Oral Sex & Swallowing

My wife had me cum in her mouth once - it was obvious she didn't like it (gagged etc). That was a turn off to me and I told her that wasn't necessary. I actually preferred finishing with her hand, vagina or ass! So did she!

I love swallowing my partner’s load. It’s great and I hate it when my partner spits.

OK, so you had your orgasm and came in the guy's mouth.

Why the fuck does it matter if he spits it out afterward?

OK, so you had your orgasm and came in the guy's mouth.

Why the fuck does it matter if he spits it out afterward?

I suppose that it might matter a great deal as to 'where' he spits it.

I suppose that it might matter a great deal as to 'where' he spits it.

Snowball???

I suppose that it might matter a great deal as to 'where' he spits it.

I'm being serious.

Women I have seen spit usually do it into a tissue or something similar and toss it in the garbage. That's all after the orgasm and ejaculation, so why should anyone care if their partner spits it out?

Just to be clear, I always swallow my husband's ejaculate because he usually shoots it down my throat, it's convenient and there is no clean-up. I am neutral about its taste and consistency so I really don't care where it goes as long as it ISN'T in my eyes or my hair.

... so I really don't care where it goes as long as it ISN'T in my eyes or my hair.

Sigh, ? that was part of my point and could be taken as a bit of humour, if so inclined. I've always swallowed and always will because those men who I want to have their penis in my mouth are there because I want them there and what they have to 'offer'. And that bit is serious but with a bit of humour because when I am going down on one of my men I am serious about wanting this from them and I enjoy that bit of sex play. It is fun to do with my men and if I am sucking their cocks it's because it is somewhat solemn in one way but so very enjoyable to both myself and my man.

If I should snicker at their faces they make when I am getting them to the edge, or once they release, they'd better appreciate that I can find the humour of the moment. But those men I 'go down on' are worthy of my swallowing in that they have the right balance of seriousness and humour. ?

Women I have seen spit usually do it into a tissue or something similar and toss it in the garbage. That's all after the orgasm and ejaculation, so why should anyone care if their partner spits it out?

The 1st woman that let me cum in her mouth, I didn't realize she was going to. So when I could feel myself about ready to cum, i motioned for her to take it out, but she motioned back (like shook her head) that she was okay with me shooting in her mouth. After I shot all i had and it was time to stop, she spit it into a tissue and tossed it in the garbage. Which became her typical procedure, except for a few occasions where I guess it wasn't convenient (then she actually did swallow).

Believe me, I was so happy to be able to cum in her mouth, i was perfectly fine with her spitting it out. And having tasted men's cum myself, certainly can't say I blame her.

My partner takes my full length down her inlet tract most days. It's one of the conditions she demands of me. Who am I to argue with that. This has become a long practiced ritual with us for 30 plus years. We laugh about when it started and the first time she sucked my balls into her mouth. It was our second date when it happened, Got to be honest I was freaking out never had my balls in a lioness's mouth before. I soon realised what a good thing I was on to. Her sucking and swallowing, what an art the dear lady developed. Needless to say we've pretty much been together ever since.

I'm just curious...for those who have several partners they have oral sex with...how do you protect yourself? Sexually transmitted diseases can be obtained through oral sex. So can Hepatitis, which you will have for life.

I'm not talking about people who have been married to the same person.

To me, oral sex is super personal, and it's not just anyone I'd feel like opening up for. It's a multifaceted desire. So unless everyone you've been with has been tested, how do you know, or are you just willing to take that risk with casual sex?

Only with my wIfe. No worries.

I'm just curious...for those who have several partners they have oral sex with...how do you protect yourself? Sexually transmitted diseases can be obtained through oral sex. So can Hepatitis, which you will have for life.

I'm not talking about people who have been married to the same person.

To me, oral sex is super personal, and it's not just anyone I'd feel like opening up for. It's a multifaceted desire. So unless everyone you've been with has been tested, how do you know, or are you just willing to take that risk with casual sex?

@sundaybrunch speaking only for myself, I very much agree with you that 'oral sex is super personal' but then so is all sexual intercourse. But I do believe you also feel this way and that oral sex for you is at a higher level of intimacy that 'mere' sex would be. As I see that you identify as straight I assume you were referring to fellatio and I am answering from this definition, 'sexual activity between people who are not established sexual partners or do not know each other well.' Keeping to that definition I would have to say that I would doubt that you could really be sure of this with someone you do not know well. My partners outside of my marriage, have been both men and women I've known and became friends with prior to having sex with them. I've performed oral sex with all but two of my male partners at least once and all of the women I've had sexual relations with.

I don't believe I could perform oral sex with a partner unless I knew them very well and if I am having sex with them, it is not so much casual as it is an act where there exists a very intimate friendship and no small amount of trust and affection. It is as you say 'super personal', and something I enjoy very much. About the only thing more intimate or 'super personal' that I have come to now know is an enema with someone. And since this topic is about oral sex and swallowing, I swallow the ejaculate of every male partner I go down on. You have to really know your partner and be able to feel confident that they practice safe sex before engaging in any sex act.

When you say, "know your partner", are you referring to them having been screened for STDs?

Because if people are having sex with other people, it's truly sharing germs, no matter how much they are considered to be a good friend. I'm just curious as to how people address this issue. I would have to ask someone to get tested. Just saying, "I don't have anything", doesn't suffice. I'd get tested too, to be fair. It's pretty easy to go to a lab and get tests done now.

When you say, "know your partner", are you referring to them having been screened for STDs?

Because if people are having sex with other people, it's truly sharing germs, no matter how much they are considered to be a good friend. I'm just curious as to how people address this issue. I would have to ask someone to get tested. Just saying, "I don't have anything", doesn't suffice. I'd get tested too, to be fair. It's pretty easy to go to a lab and get tests done now.

I had protected sex with thousands of women (OK - maybe 4 or 5) prior to marriage. My wife had prior sexual activity as well. We were best friends and totally trusted each other. We “knew” our partner and we didn’t get tested before having oral, vaginal and anal sex. We were both in relationships with another partner when we first started having sex so for a time we had two partners.

I don’t disagree that getting tested is a good idea if you have multiple partners. But a small group of close friends you know well and trust is not that different than our situation. It is different than casual sex. Lots of people have short term and multiple affairs - they should definitely get screened.

FWIW - after our marriage, we only had sex with each other (or by ourself). ?

When you say, "know your partner", are you referring to them having been screened for STDs?

No.

The people I fuck or suck or who fuck me or spend some quality time between my legs are friends that I have grown to love over a period of time. I personally know them and trust them and they wouldn't be having me if I did not. And though I may be something of a whore, I don't 'entertain' scores and scores of men or women nor do I belong to any sort of 'Sam's Club For Sex'. They are my friends and I know them and I trust them and won't be requiring them to 'apply' for access by submitting lab test results. These are my most intimate of friends.

I would have to ask someone to get tested. Just saying, "I don't have anything", doesn't suffice. I'd get tested too, to be fair.

Your approach will keep you safe but lacks the personal touch in knowing, truly knowing, the person you are contemplating getting sexually intimate with. I personally would compare this with an acquaintance that I might find attractive or who finds me as such and his / her presenting me with lab results and saying that they would appreciate my doing the same before we could fuck.

Not going to happen.

As I have said, your way will keep you safe. More power to you.

Having been bi for as long as I can remember, and absolutely loving the act of blowing a guy to completion, and then swallowing the ejaculate, it is all about how well you maintain ones own sexual health.

I get checked a week after any meet where cum was deposited in my mouth, and up to date, I have only once caught an sti, which was resolved with a course of antibiotics, after very extensive research on the web, I have found NO cases of HIV being contracted from the practice of swallowing semen.

I enjoy going down on a guy and having him squirt his load in my mouth. Yes, I do swallow and really enjoy the taste. Also enjoy looking into his eyes as he climaxes and hearing those sighs of pleasure

I enjoy going down on a guy and having him squirt his load in my mouth. Yes, I do swallow and really enjoy the taste. Also enjoy looking into his eyes as he climaxes and hearing those sighs of pleasure

i could have written every word of this, except i have gotten to a place where i love to take His semen in my throat vs my mouth. i can usually tell when He is going to cum and i like to take the end of His cock into my throat when He shoots. i love taking a mans orgasm into me, it's like His pleasure becomes mine.

No.

The people I fuck or suck or who fuck me or spend some quality time between my legs are friends that I have grown to love over a period of time. I personally know them and trust them and they wouldn't be having me if I did not. And though I may be something of a whore, I don't 'entertain' scores and scores of men or women nor do I belong to any sort of 'Sam's Club For Sex'. They are my friends and I know them and I trust them and won't be requiring them to 'apply' for access by submitting lab test results. These are my most intimate of friends.Your approach will keep you safe but lacks the personal touch in knowing, truly knowing, the person you are contemplating getting sexually intimate with. I personally would compare this with an acquaintance that I might find attractive or who finds me as such and his / her presenting me with lab results and saying that they would appreciate my doing the same before we could fuck.

Not going to happen.

As I have said, your way will keep you safe. More power to you.

Just remember, "knowing" someone fairly well doesn't mean they don't have something. "Lacking a personal touch" is a weird spin on unprotected sex. We are talking about life and death, if it's something like AIDs, Hepatitis, or others. It only takes one time and "anything wet" can transmit diseases. To me, if someone got insulted or upset, then that's their problem.

People get venereal diseases/STDs from people "they know well" all the time.

In fact, that's usually how it happens.

https://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/news/20020212/most-people-carrying-stds-dont-know

People get venereal diseases/STDs from people "they know well" all the time.

In fact, that's usually how it happens.

https://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/news/20020212/most-people-carrying-stds-dont-know

Herpes, Chlamydia, and others can unnoticeable, too. Someone may not know they even have something, too.

Damn, they have a "Sam's Club for Sex?" Costco doesn't include sex :-(

I almost always swallow when sucking cock. It's an exciting experience. I don't swallow from partners that smoke or have obnoxious odors from certain foods. I also really like to swallow my own cum from a woman's pussy. 😜

Cumming in a woman's mouth is heaven, and then when she wants to share your cum with you, well what a thrill. I have only had one or two women in my whole life that have done that. God was that ever a great event.

Some of the bestest Sex ever. Gotta love a woman who will do that.!

Herpes, Chlamydia, and others can unnoticeable, too. Someone may not know they even have something, too.

The lady speaks the truth. Like ejaculating, the word's "I'm Fine" or "I'm good" come easily and quickly, and there are some bugs there's only treatment for, no cure.

Don't you HATE that!

Not swallowed another guy’s deposit. Have my own loads of times. It is easiest was to tidy up after Masterbating.

It probably should be added that having ANYONE'S bodily fluids in your mouth, or other cavity lined with mucous membrane tissue is potentially as dangerous.

It's "red" in your mouth and elsewhere, because the blood vessels are right at the surface.

My wife swallows every single time and licks my penis clean.

There's nothing to clean up that way. Besides she knows I love it when she keeps sucking until my orgasm is completely over.

It probably should be added that having ANYONE'S bodily fluids in your mouth, or other cavity lined with mucous membrane tissue is potentially as dangerous.

It's "red" in your mouth and elsewhere, because the blood vessels are right at the surface.

When two people have shared all their fluids for over 30 years and have not had any STDs, and believe me I am amazed about that, it's a safe bet they can keep doing it as long as they don't stray from each other.

At the beginning of the covid crisis I told Susan I would not be having sex with her until the pandemic was over because I was too important to get the virus. A day or two later I dropped my pants and told her I wanted a blowjob while she was watching television. She retorted, "I thought you said no sex because you were too important to get Covid." I told her I reconsidered because covid was primarily a lung infection, not a venereal disease.

@Romulus

You are one lucky guy. So is your wife - er, one lucky gal!

It's wonderfull to lick my wife's clit long and softely, drinking her vaginy juice and take her in the 7th heaven. Then we change the roles, I lay on my back and close my eyes. She takes my penis deep between her lips and suck me very gently. When I feel cum soon, I whisper "attention - attention" to her and she let me out and lick my tip with her tongue. Sometimes when I whisper "attention", she shakes her head and keep on sucking me. Then I lay back my head and let it cum into her mouth. She swallows and don't stop until my last drop is gone. Its every time a big surprise for me, knowing not how she will finish me.