Oral Sex & Swallowing

@reggind Okay I don't have any experience, but that doesn't mean I can't share my thoughts. Thanks...

Ok @reggind, first of all if members only commented on threads they had first hand experience with the amount of posts would be at least halved. I am sure you have voiced your opinion on subjects you have not experienced personally.

Now although I do not have much experience giving men oral and I have only swallowed for one man I can tell you that I have a ridiculous gag reflex. I gag like a fool when getting a throat culture or dental xrays. There is no relaxing it for me, I just cant. Certain smells will make me gag as well as the sound of someone vomitting.

The thought of hot, thick, gooey cum being in my mouth makes me gag. I dont “deep throat” I dont like it and have absolutely no desire to do it.

I know I give good oral and knowing that I am in total control allows me to do so.

@bridgette Thank you girly for having my back. 😃 I know that's why I hate the dentist...all the saliva that just sits there. Ugh.

Guys though that give oral sex to a woman don't have to relax their gag reflex. For women to give oral sex to a guy is quite the task I'm assuming anyway (never had any sexual experience) because they have to like not choke. That is my dilemma of oral sex. The relaxing the throat part.

@caresabouthealth When you finally DO get to the point of oral sex with a partner, hopefully with someone you really care about and returns those feelings, make sure he knows you haven’t done it before. He should completely understand and not force anything. You don’t even have to get ‘him’ near your throat, just do what you want and and take it slow. You will learn about what he likes, and what you are comfortable with. Many/most BJs involve hands anyway, so your mouth doesnt have to do everything.

If you ever want to move on to deeper sucking, deep thoating, swallowing, that’s up to you as you gain experience. And TALK about it with your partner - open communication is KEY to a fulfilling sex life!

@caresabouthealth--keep in mind the person in charge of a blow job is the one with the TEETH.

There is no need to worry about anyone ramming their penis down your throat. Tell them not to do it and if they do, just use your masseters.

@CJ1999 Open communication is key to any relationship. I 100% agree.

Love to read about all those experiences from the female point of view

deepthroating is the only way that makes me cum (besides handjobs) since I prefer very loose pussies and butts

I understand that some women don't like to swallow for diverse reasons, but there are ways to finish the job "manually" and that can be very rewarding for both

I have no problem swallowing my lover's cum after sucking him into a frenzy. In fact, I love to do it! I have talked to a few girlfriends and none of them swallow, they say it's "too sticky". I personally disagree; I also like the salty dry flavor and feeling. To me, cum is like a really dry wine; it gives a funny taste/feeling in the back of my throat. It is not unpleasant at all! Would I enjoy a full cup of cum? No. Do I like a "shot" every now and then? Oh yes!

There is no relaxing it for me, I just cant. Certain smells will make me gag as well as the sound of someone vomitting.

The thought of hot, thick, gooey cum being in my mouth makes me gag. I dont “deep throat” I dont like it and have absolutely no desire to do it.

All I can say @bridgette is this...practice makes perfect. ?

Guys--all I can say to you is until you can do this, you have NOTHING to say to the women who can't

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6El7AdXNeg

That girl is quite a sword swallower. I was lucky enough to have had one girlfriend who could do that. Truly an amazing feeling. That being said, taking the entire thing down is not necessary. It is a crazy good feeling, don;t get me wrong there, but there are a lot of other crazy good feelings you can get from a little mouth, a little hand and perhaps a little tittie. One of the things I enjoy contrasting when I watch one of the cumshot compilation videos is the strokers vs the twisters and their techniques.

While my single days are long in the past, for me it all depended upon how the man had treated me during the course of the evening. If we spent the night together, and he had be respectful, caring and nice to me, he was likely to have an evening hopefully he would remember. Had he been demanding, he was likely to get a goodnight, see you around.

Heres what i think.......if i decide to suck a mans cock swallowing his cum is part of the equation.

I love cockfeeding, and even prefer to be fed my partner's semen after he penetrates me vaginally or anally before ejaculation. When he jerks off into my open mouth, or when I hold my lips closed around his shaft when he cums, it is a bonding experience for us.

As a male with upper and lower dentures that I take out I have many men that cum to see me. I swallow all the time and actually have loved to taste the of cum and precum.

I'm a bisexual male. So my opinion is if I like you enough to put your cock in my mouth then I'm not finish until I'm swallowing your cum.

I've only sucked two guys all the way to orgasm, and it was a religious experience both times. I love the sensation of come squirting against the roof of my mouth, and knowing that a penis is feeling that much pleasure inside my head. Swallowing just seems like the natural, loving thing to do.

I love the taste of cum and I'm a little picky about it. In as much that what you put into your body affects the taste. I never suck off a smoker. I have two ways to handle swallowing. First just take the full load and swallow. Or keep it in my mouth and bob back and forth on his cock spreading it and leaking to his ball sack. Then licking it all off slowly.

After so much of trying to convince wifey to let me cum in her mouth, she says she will try!!!! ??? I don't know when it will happens but I'll be back to tell what she thinks about that.

Za

Look forward to hearing all about it Boots !

That brings me to ask, for those that have had it both ways; your lover swallowing vs not swallowing....

What makes it different for you? Is one way more gratifying than the other?

Is there a difference or are just as satisfied as long as you orgasm?

I guess it's more erotic, at least for me, to see my partner swallow my cum.....and don't see it after she opens her mouth.

Za

I've done it once, and it was absolutely nasty. I now warn all partners that if they cum in my mouth, I will bite. They heed the warning.

I’ve swallowed cum from three guys and I never enjoyed it. I think I actually swallowed two and one I had to spit one (my man) out because I almost threw up. Yuck, I did not enjoy the taste or the texture. When I am sucking cock, I know it’s time for sex because I can taste his precum and I don’t want to taste anything else. I don’t mind cum in my vagina or my ass, or even on my tits.

When I did have cum in my mouth, it felt like my entire mouth was full even though it was probably a small amount.

I have been sucked off a couple of times, was a great feeling. The woman who sucked me off, held it in her mouth and then we kissed, she shoved some my cum into my mouth and we both swallowed it. Was a great experience and we did it a couple more times. She and I did that a couple more times on different occasions, one of the best experiences I have ever had. Wish we could do it again. She left us a number of years ago.

Boots! So happy for you! Please let us know when it happens! I swallow, but didn't always. The trick is holding the penis in question as far back in your throat as possible so it goes straight down the hatch! I know some medication and foods can change the taste. I know when my x husband was on many narcotics it was awful. For some it's an acquired taste, I don't mind it. Very intimate act to do for your partner, hearing the moans, thier balls tighten, and especially looking up at them, while you suck WOW! Good stuff!!

Wolfie

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I takes a long time to come But a blowjob when given right is the most beautiful feeling i have ever had ..it makes me feel satisfied and wanted

I have upper and lower dentures which I take out when sucking cock I always swallow a guys cum love to snowball if he wants

I love swallowing my partner’s load. It’s great and I hate it when my partner spits.

My thoughts are it is my god given right as a woman to give amazing head. Swallowing is 100% integral to the intimacy of that experience.

The few men that have cum in my mouth were all over 60, all but one over 70. I don't know if that contributes to the horrible sour taste, and thankfully small load. I would incidentally swallow, meaning I didn't gulp it, and whatever went down went down. Probably most of it went down. Thankfully the load was never grandiose. Eventually, I'd get out to the car where a bottle of water would be waiting. I'd rinse well and spit out whatever was in my mouth. Then go home and oral hygiene to death.

I let them cum in my mouth, as I know how much I enjoy cumming in someone else's mouth. As I live by the "do unto others..."

The last woman whose mouth I came in, she used to spit out most of the time, but occasionally swallowed when it was inconvenient to spit. I fell so much in love with her, because I thought the act felt like the deepest kind of love you could have. And when that relationship ended, II spent several years depressed.

And now I can find several willing older men to take me in their mouths. And enjoy it as much as I do exploding in them.