwise we wouldn't all be here having open minded discussions about fetishes and our sexual experiences.

I would have to say that I certainly care who I have sex with, and I do have my own personal preference if my partner is gay or straight!! There's nothing wrong with being a straight woman who loves having kinky sex with straight men. But that's just my preference, and I don't speak for others.

Um, last time I checked, most gay men enjoy having sex with other gay men, just as an obvious example.

I don't think anyone on this site is a prejudiced homophobe at all. Each person has their own curiosities, kinks, fetishes, and sexual orientation. No one on this site is judging others' sexual orientation. We are all celebrating being very kinky in our own ways and exchanging such creative and interesting ideas.

Let's just all have an orgy now. I'm down for that !!! ;-))

Perhaps you took this question a bit too personally.

Kinky people cannot afford to criticize other people's kinks lest they be criticized themselves. Kinksters may not want to do what other people do, but they don't care if they want to do those things with other like minded people. Members here are well aware of that.

If you read the posts in this thread, NO ONE CARES if anyone is homosexual or heterosexual.

The only time gay or straight becomes a consideration is when people decide who they want to get naked and play with.

I have preferences for who I play with and have sex with, but when we are dressed, I don't care what a person's sexual orientation is. The only important attribute is the quality of their character and integrity.

No i don't care if a person is gay, you are what you are.

No way, I would welcome anybody no matter what their orientation, It dose not matter to me. 😃

Strange to see this question and funny at the same time. I haven't been on this site for a while. I went to the classifieds first and one of the guys said he was bi but not gay? Is there a difference? Saying your gay, to me, means nothing more than saying "I don't or won't do the other sex." We are all sexual animals. I have a hard time, going back to the days that I became sexually aware, of believeing a person not becoming arosed by something related to sex. In the days of my youth I had an erection, it seems, almost every hour of every day! Until I was in my 30's I could not have cared less if it was a male or a female I had sex with - just give me some releif. People who say they dislike sex with a group of people are closed minded and the real losers in the world.

I don't care your if your gay or not, I just want to have fun!!!

Gay or straight is NOT a lifestyle choice - people are born either way. We know this scientifically for a fact now, but religious/cultural prejudices and bigotry are as alive as ever.

I'm hetero - I have no sexual desire for members of my own gender. But I accept gays/lesbians in this world and in my circle without any form of reservation. Because if I had any reservations or "but's" then it means I'm a bigot as well, and my words mean nothing.

I think this is a question of not breaking someone's borders. Fear of '' different'' people comes from sense of weakness, hatred against "different" comes from being in slavery of forced ideas. Thankfully world had changed a lot in last times. I think person's sexuality have it's own borders, we are not supposed to change, discuss or cross without permission.

Just like religion and politics, your sexuality is yours, mine is mine. Don't try to convert me and I won't try to convert you.

Gay or straight - it's always great.

It makes no difference to me.......what a person does in the privacy of their own bedroom is no ones business but the people involved. I also don't believe their sexuality is what defines them as a person.

To be honest, I have known and still know many guy people and they are the best kind of friend a person can have. They accept you for you. Whether your young, old, fat, thin, ugly or pretty. They DON'T judge!! They look past the outer wrapping and get to know the REAL/TRUE person on the inside.

To bad the rest of society can't do the same for them in return!! Just say'in

It does not worry me at all if a person is gay/straight/bi,as long as they dont ram their reasons for being like they are down my throat.

i think when they start to do that they are trying to convince themselves why they are like they are.

Frankly, I never enters my mind whether a person is gay, straight, bi, trans or whatever. It's their life, not mine. May they be happy and prosperous.

Not particularly. As long as you're not in my face about it. Go do want you want to just leave me out of it.