Do we care if a person is gay or straight?

With an extremely rare exception, I truly do not believe anybody cares. People who condemn things like homosexuality so mightily and go on hammering to the masses about them always have a secret share in the desire for them. Whenever you hear a priest (for example) condemn "faggotry" you know he's going to be down on his lousy knees the next minute.

Ok I'm confused how can anyone on such a libertine site stand and judge ANYONE....I happen to be str8 but why should a person be gay or bi make me miss out on some one who could be a friend ,besides if I enjoy a gay or bi girls conversation/friendship,what would give me the power to judge a guy for being gay.just sayin.

If you aren't going againest anybodies will or hurting anyone. Then whats the big deal??? I sure don't care

I never really thought about it . i couldnt care really people are people gay or straight and i like guys and girls . maybe thats part of me .

but is it not fair to say everything is worth trying once in your life.

Well i dont care as long as it does not infringe on my own rights or my familys values but if it does i do care and will fight for them

Variety is the spice of life; this site isn't exclusionary, and that's a good thing.

No, I don't care at all.

Being bisexual myself since the first dawning of puberty, I confess to being still confused about it.

Similar to very many people, male and female, I find the sight of two women tenderly kissing a huge turn-on. Yet while I like having sex with both guys and gals, the sight of two guys kissing one another is a maggot-gagging turn-off for me. Why? I have no idea. It's not a decision or a choice on my part, it's a completely subconscious response from some part of my brain below my awareness. No, it's not logical Mr. Spock, it's just the way it is for me.

I suppose the issue of "do we care" is a function of the scenario. I have an openly gay flight student whose hunky bones I would like to climb. But my purpose is not to seduce him or to straighten him, it's to teach him to fly an airplane. In that context his sexual orientation is a complete irrelevance. Perhaps, in fact, his exclusive gay orientation makes him sexually safely off the menu and so I feel no sexual pressure in any way from him.

On the other hand I have a female friend who is giving all the signs of being bi-curious, and whom I suspect is teetering on the edge of coming on to me. That matters to me, because despite my own inherent willingness and even desire to share that precious joy with her, I am in a committed exclusive relationship and am not free to go there with her. So yes, I care in this case.

As a girl who likes to shoot icewater up her bum, I have no grounds to hold any opinion about anyone else's sexual practices or predilections. But to the extent someones sexuality involves or means to involve me, it matters a lot.

Hugs,

Diane

Certainly there are exceptions, as to all "rules," but it has been my experience that exclusively gay men on average seem have more of a tendency to be "in your face" about it than gay women do.

At our flight school we have an openly gay male student, and while my husband is morally committed to treating him just like any other student, there is no question in my mind that hubby, is nonetheless a bit uncomfortable around him. Being bi myself, I am not.

I have found that a lot of straight people are comfortable with bi/gay/les people who willingly "blend in," and not comfortable when sexuality is pushed in their faces. For that matter, people who make a big deal of their perfectly heterosexual sex-life are hard to be around, too. I think what goes on in bedrooms should stay in bedrooms, and not be the focus of any sort of public lifestyle.

Hugs,

Diane

I agree with Diane 100%

I agree, i dont care al all.

I could care less. My nephew is gay and he is still a good kid in my eyes. I work in the club industry and see this all the time. Nice people ..........least the ones i met where to me.

No. I don't think it should make any difference if someone is gay or straight. it just comes down to what they prefer and what makes them happy. Its just like what kind of color do we like. Some people are always going to criticize someone for some reason or another if they don't like them, unfortunately that is humanity.

Good God no. I could care less who you copulate with. I'm much more interested in who you are.

I don't think thats much of an issue anymore. With more and more states passing legislation legalizing marriage for same sex couples. Im more interested in who the person is not how and what they think, but how they feel.

I have met so many great people (straight or gay) on this site who share similar interests. It really does not matter to me.

Completely agree with drphillips... only reason it should ever come up at all is if the other person brings it up and/or you want to know if their orientation matches yours so you can "play" together

It doesn't bother me in the least whether someone is gay, straight or bisexual. Who am I to judge someone else.

What I really dislike is these right-wing bible thumpers--these so called Christians that spill hate--and try to tell others how to live.

With this question it's good if we look inside ourselves and see if we might have feelings, even prejudices, that we would rather not acknowledge. I think all of us do to some extent. How do we deal with those?

The only thing that ultimately matters is that an individuals orientation is respected. Otherwise it makes no difference to me whether someone is straight or gay. They are a person first and their sexual orientation is secondary.

I was brought up by a gay hating father so had it drummed into me from a young age that's it's wrong. lucky for me I had my own mind and thought it was not best to judge people for the way they are. I don't care if people are gay, straight, bi, or what ever label they like to use as its just that it's a label. it doesn't make any one less of a person or make them strange. every one is different and likes different things no one can say its strange. I had a gay male friend when I was 19 he was a lovely man and was one of the biggest hearted people I have ever met. but because he was gay my mates thought I should not be mates with him. that just made me realize how small minded alot of people are but that's their choice. we are all human, all with desires. just because they are not all the same desires it does not make any of us strange or different it makes us unique and that's what makes meeting new people fun and interesting no matter what they are into.

In the animal world, there is no homosexuality. Humans are a so-called higher form. As such we make choices. We make many choices through the freedoms our society permits. We also exist under many rules imposed by society, some from religious sources, some fashioned in legal structures. There are inevitable conflicts in these systems. As higher animal forms we come to deal with these daily. We must examine our pathway through this forest of life and achieve our own comfort level. In accomplishing this state, we realize that another might take a different path. So be it.

I suppose that being a sissy I go through different phases of attraction.whilst in my past I've enjoyed the sensation of pleasing male lover's by sucking and swallowing their warm pulses of cum or being taken up my booty.think that prejudice against same sex pleasure has it's origins in the old testament book of levititcus.

Wondering if there's more rigid definitions in the US than in the UK though,what with the bible belt factor.

I have no problem with a person being gay.

I don't care if they're gay or not, i have had friends who were gay and they never tried to involve me in it and i appreciate that. i'm the same with color, it just doesn't matter. i only wish i had a lesbian for a friend somewhere along the line, i'm sure we could've had many interesting conversations.

Unless I'm interested in dating or having sex with a particular person, their sexual orientation doesn't really affect me, online or offline.

Do we care in this forum? No, not at all... I think the members in here are very tolerant of a widely diverse range of kinks, leanings and preferences.

I should sincerely hope no one cares ... if they did, it sounds like they are not in the right forum.

That said, I haven´t seen any evidence of members caring about sexual orientation here ... so it is probably a moot point here ...

Could care less as long as they know what they are doing when Dominating me...

I don't care what a persons sexual orentation is. I don't think one should try to push their orentation on one that is not of their orentation. I have no problem being with others that are gay, just because I happen to be straight. I would not think gay people would have a problem associating with straight people either. I think we can love each other no matter our sexual preference.

Bill