Oral Sex & Swallowing

I prefer not to swallow. I will but if I'm allowed the choice I prefer not to.

I swallow always. Am I weird? Maybe I am. I always knew I was weird.

I always enjoy swallowing.

I've always swallowed... I just didn't know what else to do...

I love to swallow cum. I enjoy the taste and theres something about swallowing that just creates a bond between us.

Always swallow gladly... never even thought of spitting.

Although I’m in my 60’s, I discovered my bi side late in life. So, I’ve only started having sex with men in the past few years. The first time I finally worked up the courage to suck another man to completion was an epiphany for me. I loved the feel of him exploding in my mouth and swallowing his cum. It’s something that I now look forward to with excitement and pleasure.

I’ve only recently started to provide oral sex to my boyfriend... in the past, I was never a fan of oral sex... either giving or recieving... what I’ve learned in my relationship however, that sometimes I don’t want to have sex, but feel like pleasing him so he’s happy- this led me to start offering to blow him. My learning of liking it came when his reaction of pleasure overtook his body- I was so turned on by him being turned on, that I drank his seed for the first time, and I really felt like it was his gift to me 😃 hahaha - it was hot, and now I love it!

Well I swallowed that first time and have never stopped. I really don’t see what the problem is. I know some women refuse but it really isn’t that bad and guys love it. I can tease a guy showing him or dribbling it on his cock and sucking off again. Anyway it saves the tissues cleaning up. No mess or evidence. If you are being naughty. Lol

I ALWAYS swallow. sometimes I like to jack off onto his dick and suck all my cum off him and keep going till he cums in my mouth also.

I guess I am lucky, my SO loves to swallow. She often comes from swallowing. Even if I am not doing anything else to her.

I never thought about not swallowing my husbands semen. If I finger myself during his orgasm I am too excited at that moment to even realize I am swallowing. With someone other than my husband, they always have a condom on so it is a different thing altogether. It is usually an accident during foreplay because I am not familiar with the sexual response and I go to far.

Dita

Ever since man and woman started having sex women have always been on the receiving side. Whether we take his cum in our vagina, ass, or mouth.

We don't spit it out of the first two, so why should we spit it out after a blow job?

The answer to this is quite simple--AND YOU KNOW IT.

Many women don't like the taste and want it out of their mouth right away, especially if they don't like men cuming in their mouth in the first place.

I had never swallowed until recently. I have a ridiculous gag reflex and just the thought of hot, thick, goey cum ( never mind the taste) was enough to have me close to dry heaving . I had only given oral to one person and had zero desire to swallow. If I did happen to catch a taste it had me spitting and was simply off putting to me .

Fast forward to recently, with a different partner and things were just different, I loved the taste of him, his cock, his pre-cum, and then his semen. It turned me on so much knowing I was pleasuring him, making him moan, watching him tense up then finally get to that release. I wanted all of him and it was so satisfying.

It also helped that he doesn’t ejaculate a big gooey mess and he just tastes absolutely delicious!

@bridgette That's one of the hottest things I've read in a while.

I always wanted to be good and please my partners, I prefer when he's lying on his back, gives me optimum control without gag reflex to blow him deep as he watch.

Some dicks are so good .... mmm what the taste will be like ? ...

I've said in the past that I like a good cock once in awhile. Just not who or what its attached too.

With that said I've always had an interest in males orgasm and jizz. I love watching the process of arousal and throbbing. The precum and finally the eruption and final release.

I like watching it shoot and then roll out like lava down a hill side. A creamy lava. I like licking it up and claiming it as mine.

I also enjoy controlling the moment with my mouth. Not only the sucking and licking but the sliding and taking deep into my throat. Watching him almost lose his mind. Using my teeth to control things and finally bring him to cum deep in my throat. So swallowing isn't a big issue for me. Plus men can be so controlled by starting the next round before he has "rested".

Yes I am evil.

Faith

"...any consensus..."

There seems to be a lot of consensus among gay guys on this one from similar discussions i have seen on gay sites. From what i personally feel/want, and from what i have read, having a guys cum is a huge focal point, so spitting the cum out isn't even on the radar. When reading the discussions on gay sites, spitting cum out is tantamount to sacrilege lol.

For me it would almost be impossible to not swallow with out interrupting the sex, but then, i love to take it deep when i feel Him cumming, so there is no chance of storing it in my cheek. i find many guys pleasure/orgasm doesn't end at the moment of ejaculation and haste to spit out cum can result in cutting the orgasm short. It's different for every guy, an individual thing, but in my experience most guys don't want to immediately pull out and i usually hold His cock deep in my mouth/throat, continuing to milk the underside of the base of His cock after He shoots. i have discovered about 9 outta 10 guys really like that, and you do have to read His sensitivity and be careful to not overload His senses. i find there is that 10% that just want to run as soon as they cum, but they have been the minority in my experience.

When I'm having sex and my man cums, his cum will be inside of me whether it is my vagina, my anus, or my mouth, it doesn't matter. I've let him into me and I'm going to accept what cums because that is part of sex for me. The first time I had oral sex with my husband it never entered my mind that I would be having him ejaculate anywhere else but in me. Admittedly, that first time I didn't know what to expect and the force in which he came did surprise me and I may have gagged, but I had him my mouth at the right angle and everything was fine.

From then on though, I had a lot better idea of what to expect and there just was no question as to my swallowing. When my man cums neither he nor I are going to have to worry about what to do with his ejaculate. 😉

For me it would almost be impossible to not swallow with out interrupting the sex, but then, i love to take it deep when i feel Him cumming, so there is no chance of storing it in my cheek. i find many guys pleasure/orgasm doesn't end at the moment of ejaculation and haste to spit out cum can result in cutting the orgasm short.

Brilliantly stated! It completely ruins the orgasm if a person giving me oral service either stops sucking when I am about to ejaculate or holds the semen in his mouth and spits it out. I will not accept oral from anyone who does not agree to swallow and continue working until I give the word that I am finished.

I can't imagine why anyone would not want to swallow. It's like the prize.

@becca sadly there is a cross section of the female population that does not enjoy swallowing. There is also a cross section of the male population that is not into licking pussy. I know, it seems strange from both ends, doesn't it? Even stranger when one person enjoys having their parts brought to an oral climax but does not believe in returning the favor.

I see it as me being in control of getting my partner to his satisfaction. Having him ejaculate in my mouth means I have done a great job and swallowing will only complete the sexual feeling/experience. It also makes me feel satisfied as giving myself 100% to my partner.

Now I do have to say that my partner has to be clean and respectful of me, I don't like to be treated in a forced oral job. Or any sexual act.

With the rare but fun exception of my cum ending up in a snowballing kiss I don't know why but not having my cum swallowed almost feels like an insult. It is the best feeling when you get the clear impression that your cum is actually wanted and enjoyed swallowed down greedily with a smile.

Maybe this sounds dumb, but I wouldn't know how NOT to swallow. What are you supposed to do, suck and lick a man and then gag/vomit his cum up from the back of your throat when he cums?

Even if I didnt like the taste the fastest way to get rid of it would be swallow, not hold it in my mouth and look for somewhere to spit? Why?

I dont get spitting and never have. If that is your thing more power to ya, but i dont get it.

The options are up to me since I'm in control (unless I'm thanking him for a spanking), and I happen to like variety. Sometimes I like to feel his cock deep in my throat, pulsing in my mouth as he shoots and me gulping down the cum as my mouth motion makes him crazy. Often I will have his cock in my mouth and be still, and feel every twitch he has; then I can either swallow with him in my mouth and make him say, "No, no, no" half begging because he's so sensitive, or I can slip his cock out and then swallow separately. Occasionally I'll keep his cock in my mouth and then open my lips and let his hot cum pour over his cock head and down the shaft - and sometimes lick some off and hear him beg to stop. Once in a while I gag. A cum filled kiss is always nice, too! Just depends on the mood and it's all great - and I'm lucky he loves oral as much as I do (both ways)!

Guys though that give oral sex to a woman don't have to relax their gag reflex. For women to give oral sex to a guy is quite the task I'm assuming anyway (never had any sexual experience) because they have to like not choke. That is my dilemma of oral sex. The relaxing the throat part.

Swallowing is part of the pleasure of giving a BJ. I enjoy the taste of the semen as he climaxes and if my GF is there, I will share with her or if she is giving the BJ, she will share with me. And when I am getting myself off or milking myself I will swallow my own cum.

Guys though that give oral sex to a woman don't have to relax their gag reflex. For women to give oral sex to a guy is quite the task I'm assuming anyway (never had any sexual experience) because they have to like not choke. That is my dilemma of oral sex. The relaxing the throat part.

True this, two very different experiences, at least when it comes to the mechanics involved, eh? In my experience, the similarity lies in being in control of ones partners pleasure, though each derives it differently.

It took me time and practice to be able to open up and throat a guy, and i still have to psych myself into it, or more accurately, i have to take care not to psych myself out. i still gag sometimes, but i am less likely to get freaked out like i used to. For me, i get into His pleasure so much that it helps me keep working at it and i've found over time that i get a lot of positive feedback. But i don't mind practice, i love a Tops pleasure.

I'm assuming anyway (never had any sexual experience)

The average amount of ejaculate is about half a teaspoon. The average human mouth can hold 4.22 ounces. One teaspoon is .166667 oz. So if you have an average sized mouth, and the guys just drop their cum in it it, you should be able to hold just over 25 mens worth of jizzum.

Now it may shock you as it comes out very quickly, approximately 45 km/hr, or just shy of 28 MPH.

I am picking a bit here. If you have no experience you might want to consider looking things up on the web or abstaining. Save your typing for when you have something with some sort of substance to bring to the table.

Anyway, now you know your mouth can *easily* accommodate the volume of one guy, if not an entire football team, and perhaps a bit of what to expect now that you know the speed at which it will be spewing out.