Do we care if a person is gay or straight?

A Nozzle knows no orientation. ive had the pleasure of giving str8 guys and gay fellows enema. the thing that really matters is understanding the sensations that the person receiving the enema is experiencing and incorporating that into the encounter. That is what makes a great enema session. The sex part is really optional in the grand scheme of things.

I don't think it matters. Straight people can like enemas, that is for sure. I suppose more gay men use them as prep for sex, as well as pleasure.

I just don't want my wife to be gay.

BTW, most people who you tag as "homophobic" likely do not "fear" homosexuals:

phobia

[foh-bee-uh]

noun

1. a persistent, irrational fear of a specific object, activity, or situation that leads to a compelling desire to avoid it.

I have found that there is a part of me that like turning people on. I've always known i wanted to turn women on so i could get laid. That will always remain true.

But as i get into discussions on these sites, i find i'll say things to try to turn people on, & it's a rush for me. Like if i find fellow jockstrap fetishists, i get into discussions with them about what turns them on. Some are straight, some are bi, some are gay. I care about turning them on by both what i tell them about me & what i draw out of them to tell me about themselves.

Audience is becoming important to me. i admit, recently i've started checking almost daily the "feedback" section here to see who likes my posts, pics, etc. I just want to appeal to people. If i can tell a gay man what jockstrap i'm currently wearing & what i like about it & it turns him on, turning him on turns me on. Do i want to have sex with a gay man? No. But there's a lot to be gained on both sides from chatting.

I read posts on this & other websites. I get turned on by what i read from either gender. Maybe i put myself in the place of the male posting something exciting to me, or maybe i put myself as the one doing something to the female who is posting.

I have found that there is a part of me that like turning people on. I've always known i wanted to turn women on so i could get laid.

If i can tell a gay man what jockstrap i'm currently wearing & what i like about it & it turns him on, turning him on turns me on. Do i want to have sex with a gay man? No. But there's a lot to be gained on both sides from chatting.

Essentially, being propositioned or desired or thought attractive by either sex is indeed something of a compliment, no matter what your own orientation or preference is ... that I can totally get into ...

To answer the question..."Do we care if a person is gay or straight?", I do not mind people's sexual orientation at all. That's something personal. I'm straight, my brain is not wired otherwise and I can't say I understand what being gay means? However I don't mind learning about this from people that are gay and I accept people as they are...gay, transgender. What matters is their heart and actions.

Unfortunately I do know people that are are not accepting at all, but that's their own choice.

Healthy44, I wish more men had your enlightened attitude. Even though you identify as straight, you don't seem bothered in the least by the idea of a gay man getting off on your shared interest. Thank you for setting such a good example!

I am as straight as can be. Do I care if a person is homosexual? Not one bit. I have several friends that are homosexual, and they are enjoyable people. Live and let live.

Not at all as long as they are happy not harming anyone.

I don't like either heterosexual or homosexual couples being ott in public but that's a rule for everyone.

Growing up didn't really encounter many homosexuals well open about it but at uni my flat mate in all three years came out whe at uni and that was nice experience.

I don't care whether someone is straight or gay. Just don't make an issue of it.

I guess you could say I was straight until a few years back when I was curious what a cock felt like in my anus vs. one of my toys. So, I decided to find out. As much as I have always loved having sex with women (and still do), it turns out that I also enjoy sucking on a nice cock to get it nice and hard (and now I know why a former lover enjoyed sucking mine so much) so its owner can pump a load into me. I absolutely love being penetrated back there. Better yet if his seed is inside me (yes, I know that's unsafe, but I love knowing part of him is inside me, at least for a while. Semen was intended to be shared with other people, not dumped into a condom, and I think most people are safe. It's a risk I sometimes, but not always, take.).

Is a hard cock better than a thick toy? No. It's just "different." I have decided to enjoy both, especially when I am crossdressed. I love getting gurled up (I love to CD) and it's even better if I am dressed while satisfying an man. I guess that makes me "bi," if you need to put a label on me, do so. But for me, playing with another guy is simply another option, whether I am "dressed" or not, even though I do prefer making love with females. But the bottom line is, I don't care who you cuddle with. With our love and enjoyment of kinky stuff, who are we to judge someone else's behavior and desires?

I care not what a person's sexuality is gay or bi whatever. As long as there fetish goes along with mine we can get it on. Otherwise

I still do not care but we might have a hard time in the kink fetish depertment. Everyone should practice what they like only limit is no underage. And of course a wiling subject partner.

Sexual orientation , to me does not define who the person is inside . Person A might have a preference to the hot dog , person B to the bun and person C to both . There is no right or wrong here . I can say that I find Zity members are much more open minded and not bothered about sexual orientation. Thats a great thing ! We are all the same ....human . 😃

I only care if I'm planning a sexual encounter.

Muy importante!

As far as sexuality I couldn't care less, or is it I could care less. Whatever, none the less, base a person on how they treat me, what kind of a person they are, trust worthy, honest, kind, thoughtful, smart, positive attributes. Their sexuality, it is a only a piece of the pie, or cake, or quilt. People are more like quilts, made up of many pieces, some good, some bad, some parts you like, some you don't. They are like a quilt not a blanket. I know, restaurant owners, CPAs, dog catchers, police, scientists, who are gay, they are just humans with feelings and hearts.

Nope not at all i have many friends (guys and girls) that are "different" dont like to use the other words i think they're very offenive. best friends you could ever have and i get my own personal barber and fashionista in the package.

Nope as they are happy.

Not really. What I don't like is someone coming on to me when I show no interest in reciprocating.

Of course I don't. We all can learn a thing or 2 or 3 from each other. The more the merrier.fun and enjoyment of sex may be the only requirement. I would get enjoyment from a room full of men or women or men and women together having great sex.

Post # 126 "Aussie!!"

A big 10-4 to that~!!!! My sentiments exactly!!

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Respect and good character. Everything else is unimportant. Of age consenting adults have my blessing. My wife and I have been with a few couple's. A few other men one liked to dress as girl. I enjoyed sucking them off while she watched. Maybe that makes me bisexual. Honestly. I sucked them because it was fun and exciting. A wonderful turn on. I have thought about those ecperiences a lot. I get hard every time. It was a great turn on for her to watch me. That is a big turn on. Have fun people. Have lots of fun. Gay or strsight or bi..... it is all about fun and enjoyment.

I don't care if someone is straight. To each their own as long as all parties are of legal age and consenting.

I don't care if someone is straight. To each their own as long as all parties are of legal age and consenting.

Well put, sir! Precisely. That's all that really matters. Humans have sexual relations with each other either to reproduce or to just have fun, more likely the latter.

My opinion: bisexuality and homosexuality are pretty normal. Scientists have known for a while that the main purpose of sex in our species is pleasure, and that reproduction is secondary. For humans, sex is separate from reproduction. Males are perfectly capable of giving pleasure to other males. It's as simple as that. When you think about it, homo/bisexuality is taking this separation of sex from reproduction even further—such sex couldn’t possible result in fertilization. I'm guessing that if there wasn't such a stigma against having sex with members of the same gender in our society, then there would be a lot more bisexuals.

Personally, I'm bisexual, and it's great. I like both men and women, but for different reasons--it's impossible to compare one to the other.

Love is love, no matter between who. If two people of the same sex want to lay with eachother, who are we to point at ancient Scriptures and foam at the mouth?

I don't care if a person is straight or if they are gay. I don't think any of us should judge what others do as long as it is between consenting adults.

An interesting thing i've noticed since i started on Zity:

When i first came to Zity and I would learn about people, either interacting or checking out profiles, I would see so&so is gay & think "Ok, we're different people seeking different things so we can't really relate. I'll likely gravitate towards the straight folks with the common ground and it'll be 'to each his own' "

Then as I continued interacting with the spectrum of people, it seemed the gay and bi folks were more open to chatting about anything, and just open to people in general. And made for more interesting & enjoyable chatting sessions. As opposed to, say, straight guys that just seemed to be more focused on connecting with women or whatever their agenda, & not really into much else.

And now it's like there are people from all orientations that just melt right in to everything that's going on. And so the moral of the story in assessing the issue is: Over time things change. Things ranging from relationships to outlook to ourselves changing as people.

Of course i've already posted on this subject a couple of other times in the past year or so.

As long as people are honest and respectful I have no problems with anyone. Who you are is who you are. Your match was made in heaven long before you came to earth. One thing we all have in common is we all bleed red! Perhaps people are not the problem! Attitude is!

I don,t give a damn,gay,straight or bi! Humans are humans in all their different permutations and deserve respect! Jim.

I have no problems if a person is gay !! For people are people we are living beings, some think they should have been born as a girl when they are a male and vise Versa. Some people are born that way, and others just choose that way of life style. 😃

So true I personally think it is great that we all can learn from each other I'm a wannabe bi slave maid but interested in many other things that I didn't realize till I joined zity it's a whole other world of things for me to try such as enema play and pee play just for starters I'm always open to new thing as I say I'm a wannabe bi slave maid thanks to zity and fri

There is no such thing as homophobia, check out the definition of phobia's and you'll see why.

Personally everyone is welcome straight, homosexual or bisexual, its all fine. And with online does it even matter at all ?