Enemas and Constipation

I love enemas and they are unquestionably the best solution (no pun intended) because they work when you take them and not 6 hours later. that being said I'm not in a position to take them that often so I take Miralax at least 5 days a week. now when I get an enema it's all for fun and sensual enjoyment.

Is there any reason why i cant have an enema every day , rather than medication ?

While I haven't written about every enema I've taken since recovering from my cancer/chemo journey, I have been troubled by constipation more often since before the treatment. I've tried all the suggestions of increasing fiber, drinking more water all to no avail. I tried MiraLax for a time and didn't notice any real great improvement. So what's a person to do? Enemas!

Most all of my enemas are a single bag or part thereof...and thankfully, provide relief. I'm not indulging in my "made for orgasm" enemathon, just something that helps in the moment and offers predictable outcomes.

One day, I hope, my bowel habits will return to some degree of normalcy, but in the meantime, I keep the bag ready to go at moments notice!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

I have struggled with constipation all of my life as indicated by receiving enemas as a child from my mom. My constipation struggles have changed over time in that 40 years ago, I would go about every 5 days before I started to feel really uncomfortable. You can imagine the giant hard deposit that comes out. That has now changed that when day three arrives, I like many other posters here, start thinking about getting out "my friend." My wife, who is anti-enema and has never experienced an enema, encourages me, no let me rephrase that...gets on my case if I let myself go longer than three days. She knows how lousy I feel when I am backed up. So I do what she says and take a moderate sized bagful and feel like a million bucks afterward.

I have a redundant colon, (no fun) but long story short under my PCP's care up too daily enemas if needed, and most of the time that is the only way.. Plus monthly visits to nurse.

I have always liked the erotic side of enemas, it's a huge turn on for me. When I was younger I never really had to much of a problem with constipation. That all changed many years ago when I shattered all of the bones on one of my wrist's. I spent the entire day in the E.R room and the doctors loaded me up on really strong pain killers. I went through two operations to sorta fix my wrist, I still have plates and screws in my wrist holding everything together. I definitely had constipation issues from the pain killers that I was taking then. I still have issues, but not as severe as it was when I was on the pain killers. I believe as a result of all the metal screws and plates that are drilled into my bones it has changed how my body works and it causes my constipation. Enemas are the best way for me to help with my constipation, it's safe and very effective. I usually take a series of enemas one to two times a week depending on how I feel. I belong to the over 70 crowd and It's extremely rare for me to be sick. I attribute that to my increased enema use. People that I meet are also shocked when I tell them my real age, enemas help me stay younger and healthier. They usually ask me if I am in the military or if I lift weights, most of them believe that I am still in the work force and not retired. Enemas have definitely helped me with my constipation and health and I will be taking them till the day I die. In one way my shattered wrist accident was a blessing and enemas are to.

Enemas are much safer and often more effective than laxatives, and of course have fewer side effects. They are rejected because of a false idea of ​​shame.

Enemas are much safer and often more effective than laxatives, and of course have fewer side effects. They are rejected because of a false idea of ​​shame.

There is a very real risk of damage if you aren't careful. Now, reasonable care brings that down into the "not a big problem" range, but people can be very stupid and lazy sometimes.

Women can become constipated just prior to starting menstruation, a hormonal “fact of life” that females of child-bearing age have experienced since the beginning of time.

My husband, with all of his college degrees, was clueless about my menstrual cycle when we got married. Except for his mother, who was quiet about such female conditions, he grew up in a male-dominated family.

I remember one time when we were dating and squabbling about something, he asked why I was so grumpy. “I’m PMS and constipated and I need a laxative!” I told him. Soon after I unexpectedly discovered the enema (a story I have often shared on this site), which was to become a lifelong friend if I was feeling out of sorts at that time of the month.

Per Vicki V; Yes it seems many women suffer from period constipation. I had a girlfriend who had this issue. She had never had enemas growing up but I introduced her to them. She was a really good enema nurse to give to me, but that is a different story. She always mentioned an orgasm would help with period cramps. Anyway, she was always miserable right before her period, so we started a monthly "enema and orgasm" protocol right before her period. I would give her an orgasm, by oral, manual, vibrator or penis stimulation. Then as she lay basking in the afterglow I would give her a full 2 quart enema and get her to hold it a few minutes. After she expelled she would sleep like a baby. Of course I would be happy to oblige with additional orgasms and enemas if she had any additional cramping or constipation during her period! It is a tough job, but someone has to do it! 😉

I liked to give warm water enemas and orgasms during the period, and it really helped her. She would return to her dominant self after nursed her back to health

@Silver_Bullet said,

I belong to the over 70 crowd and It's extremely rare for me to be sick. I attribute that to my increased enema use. People that I meet are also shocked when I tell them my real age, enemas help me stay younger and healthier.

My siblings and I, having received enemas from an early age until our preteens. When our RN grandmother taught us personal hygiene and enemas became our responsibility. Within a couple of months of being responsible for ourselves, my siblings and I started swapping enemas with each other. And this continued on a weekly basis until we graduated from High School. After I got married, my wife and I did weekly enemas until we got divorced. I’m in my seventies now and have been doing enemas a couple of times a month for many years. I don’t take any medication and look like I’m in my early sixties. Did enemas have anything to do with it, I don’t rightly know, but I strongly suspect they have.

@Vicki_V said,

Women can become constipated just prior to starting menstruation, a hormonal “fact of life” that females of child-bearing age have experienced since the beginning of time.

My sister had issues with her period as a teenager. As preteens, our RN grandmother taught us personal hygiene and enemas became our responsibility. Afterwards, we didn’t particularly like doing solo enemas, so we started giving each other enemas when needed or wanted. Once she started her period, she would come and asked me to give her a couple of enemas. Some months, it was every day and other months, it was every other day or whenever she needed one.

When I got a girlfriend in Junior High, and we started doing homework together at my house. It wasn’t long, before she noticed the enema bag hanging in our bathroom and made a commented about which nozzle was attached. By that time, we’d started leaving the douche nozzle attached, because that was the nozzle we were using on a regular basis whenever we gave each other enemas.

Then, one afternoon a couple of months later, she was having issues with her period. So, she asked my sister if she wouldn’t mind giving her a couple of enemas. Which my sister was glad to do, because she had the same issues with period that my girlfriend did. During the enemas that afternoon, my sister did two things. First, she used the douche nozzle to give my girlfriend the enemas. Second, she told my girlfriend about our after-school activities, giving each other enemas when needed. So, she suggested next time my girlfriend needed a couple of enemas for her period, she should ask her brother (meaning me). A month or two later, she did just that and we continued, with a few exceptions, doing enemas together monthly until we finished High School.

Whenever I gave my sister a couple of enemas, she always gave me a couple of enemas afterwards. So, after my sister told my girlfriend about this routine, she did likewise. Giving me a couple of enemas after I had given her a couple of enemas for her period.

Or how many guys PRETENDED to be constipated to get moms enemas growing up??

I sure did

I now usually take enemas just for constipation. I have been on Ozempic for two years. The constipating effect never stops. Mr. Dr. has me taking Mag Oxide which is better than most laxatives. However, if I discontinue it at all I'm plugged. Also, it is hard dialing in the right dosage and frequency. It is not without bend over gut cramps with no resulting BM. Anyway, when I have the time I use a 1.5 qt. soapsuds enema and I feel great. I used to look for an excuse to do an enema, now I really need one all the time.

In the “old days” when a woman was constipated, doctors and nurses often recommended that she take a warm water enema, sometimes adding a little soap, which cleansed the lower portion of the colon. And after a few minutes in the bathroom, she would feel better. It was a healthy thing to do then and still is now when needed.

When needed? How about when wanted for pleasure or entertaining a playmate.

Your childhood would have been an amazing one for me.

Though I received a few from my RN mom, I watched my mom give a few to other neighborhood women, who I think came to my mom to learn how to give enemas so they could have their own enema parties together.

I also watched a neighborhood lady give her nephew a bulb enema before stripping herself off and taking a full bag enema and masturbating to orgasm as I watched.

All of these things happened before I was 10 years old. That was the extent of my enema experiences until I got to college and fell into dating an older woman who was an RN and loved giving me enemas and teaching me to give to her.

Now, many decades later, I still have a couple of enemates and my interest has never waned.

I do and sometimes I do it just because I am going out.

Never for constipation, never had a problem with that. My mother gave me a couple of enemas when young and she told me I hadn’t pooped for a while although I had. Couldn’t talk her out of it! I only did them for fun, relaxation, and stimulation.

Never had a problem with constipation. The only enema from my mom was when I asked her to give me one when I was 9 years old.

I get them for constipation all the time, plus other medical issues

I was always given them because of constipation or before dr appointments.

I learned as a kid that an enema is quicker and more dependable than laxatives, and I like enemas. I can only remember one time in the last ten years that I have been actually constipated and needed an enema for relief. That’s because I don’t wait until I am constipated to have an enema. I believe in preventative measures. Meaning, if I skip a day without a substantial bowel movement, I have an enema before I get totally constipated.

I haven’t used an oral laxative in more than twenty years, other than the doctor prescribed stuff prior to a colonoscopy. I don’t like the unpredictable timing waiting for something to happen. I sometimes use suppositories as a change of pace to start the process, but with two or three glycerin suppositories inserted, the time to work varies from five minutes to never. After the suppositories, I have one or more enemas to finish. Simply put, I don’t wait until I am constipated to give myself an enema.

The few I was given as a child were for constipation and I still use them to deal with that when needed. But probably more often for enjoyment.

Occasionally I use them for constipation but they are more for enjoyment.

When I’m active, exercising, hydrating, eating properly, handling stress — thankfully I’m well past PMS — my colon does what it’s supposed to and doesn’t need any help.

But not always. For years, I’ve had a small spot of inflammation, and what one doctor affectionally called a “lazy colon.” My daughter and husband can usually tell when I’ve missed a day or two. I can be moody and grumpy. “Mom, I think you need an enema.”

Blessedly, I have a close friend tucked away in our linen closet if I'm tied up and have a physical need, or once in a while I just need an emotional cleanse – a stress reliever. I get Pinky out and rather enjoy spending time with her in the bathroom, or occasionally lying in bed with my husband giving the enema and in control, if I’m going through a bad stretch and my colon is rebelling.

I know this would sound strange to a lot of women, but I love my enema bag.

The majority of my enemas are because I enjoy them and take them twice a week. In the event that I am constipated, I will take an enema as opposed to a laxative.

Constipation was not the only reason I was given enemas growing up but it was something I had issues with and sure the majority given by parents were for constipation. I tend to keep on top of it with lifestyle and diet but still come to take a few enemas when things slow down

I do! Without them I would be carrying bricks around. I enjoy them and need them plus I do them for fun.